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JFL Only 15% of incels say they feel better after going to therapy

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Just waste money theory.

Therapy is incredibly predictable. It's just "be confiedent" or "try talking to people"
 
No amount of “Therapy” is going to help with this life.
 
To truly cure incel soul they should just give them bpd whores who goes on the same therapy
 
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The few that do are ones that recently went and are trapped by the phony positive talk or simply finally having anyone to talk to.

If you're a male with no/low social options, therapy cannot help you, and often will worsen your mental state.
 
Therapy is shit if it's not genuine, If you have to pay for someone to listen to you then its over for you.
 
there are also studies that the therapy does not work on autistic people, which is the greatness of us
 
The few that do are ones that recently went and are trapped by the phony positive talk or simply finally having anyone to talk to.

If you're a male with no/low social options, therapy cannot help you, and often will worsen your mental state.
And if you are ugly as well
 
Predictable. Turns out trying to will yourself to be OK when you know you aren't and you have serious problems IRL doesn't work at all.
 
We alr know the problem. Fixing it is another thing
 
In fact we spend TOO MUCH TIME dwelling on the problem. I live 100% in my head at this point

Even normalfags point this out yet wasting more time talking to a therapist is supposed to help
 
If you're paying for something, most likely you're going to believe that it's good, because, I mean, you're paying for it.
 
I've had to go to psychologists on many occasions (made to go by my parents, sessions were subsidised by the government), and can confirm, it does absolutely nothing. I don't think it improved my mental state in the slightest.

I always felt lost and humiliated going to the sessions as well, I could never keep track of the conversation or remember what was discussed after the sessions.

Just a massive waste of time (and money, if the sessions aren't paid for by the government).
 
If you're paying for something, most likely you're going to believe that it's good, because, I mean, you're paying for it.
 
I hate therapy more than you'll ever know.
Here, let me just pay through the nose to hear silly blue pill shit that won't help my mind unless I literally delude myself. Sure, brilliant idea. Genius.
 
if they wanna help me with ,,therapy" they should bring a foid that i can have sex with, it s this simple
 
I have been to therapy but not for my inceldom. I don't talk about that with them because I know for a fact that in such cases they are going to give you the standard responses and "solutions". They will absolutely gaslight you, so I don't even bother.

But it did help me once, even if just to realize where my depression comes from.
It was during rehab. No, I was not a druggie or anything. I just had severe depression to the point of almost roping several times.

But there they've actually helped me understand why I had issues to fall asleep and sleep well, why I have low self esteem and confidence etc. etc. .
Basically, my upbringing was very bad. Having two parents is not a guarantee for success in life as they too can fail, and mine habe failed miserably.

I have talked about this many times here.
There are six relationship motives:

Recognition / Acknowledgment (love, devotion, respect)

Importance (being important and valuable to others)

Reliability / Dependability (reliable relationship)

Solidarity (important in the sense that your parents stand by your side in difficult times)

(reasonable) Autonomie (depending on the age of the child the parents should grant them more autonomy and encourage it. Helicopter parents are doing the opposite.

inviolability of Boundaries (territoriality, parents must make rules and uphold them, not bend them and enforce them)

When your parents raise you and fail to satisfy most or all of these motives, you will be fucked for life.

You will be a mess of a human being and you will absolutely need coaching or a miracle to undo all the damage.
 

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