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Does anyone has a positive experience of explaining your parents the current dating scene and the fact that you won't get anyone except a 40yo fat single mother.
 
Don't trouble your parents with this.

This is a fight you're in for yourself.
 
Does anyone has a positive experience of explaining your parents the current dating scene and the fact that you won't get anyone except a 40yo fat single mother.
My father was redpilled about that for as long as I can remember. Ask your father how he met your mother, and then try to learn from him.
 
the current dating scene

I think it has to do a lot more with genes. Incels have always existed. It's how biology works. Nature is cruel.

I grew up without a dad. Growing in a single parent home got me a tremendous amount of trouble, no stability and mental problems. My mom is a bitch who jumps from dick to dick because she's really good looking. I don't think she cares about me to be honest, I don't even live with her. She kind of knows she has a son but considers him (me) a total failure
 
My dad knows I have loser looks but my mother is adamant I will be married with children on the way by the time I am 40. In her eyes I am perfect and am just making excuses for not getting married. She has been interviewing families back in the Philippines for a potential wife for me.
 
My dad knows I have loser looks but my mother is adamant I will be married with children on the way by the time I am 40. In her eyes I am perfect and am just making excuses for not getting married. She has been interviewing families back in the Philippines for a potential wife for me.
Your mother sounds like your guardian angel. I hope you appreciate that she hasn’t given up on you.
 
Don't trouble your parents with this.

This is a fight you're in for yourself.

Listen to this, unless you are financially independent from your parents, I wouldn't talk about any serious issues with them at all.

My mom tried to get me to talk about my problems but it backfired horribly, now they know that I am crazy and treat me with disdain. It is a bit better since they somewhat pity me but I wish I never opened that can of worm.

I think it has to do a lot more with genes. Incels have always existed. It's how biology works. Nature is cruel.

She kind of knows she has a son but considers him (me) a total failure

Same, they pretty much given up on me and i'm pretty much out of the house if i can't find a decent paying job once I graduate. At least you are away from her, despite how unfortunate or different it could have been.
 
I think it has to do a lot more with genes. Incels have always existed. It's how biology works. Nature is cruel.
Nature is not a human, it cannot be cruel, it is just the set of laws, and until recently we naturally evolved into monogamy, but then progress came.
She has been interviewing families back in the Philippines for a potential wife for me.
Jfl
 
Nature is not a human, it cannot be cruel, it is just the set of laws, and until recently we naturally evolved into monogamy, but then progress came.

Jfl

Don't get me wrong, nature cannot be cruel obviously because nature has no feelings. I'm simply saying that to us humans nature seems really shallow.

Natural selection is applied constantly in nature. Famous research shows that some time ago only 1 out of 17 men reproduced or so. Females have been picky for centuries and for milennia, not just now. 500 years ago they could only fuck local town Chads, now they can fuck chads in a 50 mile area easily, maybe even more thanks to tinder. But that doesn't mean things were easier for men back then
 
I made my Mother cry once when I told her I'm hideous. I think in the back of her mind, she knows I'm a no-hoper, but she still tries to bluepill me; "You'll find someone eventually!" / "There's someone out there for everyone!" / "Don't be hard on yourself!" etc etc. I know she's trying to look out for me but I really wish she would just stop and accept things for the way they are.
 
Females have been picky for centuries and for milennia, not just now.

At least we had checks and balances put on them. What I am saying that these checks and balances are as natural and evolved as the original female behaviour.
 
I made my Mother cry once when I told her I'm hideous. I think in the back of her mind, she knows I'm a no-hoper, but she still tries to bluepill me; "You'll find someone eventually!" / "There's someone out there for everyone!" / "Don't be hard on yourself!" etc etc. I know she's trying to look out for me but I really wish she would just stop and accept things for the way they are.

I believe that any good and caring parent would cry for their child and dont want to see them suffer.

Many still hold traditional and older belief despite that now how the way things work now. I guess she was just trying to help despite not knowing the reason why. You gotta see it to believe how over it truly is
 

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