People ar work treat me like an actual retard.

[NorthernWind]

It's extremely dehumanizing.

 

[myglockismydick]

brootal. hope you feel better soon.
what happend exactly?

 

[Lonelyus]

It's extremely dehumanizing.

Its how the natural order is, Ugly loose

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

It's extremely dehumanizing.

Why?

 

[Izayacel]

People gonna be Shit , whats New even

 

[Macrocephalus]

Been there. Done that

 

[ADHD_cel]

Mind sharing some details? I’m gonna start my work soon and I’m scared af

 

[NorthernWind]

brootal. hope you feel better soon.
what happend exactly?

I don't feel bad. I'm accustomed to it.
E.g. normans often use diminutives when calling my name. And treat me in a patronizing manner.

 

[NorthernWind]

Why?

Strange question. Do you like being treated inferior?

 

[NorthernWind]

Mind sharing some details? I’m gonna start my work soon and I’m scared af

Look at post #10.

 

[NorthernWind]

Condolences brocel.
Don't talk to them unless you are forced to for work related situations. Even then , keep your sentences short and try to stay away from getting any unnecessary attention.

Be ok with being the loner. Yes you will suffer even more socially at the start but trying to befriend normies always ends badly because they'll use you as a punching bag for fun. Eat alone , do everything alone. Being alone pays off when you know normies just want to hurt you whenever around.

Try your best to be independent. Before you ask for help , try to find out if you can do it yourself. Do your best to not depend on anybody but only yourself.

If possible please NEET. I don't think there is any 'winning' tactic or solution or key to being treated like a human being as an incel.
We cannot win. They purposely rigged the game so we will never feel accepted.

If you have no choice but to wageslave , please just avoid normies as much as possible and keep yourself protected and safe at all times.
Don't be foolish or naïve and fall for their traps such as if they try bait you into a verbal argument.

If they put their hands on on you which is unlikely but still always possible knowing how crazy normies are , push them back and run the opposite direction rather than hit them and say its self-defense that way you can avoid any legal issues. But you shouldn't have to worry about that.

Take care and do your best to find your best copes available.

Thanks. I rarely talk at work. For normies, conversations are usually about power struggles.

 

[Tactical Cope]

Brutal af, all the people in my life talk to me like i'm 12 years old or ignore me. There's just no winning as an ugly male.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Strange question. Do you like being treated inferior?

I meant why do they treat you like a retard?

 

[Magicmirror]

Don't worry brother you are not alone at least here you are not

I am sorry that this happend to you. It is not fair at all

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Join the club. This is what happens when you’re ugly.

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[NorthernWind]

I meant why do they treat you like a retard?

Obviously they think that I'm inexperienced, 'immature ', naive, not made for this world etc. This can be partially true but as long as I work on pair with them and even work harder than many other workers, they should at least treat me with some respect.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Obviously they think that I'm inexperienced, 'immature ', naive, not made for this world etc. This can be partially true but as long as I work on pair with them and even work harder than many other workers, they should at least treat me with some respect.

Re: Social Anxiety: Will it ever go away? AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #146490988Sunday, September 21, 2014 2:58 AM CDT Well, It's entirely impossible to determine whether your anxiety will ever truly resolve, It's a condition that requires you to try to the best of your ability to change your perception of the situation's that trigger your anxiety, It's certainly not a condition that I would personally consider easy to resolve. There's going to be many times when the anxiety affects your over-all thinking to such a degree that you may even become frightened and terrified so much that it could significantly affect your quality of life and perhaps trigger depressive thoughts, It can also worsen in many cases depending on the situation. Over-all, although "Social Anxiety Disorder" may be a very depressing condition that can often cause you to be extremely paranoid and frightened and although it can be a very difficult and to handle and can last for a very long duration of time, the outcome depends on how you decide to manage the problem.

Re: Social Anxiety: Will it ever go away? AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #146491038Sunday, September 21, 2014 3:00 AM CDT "Social Anxiety Disorder" Actually, "Generalized Anxiety Disorder" would be appropriate as social anxiety is a form of the disorder itself.

Re: I never understood why people have a " crush" AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #147224032Thursday, October 02, 2014 11:14 PM CDT "I'm actually getting over it" Don't misinterpret this statement as aggression however, different people have are each affected to a different degree by "Anxiety" and have different causes, simply because one person may have their "cause" and "effect" well controlled doesn't necessarily mean someone else will their "problem" controlled as well as the other person, self-initiative is certainly vital, however.