Blackpill People turning 30+ : Expectation vs reality

[Deleted member 23656]

Going into your 30s is a huge step. And the reason is expectations. According expectations (aka boomers) men who enter their 30s should have achieved the following:

Married with family
Have children
Have a house
Have a car
Have a career (this mean a job that isn't dead end)
Have the ability to lead others at work
Have an image of just generally being responsible and having his shit together

But in reality a lot of men who approach that age look like this

They also

Aren't married (or barely are)
Have no children
Have no house or car. Still live with parents
Choked with debt
In a dead end job with no future
Can't even be responsible for himself much less lead others
Uses money to do hobbies like consooming capeshit, Lego, Vidya and weed
Just generally does not take responsibility like one would expect of him

Btw this isn't a meme. Maybe they don't all look like stereotypes of the guy above but clearly men mature a lot slower now. A lot of men definitely aren't meeting the requirements expected of a 30s person.

And btw this isn't just a USA thing. In places like Japan it's probably even worse

So my question is what happened? Is this just cherry picking or are a significant number of men going to end up like this?

 

[BummerDrummerOG]

Jews putting shit in the water to turn us faggoty

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Expectation: Rope
Reality: Rope

rip @0hope1rope, has not logged in for a month

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I hate that only soys play switch tbh

 

[Deleted member 24160]

No it's not cherrypicking I think a lot of men will end up like the guy above.

 

[Anonymous MG]

Going into your 30s is a huge step. And the reason is expectations. According expectations (aka boomers) men who enter their 30s should have achieved the following:

Married with family
Have children
Have a house
Have a car
Have a career (this mean a job that isn't dead end)
Have the ability to lead others at work
Have an image of just generally being responsible and having his shit together

This is my expectation upon finishing my education and entering into an upper-level CS job based on my connections to people in upper management at significant tech companies.

Boomers have an unrealistic expectation of the common man, must be because of the fact that they generally don't know exactly what a cultural shift between generations could possibly be and that opportunities they had could possibly close down pewpew.

 

[Deleted member 23656]

This is my expectation upon finishing my education and entering into an upper-level CS job based on my connections to people in upper management at significant tech companies.

Boomers have an unrealistic expectation of the common man, must be because of the fact that they generally don't know exactly what a cultural shift between generations could possibly be and that opportunities they had could possibly close down pewpew.

Lol. If a Stanford guy in the heart of silicon valley only has these expectations, what does that mean for the rest of us who aren't even that?

That's A LOT of men entering disappointment in the future right there

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Boomers have an unrealistic expectation of the common man, must be because of the fact that they generally don't know exactly what a cultural shift between generations could possibly be and that opportunities they had could possibly close down pewpew.

Exactly this. So much has changed since their time that they are ignorant of.

 

[singleplayercel]

Boomers have an unrealistic expectation of the common man, must be because of the fact that they generally don't know exactly what a cultural shift between generations could possibly be and that opportunities they had could possibly close down pewpew

high IQ
boomers are stuck in the past

 

[Deleted member 24293]

I have a car which is my biggest achievement in life. I’m planning to (once I’m diagnosed with cancer or a disease that leads to disability) commit suicide in my car. You know. The overly dramatic “drive into the woods, park at a nice, remote spot, lock my car doors and inhale a fuckton of Helium with a plastic bag over my head.

but as long as I’m healthy I’m staying here. Wanna see with my eyes were this is going.

 

[Spioenkop1]

100% agree. But it’s not boomers fault, they still had a lot of real men . Millennials will go down in history as the soyboy generation. I don’t expect the west will ever recover from us. And teenagers today are even worse, the once born from 2000 upwards will be generation snowflake, biggest pussies in history.

 

[Anonymous MG]

Lol. If a Stanford guy in the heart of silicon valley only has these expectations, what does that mean for the rest of us who aren't even that?

That's A LOT of men entering disappointment in the future right there

If you're Chad you can check every box that I didn't fill,

but I'm sure everyone already knows that Chad always wins pewpew.

 

[The Incel Decade]

They learnt from their Dad's generation. Your family can be taken from you any moment, your wife can leave you and take your house after you've wage slaved all your life. And that's before going into the state of the dating market for non-Chads.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I don’t want to reach 30

 

[Anonymous MG]

They learnt from their Dad's generation. Your family can be taken from you any moment, your wife can leave you and take your house after you've wage slaved all your life. And that's before going into the state of the dating market for non-Chads.

You'd think they've at some point removed alimony from divorce settlements, as the original purpose of one spouse being entirely financially dependent on the other is now invalid. Oh, and the government has fuck all subtlety in its bias towards females in court cases. Shorter sentences, guaranteed child custody as long as they're not shooting up heroin in court, and the ability to take half your shit.

Might as well gives females a pass that says they can walk up and take whatever a man has in his wallet or on his person with no repercussions, they can do fucking anything with little to no repercussions anyway pewpew.

 

[reallyunfuckable]

Illuminati putting shit in the water to turn us faggoty

 

[Glokta]

You'd think they've at some point removed alimony from divorce settlements, as the original purpose of one spouse being entirely financially dependent on the other is now invalid. Oh, and the government has fuck all subtlety in its bias towards females in court cases. Shorter sentences, guaranteed child custody as long as they're not shooting up heroin in court, and the ability to take half your shit.

Might as well gives females a pass that says they can walk up and take whatever a man has in his wallet or on his person with no repercussions, they can do fucking anything with little to no repercussions anyway pewpew.

Alimony is a racket, and it makes the state and the lawyers very wealthy. It's not meant to be fair at all. The main purpose of it, is to transfer wealth away from people who are careful with money (men) to people who just want to spend, spend and spend (women), thus generating income for the plutocrats in charge and for the middleman (lawyers).