Brutal ParentalAbusePill is brutal

[AscendOrDieTrying]

I feel like getting abused by your parents at a young age, particularly during development is so brutal. It sets you back YEARS and many never recover. I would get usual verbal abuse + beatings, I’m sure many here have had it worse but one time my dad knocked me unconscious cause I broke the tv remote (he easily fixed it with tape). Anyone else have similar experiences, and how did you cope? I just distanced myself from them and didn’t give them any reactions/satisfaction so they eventually left me alone.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

 

[SociallyStunted]

I dont think the abuse alone is what makes you an incel tho.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Can relate to that shit and never recovered

 

[AscendOrDieTrying]

I dont think the abuse alone is what makes you an incel tho.

Fair enough, but abuse probably has a very high correlation with bad development and social/behavioural issues which can definitely lead to inceldom.

 

[AscendOrDieTrying]

Can relate to that shit and never recovered

Brutal man, sorry to hear that

 

[subhumanmonkey]

Yeah can definitely relate to this I can remember my parents verbally and physically abusing me ever since I gained consciousness. Shit made me depressed and anxious as fuck as a kid and then I’d get beaten every day by bullies at school. It got to the point where my dad would try to kill me at home at then when I got to school I would get smacked in the face by older kids or be verbally abused by them at every opportunity they had. My life before I isolated was so brootal, I’ll never forget all the shit I went through.

 

[.matty]

I dont think the abuse alone is what makes you an incel tho.

 

[.matty]

Can relate to that shit and never recovered

 

[orthodox]

i hate my parents

 

[AscendOrDieTrying]

Yeah can definitely relate to this I can remember my parents verbally and physically abusing me ever since I gained consciousness. Shit made me depressed and anxious as fuck as a kid and then I’d get beaten every day by bullies at school. It got to the point where my dad would try to kill me at home at then when I got to school I would get smacked in the face by older kids or be verbally abused by them at every opportunity they had. My life before I isolated was so brootal, I’ll never forget all the shit I went through.

Brutal, this is exactly why I try not to dwell on it because some people had it much worse than I. Although you can never forget some shit like that I hope you’re able to move past it and not let it affect you too much (easier said than done).

 

[AscendOrDieTrying]

i hate my parents

I’m sure you have your reasons, sorry to hear that.

 

[Pikacel]

Yeah can definitely relate to this I can remember my parents verbally and physically abusing me ever since I gained consciousness. Shit made me depressed and anxious as fuck as a kid and then I’d get beaten every day by bullies at school. It got to the point where my dad would try to kill me at home at then when I got to school I would get smacked in the face by older kids or be verbally abused by them at every opportunity they had. My life before I isolated was so brootal, I’ll never forget all the shit I went through.

How did you manage to endure that

 

[subhumanmonkey]

How did you manage to endure that

When I was younger it was hell, I used to hate my life so much but as I got older I isolated myself completely and watched anime as escapism to cope with my situation. Now I’m just an bum

 

[esdeathlover]

I dont think the abuse alone is what makes you an incel tho.

yea most 3rd worlder chads were abused

 

[Animecel2D]

Can relate to that shit and never recovered

 

[W3B764]

I feel like getting abused by your parents at a young age, particularly during development is so brutal. It sets you back YEARS and many never recover. I would get usual verbal abuse + beatings, I’m sure many here have had it worse but one time my dad knocked me unconscious cause I broke the tv remote (he easily fixed it with tape). Anyone else have similar experiences, and how did you cope? I just distanced myself from them and didn’t give them any reactions/satisfaction so they eventually left me alone.

burtal

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

It never leaves you. Even if you leave their influence... if you want to get a job or go to college, you have to pretend that you're normal. You have to pretend those horrible things didn't happen to you, but no one fakes anything perfectly because people are not machines.

This is what I've tried to explain to my therapists, one just told me "become your own father and mother", which just means do everything by yourself, but in 3rd person. You do get 2% improvement, but it's not a structural solution to the problem.

 

[Ghost]

I feel like getting abused by your parents at a young age, particularly during development is so brutal. It sets you back YEARS and many never recover. I would get usual verbal abuse + beatings, I’m sure many here have had it worse but one time my dad knocked me unconscious cause I broke the tv remote (he easily fixed it with tape). Anyone else have similar experiences, and how did you cope? I just distanced myself from them and didn’t give them any reactions/satisfaction so they eventually left me alone.

Meanwhile, child abused Chad gets to use his childhood to get chicks...

"Awww what a poor abused puppy let me pet him"

Lol its not about child abuse it's still about Looks.

 

[AscendOrDieTrying]

Meanwhile, child abused Chad gets to use his childhood to get chicks...

"Awww what a poor abused puppy let me pet him"

Lol it’s not about child abuse it's still about Looks.

Agree 100% but the brutal part is that if you’re not chad, you never get any reassurance or positive feedback from interactions (not even from parents) so it leads to anti social behaviour