The gym I go to has 24 hour access with a key fob. On Sundays, no staff are present, other than the owner occasionally stopping by to do a few quick rounds. That means the front door is locked and members have to scan their fob on the side door and it unlocks. I was doing a workout and the machines were by the main entrance - a glass door that was locked outside of official business hours. I see a foid knocking on the door. Very young, late teens probably.
I answer "You gotta use the side door"
She gives me the pleading doe eyes, the kind of expression that foid reserve for Chads (something I NEVER get unless they want something in return)
Her: "I don't have the key"
Me: "Then I can't open for you, sorry"
She then gives me a death stare, storms off, gets in the passenger seat of a car, driven by a man (I couldn't tell who he was - dad, bf, or brother). They drive off.
The gym has a sign that if anyone is let in with your fob, you'll risk membership cancellation. And there's cameras EVERYWHERE in this gym. I'm not going to risk losing one of my few copes in life as a gymcel.
About 10 minutes later I see the bitch, entering via the side door. She had the fob but didn't feel like getting it
She probably bitched about me on tiktok, or complained to her bf (I should watch my back), or group texted her friends how this ugly guy refused to sneak her in to the gym.
Why am I posting this? Because most of my life I lacked a spine, but I'm building one now. I lacked a spine because it was a tactic that some short, ugly guys need to do, in order to prevent bullying as sub-5s are by default societies punching bags.
I'm slowly working on confidence, and starting to say 'no' to people, including cute foids. Old, simp me would've caved in to her, a corner of me hoping she'll remember that favor and keep me in her list of orbiters
I answer "You gotta use the side door"
She gives me the pleading doe eyes, the kind of expression that foid reserve for Chads (something I NEVER get unless they want something in return)
Her: "I don't have the key"
Me: "Then I can't open for you, sorry"
She then gives me a death stare, storms off, gets in the passenger seat of a car, driven by a man (I couldn't tell who he was - dad, bf, or brother). They drive off.
The gym has a sign that if anyone is let in with your fob, you'll risk membership cancellation. And there's cameras EVERYWHERE in this gym. I'm not going to risk losing one of my few copes in life as a gymcel.
About 10 minutes later I see the bitch, entering via the side door. She had the fob but didn't feel like getting it
She probably bitched about me on tiktok, or complained to her bf (I should watch my back), or group texted her friends how this ugly guy refused to sneak her in to the gym.
Why am I posting this? Because most of my life I lacked a spine, but I'm building one now. I lacked a spine because it was a tactic that some short, ugly guys need to do, in order to prevent bullying as sub-5s are by default societies punching bags.
I'm slowly working on confidence, and starting to say 'no' to people, including cute foids. Old, simp me would've caved in to her, a corner of me hoping she'll remember that favor and keep me in her list of orbiters
