People think you're not interested in sex

[UnwantedVirgin]

In real life amongst family and family friends people perceive me as not having any interest in sex or relationships since I've always been single and never hooked up with anyone, when that sort of thing never came to fruition it turned into a learned helplessness and I always shut down when people asked me about my non-existent love life.

Would it be worth breaking this mold and talking to family members about it? It's been playing on my mind big time recently and I'm not sure if bottling it up is good anymore.

 

[northland]

why would u want to talk to your family about being an incel tbh

 

[pyroarty]

Honestly how worse can it make your situation. Go ahead talk with them maybe ask for some help and tips. It'll be better than asking us since we are on the same situation.

 

[pyroarty]

why would u want to talk to your family about being an incel tbh

Well their dad married their mom so they probably know one thing or two about relationships

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

why would u want to talk to your family about being an incel tbh

Not inceldom directly but just the being forever single and sexless aspect, I won't mention any incel or blackpill terminology.

Honestly how worse can it make your situation. Go ahead talk with them maybe ask for some help and tips. It'll be better than asking us since we are on the same situation.

That's what I'm thinking, once the initial embarrassment is over it might feel good getting it all off my chest to someone IRL for once rather than people online. I don't expect it'll actually help me get a gf or sex but it'll be a form of mental acceptance for me.

 

[pyroarty]

mental acceptance.

For sure

 

[northland]

Not inceldom directly but just the being forever single and sexless aspect, I won't mention any incel or blackpill terminology.

that's nice if they are the type willing to talk to you and give advice, a lot of parents aren't like that

 

[BornToLose]

Honestly how worse can it make your situation.

A hell of a lot tbh. They'll think ALL he's interested in is sex, before calling the police/social workers.

 

[pyroarty]

A hell of a lot tbh. They'll think ALL he's interested in is sex, before calling the police/social workers.

Inceldom is not about sex but the lack of a partner. if i could get a partner who was unable to have sex i would say yes just because of the company.

If their parents love OP they'll understand their situation.

 

[BornToLose]

Inceldom is not about sex but the lack of a partner. if i could get a partner who was unable to have sex i would say yes just because of the company.

If their parents love OP they'll understand their situation.

Yes but normons think incels are obsessed with sex and nothing else.

 

[pyroarty]

Yes but normons think incels are obsessed with sex and nothing else.

This are not normies being toxic on inceltears these are their parents in real life

 

[BornToLose]

This are not normies being toxic on inceltears these are their parents in real life

A normie is anyone not an incel or at the very least not mentally ill. OP's parents are normies. They will not understand.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

For sure

Thank you for understanding.

that's nice if they are the type willing to talk to you and give advice, a lot of parents aren't like that

I'm not expecting any useful advice to come out of their mouths just the usual bluepilled shit, Dad will probably avoid it anyway. It'll be a form of laying my failed teens and twenties to rest and coming to terms with it out loud.

A hell of a lot tbh. They'll think ALL he's interested in is sex, before calling the police/social workers.

hmm good point, what if I avoid the sex part and just focus on being forever single whilst everyone-else managed to get partners? Stealth blackpill conversations.

 

[LifeMaxxer]

Would it be worth breaking this mold and talking to family members about it?

If you aren't autistic and can tell when the conversation is going in a bad direction to cut it short, then sure. At the same time though, it'll will be very very awkward.

 

[pyroarty]

A normie is anyone not an incel or at the very least not mentally ill. OP's parents are normies. They will not understand.

I know they're normies but before everything they're their parents and they will understand

 

[Amir]

No one wants to picture an ugly person having sex

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

If you aren't autistic and can tell when the conversation is going in a bad direction to cut it short, then sure. At the same time though, it'll will be very very awkward.

I'm autistic unfortunately, when will be a good time to cut it short? What if I wait until my parents have had a few drinks? They might forget about it in the morning then.

 

[BornToLose]

I know they're normies but before everything they're their parents and they will understand

Big time cope. But replying to the OP above yes you will get more sympathy by just saying you're romantically-starved or whatever but it won't actually get you anywhere.

 

[Truckzo]

No one wants to picture an ugly person having sex

 

[bigantennaemay1]

Yup. And if any woman catches wind that you are, in fact, interested in sex, they instantly and permanently become absolutely afraid of you, like you're a grape just waiting to happen.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

but it won't actually get you anywhere.

Such is life as an ugly male unfortunately, people are happy to set their attractive friends and family up on dates but never the ugly ones. "You'll find someone, there's someone for everyone!" Clearly not when you're almost 30 and still wondering what the inside of a girls mouth feels like.

Yup. And if any woman catches wind that you are, in fact, interested in sex, they instantly and permanently become absolutely afraid of you, like you're a grape just waiting to happen.

"Nobody owes anyone sex! (except me when I haven't been fucked in over a week teeheehee)"

 

[Snhook]

I'd say it's worth a shot since it's better than them continuing on thinking that you don't care about not having a re;relationship.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

I'd say it's worth a shot since it's better than them continuing on thinking that you don't care about not having a re;relationship.

Next time someone asks me about girlfriends or anything of that nature IRL I will tell them "nobody has ever shown me any interest neither has anyone reciprocated" and take it from there. I'm hoping my female cousin asks and offers to ask one of her fat single friends if they'll date me, then she can see me being rejected in real time.

 

[Immolator]

No one wants to picture an ugly person having sex

 

[NoLooksNoLife]

No one wants to picture an ugly person having sex

 

[bigantennaemay1]

"Nobody owes anyone sex! (except me when I haven't been fucked in over a week teeheehee)"

Females, experts of projection, and opening their legs for Chad, but not much else.