The overweight women that are messaging you are likely keeping a mental list of your (perceived) physical shortcomings versus their (perceived) physical shortcoming (weight), and are judging yours to be about equal to theirs. It could be your height, your hairline or face.
Even though a woman might be more overweight than you, she likely figures that your physical shortcomings offset her extra weight. This is especially true if the woman believes she has nice hair and an attractive face, or her friends tell her she's a big beautiful wman.
There's not much you can do about it, other than to raise your own level of attractiveness---the easiest way to do that is by getting into better physical shape, yourself. Change the things you can change. If your are looksmaxxed already then I'm sorry. You can like whomever you want, but your dating options are really limited to the women who like you.
Even though a woman might be more overweight than you, she likely figures that your physical shortcomings offset her extra weight. This is especially true if the woman believes she has nice hair and an attractive face, or her friends tell her she's a big beautiful wman.
There's not much you can do about it, other than to raise your own level of attractiveness---the easiest way to do that is by getting into better physical shape, yourself. Change the things you can change. If your are looksmaxxed already then I'm sorry. You can like whomever you want, but your dating options are really limited to the women who like you.
