Parents not willing to support my LDAR lifestyle

[Naturex1]

They say I need to:
1. Get a job (I have no motivation to, because it's a crap job, and I would still walk home to a lonely excistence)
2. Get professional help if I don't want to work.

What should I do? Try to get the job?
I'm honestly socialy inept and incompetent. But getting that job could potentially make me more competent, but it would be terrible adjustment, as I've had no responsibility and lived a LDAR lifestyle for the last 5 years. WWYD?

 

[Deleted member 24293]

What country do you live in? Can you apply for social welfare? In my country there's social welfare for the unemployed. Government also pays for their flats and food.

 

[Deleted member 21768]

What will professional help do? And who's paying for it?

 

[Naturex1]

What country do you live in? Can you apply for social welfare? In my country there's social welfare for the unemployed. Government also pays for their flats and food.

Yes, this is def an option where I live. But, you have to:
1. Be an active job applicant. (I don't want to pretend and then LDAR.)
Or
2. Have a health condition in which case you don't have to search for a job if your health prevents you.

I'm honestly not sure if I can work or not, because I've been passive for 5 years. So I have some problems, but I'm not sure if that's due to to my 5 years passive lifestyle or something chronic. I guess my only way to find out is to try work and see if my problems improve or not. If they don't improve I could try going for option 2. (But it seems a bit final, and idealy I think I want to work. If the work is enjoyable and gives me happiness.)

 

[Michinomiya Hirohit]

What will professional help do? And who's paying for it?

 

[Deleted member 24293]

Yes, this is def an option where I live. But, you have to:
1. Be an active job applicant. (I don't want to pretend and then LDAR.)
Or
2. Have a health condition in which case you don't have to search for a job if your health prevents you.

I'm honestly not sure if I can work or not, because I've been passive for 5 years. So I have some problems, but I'm not sure if that's due to to my 5 years passive lifestyle or something chronic. I guess my only way to find out is to try work and see if my problems improve or not. If they don't improve I could try going for option 2. (But it seems a bit final, and idealy I think I want to work. If the work is enjoyable and gives me happiness.)

Yeah give it a try.

 

[Naturex1]

What will professional help do? And who's paying for it?

My parents would fund it. But it wouldn't change anything. I recognise change would have to come from myself, so It's only a threat my parents use to get my ass off the chair.