Obviously there would have been direct improvements as a result of the halo effect, but the indirect ones would've been more impactful.
Parent's have a natural desire to vicariously live through their kids, and by being ugly we've deprived them of that. I can vividly imagine how different things between me and my dad would be if I looked like him and had experiences like him.
If I broke the news to him that I had a girlfriend I know he would smile and give me a fist bump and say he's proud of me; I know my mom would've hugged me and said some bullshit about how I grew up so fast. But because I couldn't give them that i've been afforded no mercy; stuff I've done like accidentally turning an assignment in late back in HS that normally would've been viewed as dumb teenage stuff from someone who's still figuring their life out has resulted in me being called evil and a piece of shit. They can't see themselves in me and as a result are incapable of empathizing.
It feels like for every missing developmental milestone I've suffered, they've gotten pissed too and taken that anger out on me, doubling the pain.
And worst of all these fuckers act like i'm ruining their lives by just existing, i've had my dad say i was "bullying him" during arguments when i was like 16, and just last night after another argument this fucker went into his room and brought out old pictures of me and him doing stuff like kayaking and ziplining when I was 7 YEARS OLD to try and guilt trip me.
Truecels who are hated by the world at the very least deserve parents who are in their corner and give unconditional love and support, but instead they join in on beating us down and bullying us.
Parent's have a natural desire to vicariously live through their kids, and by being ugly we've deprived them of that. I can vividly imagine how different things between me and my dad would be if I looked like him and had experiences like him.
If I broke the news to him that I had a girlfriend I know he would smile and give me a fist bump and say he's proud of me; I know my mom would've hugged me and said some bullshit about how I grew up so fast. But because I couldn't give them that i've been afforded no mercy; stuff I've done like accidentally turning an assignment in late back in HS that normally would've been viewed as dumb teenage stuff from someone who's still figuring their life out has resulted in me being called evil and a piece of shit. They can't see themselves in me and as a result are incapable of empathizing.
It feels like for every missing developmental milestone I've suffered, they've gotten pissed too and taken that anger out on me, doubling the pain.
And worst of all these fuckers act like i'm ruining their lives by just existing, i've had my dad say i was "bullying him" during arguments when i was like 16, and just last night after another argument this fucker went into his room and brought out old pictures of me and him doing stuff like kayaking and ziplining when I was 7 YEARS OLD to try and guilt trip me.
Truecels who are hated by the world at the very least deserve parents who are in their corner and give unconditional love and support, but instead they join in on beating us down and bullying us.
