no it's you who coping. you're trying to think that most men have either inceldom or miserable sex lives when really most men have happy sex lives. there's no evidence that a becky can never find a normie attractive (let alone a chadlite). rating only 20% of men attractive isn't proof because honestly, women aren't going to be attracted to every chad they meet. sure chads attract most foids but foids might find one chad less attractive and another more attractive. you're chad if a large number of foids like you, not if every foid likes you, you can't expect every foid to have the same opinion on a chad. i really doubt every foid liked brad pitt.
sorry but normies have very wonderful sex lives with beckys. i've seen them together, kissing, holdin hands, etc. and i am pretty sure if i record them with a invisible camera, i'd see them suddenly having sex in a bedroom. the idea that only 20% of men have good sex lives is cope to feel better about inceldom. you and i are a tiny tiny minority