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RageFuel People aren't friends; they find fuzzy mushy shit fake. It's not about love, it's about primal status.

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Everyone aren't friends. They're ceaselesssly thinking people will betray eachother/ sell out one another/ invest in someone else, and even if they don't they know they'll stay because of primal capital/ superficial value. Which takes the idea of real heart to heart connection out of the question.
It's all bullshit. Everyone knows it's about material substance.

This embitters people, makes them blackpill, and eventually makes them see past the illusion that having a good heart will be appreciated. They go for superficial status instead, and then spite society passively for being people who never valued a good heart over a hierarchy in which will lead to disrespect/ marginalization/ dehumanization of you. I hate that too. Even if I weren't incel I hate it. You can't blame everyone for being evil. Some people are truly primal/ insensible, and then there are just tortured souls who wish the world was an uncorrupted filthpile. It's the natural course to evolve into someone who is an asshole, and hates mankind for being superficial at the expense of caring for eachother's hearts. Even if you're not completely good looking, you will be marginalized/ dehumanized for being low value on some primal hierarchy for just being a good person.
Being insecure about primal hierarchies is even what the totally competent are. But I choose not to view my self worth over it. I choose to hate people based on their emphasis of it.

The crux of love is material substance/ sociostincive (being special/ different/ standing out) relation. It's not equal opportunity.

We only try to get the right ornamentations of primal value/ superficial substance (the physicals/ the hard to attain) and then fill in the mushy mushy later. But deep down we're all thinking about finances/ looks/ money/ status/ genetics/ etc. That's the side that people are really considering. Mushy mushy fluffy wuzzy stuff is the luxury, but since we all know people value that "contextually" and not in of itself, including ourselves, then we focus on getting the fluffy wuzzy with the right context, and hoping to be the thing people wanna fluffy wuzzy with with the right context.
There's so much out there that is not just fluffy wuzzy that to say that is the main thing that makes human beings connect; compassion lvoe, grac,e consideraiton, etc. It isn't. It's the right context people are looking for; their primal checklist.
Primal emphasized things like looks, money, status, competence, achievement, reflex deftness, prominent power, etc.

We all know people are superficial. They know that the core of bondship isn't mushy mushy. That's a lie. It's all about power.
There is mushy mushy though, but it's not in the spirit of loving a good nature, but primal power. It's essentially isolationism.
It truly is like a rich perosn giving grace and love to their kids, but when someone else's kids come onthe scene they tell them to fuck off, they're ruining the scenery at the park.
We're just trying to act like we never had to logistically focus on it. That our life was so luxurious that we didn't have to focus on the lgoistics to make things work.
That's why women blue pill. So that they hope that people won't think the causation of their blackpill is being a loser, which is a common correlation.

People are more afraid of being rejected, being a loser, failing than acutally enjoying friendships. The only reason we think the upside of haivng a firnedship is worht all the time/ effort/ energy in maintianing it is because we, as social creature,s need narcissistic supply for feleing achieved neough to have a friendship such as that.
 
Not about how you intend, but how you are received/ perceived. That's why bright eyed white people who go into the world end up getting beat down by the disappointment of human selfishness.
And most people are superficial/ hepped up on partisanarchy comparisons. (hierarchy based on someone's preferences). And most things on the preferentiarchy are primally emphasized.
So preferentiarchy from primal impulse take charge over the proper preset we think people ought to have... which doesn't exist. Which is fratty fellowhood. No one has that. vile, dark, disgusting.
 
I see that shit when I was 19

IQ beyond Universe
 
To claim friendships do not exist is really superficial, human relations are not, can not, be watered down to simple dynamics of power.
 
To claim friendships do not exist is really superficial, human relations are not, can not, be watered down to simple dynamics of power.

I think after a certain age your ability to make friendships significantly decreases
Only friends I have are the ones I was close with during my childhood and early puberty
 
i don't want friends and have actively cut off contact with my friends. last time i went to the bar with them it seemed we had nothing in common and i couldn't help but feel it was more work than it was worth and they were annoying. the less interaction with anyone the better.
 
I think after a certain age your ability to make friendships significantly decreases
Only friends I have are the ones I was close with during my childhood and early puberty
It's less "decreasing ability to make friendships" and more "having to care about everything else", when we're kids/teenagers we don't really have much else to do other than socialise, and that's when you can find a legitimate friend. But I will agree with op that adult "friendships" are mostly about networking
 
That's why bright eyed white people who go into the world end up getting beat down by the disappointment of human selfishness.
You pretty much described my life story
 
The only place to make true friends is in school. MAYBE the first year of college. After that it's over.
 
To claim friendships do not exist is really superficial, human relations are not, can not, be watered down to simple dynamics of power.
I didn't. I just said that's what people primally crave, and everyone gets swept up in it.
Most of love gets revolved around primal preference, whether that's high power, or easy submission/ convenience.
There is limited focus/ brain power. We have to base our interests collectively on power on some point.
And the more we coat our preferences with elitism/ dominance/ tyranny/ etc... then the higher we feel.
We get wound up in pride, biding and biding and shooting for the moon when it's safe.
A lot of the time people "want friends" when they need to justify their existence, and feel worthy.
But that's just seeking worthiness.
Most of the most pleasant friendships are when you feel powerful/ get something resembling of power.
Is it reductionist? No. It's the basis.
It's not reductionist to say that houses are made of wood, brick and steel. It's just the most common foundation.
I'm not saying it's all of it, I'm just saying it's the frequent foundation.

People are SCRAMBLING for favor when they know LOVE/ MUSHY element isn't there. Not for the sake of the soul... for the sake of the superficial substance.
They aren't calculating that. They're calculating the primal status/ dominance/ power/ superficiality display that will come into place and make things great from the halo of the subject's presence.
Not the natural chemistry.
They're afraid of themselves showing low primal value, but if you wanted real companionship, why would you do it with someone superficially judgmental who doesn't value your commitment/ attention/ favor?
Why? Why be with someone with that kind of abuse


Because if they did CARE about you they'd be toooo mushy... People want to be atop with the elite, not to be in harmony. They want harmony that reflects their eliteness, dominance, elegance, distinctiveness, etc. They want an idiostinction (noun for individual capacity to stand out) with who they are with.
People aren't pursuing sensible people.. they're pursuing dark/ aloof/ taciturn dominarchs. They love being in the presence of darkness and want to suit for it instead of making mankind more communal, or finding inner pleasure in seeing the majority of mankind being happy.
People are stumbly/careful subjective people feeling/ sampling the waters. And they seek out validation from the most elite in order to verify their own value from their reactions...
The powerful are being puppeteered.
They tippytoe sociality. Even women use hot guys to see if they're verified of value based on what their opinion/ perspective is indicating. Women pick the best examples of judgment/ discerning certain qualities, and then act in the ways they approved of for manipualtion.
Everyone is insecure and calculating on how to minimize their flaws and maximize performation.

It's a manipulation game. People are trying to uprank. They get more pissed off of not getting gratification for being #1 than being lonely. In my opinion if you cuck and know your role you can get people to at least be around you often... they won't love you but they will at least be around you. But it's right for us all to hate that existence.
 
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