Celasius
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I know, water is wet, but it’s crazy how so many normies can’t wrap their head around this. To them, online friends are just as emotionally authentic and genuine as real life friends.
Just how can they believe this? From their worldview, in order for one to potentially bond with and befriend somebody, they’d have to find a topic of interest to yap about and done, all of a sudden, they’re now friends. Totally not like there needs to be a sense of personal connection through memorable shared experiences or anything. Nope. Just go annoyingly talk to random strangers like a pesky schizo and boom, friends for a lifetime, so of fucking course they think the dude they voicechatted with on Discord for less than 10 minutes is now their new best buddy.
Contrary to their nonsensical assumptions, ACTUAL real life friendships are built upon effort and genuine care. Unlike women, for men to bond, they’d have to resiliently undergo pressure and shared hardship and suffering together (hence the saying: a common danger unites even the bitterest enemies) in real-time and an equally tangible and tailored environment, not a disembodied and impalpable limbo of nonexistent spectrums of fake communication from which zero involvement of concrete eye-to-eye body language, tone of voice etc. can be seen or found.
You can’t MAKE friends because they’re not needed anymore. The paradigm’s shifted over independency and as a result, you can’t foster everlasting companionships for two reasons in particular:
• Lack of common danger (which was discussed earlier)
• The digital age
The latter being the more devastating cause.
The digital world fucked everything up and the further technology advances, the more our loneliness persists. I know, wow, what a hot quirky original take, never heard it before but holy fuck if it’s not true. It’s all now non-verbally personified ergo unsubstantially felt and superficially lived through. There is no humane sense of belonging anymore. Everything feels out of touch (literally) in our digitized society and there’s no longer any incentives to push us out of comfort zone. Why would anyone even bother making real life friends when you can receive an equal amount of dopamine getting 100 likes on Twitter? It’s useless.
Just how can they believe this? From their worldview, in order for one to potentially bond with and befriend somebody, they’d have to find a topic of interest to yap about and done, all of a sudden, they’re now friends. Totally not like there needs to be a sense of personal connection through memorable shared experiences or anything. Nope. Just go annoyingly talk to random strangers like a pesky schizo and boom, friends for a lifetime, so of fucking course they think the dude they voicechatted with on Discord for less than 10 minutes is now their new best buddy.
Contrary to their nonsensical assumptions, ACTUAL real life friendships are built upon effort and genuine care. Unlike women, for men to bond, they’d have to resiliently undergo pressure and shared hardship and suffering together (hence the saying: a common danger unites even the bitterest enemies) in real-time and an equally tangible and tailored environment, not a disembodied and impalpable limbo of nonexistent spectrums of fake communication from which zero involvement of concrete eye-to-eye body language, tone of voice etc. can be seen or found.
You can’t MAKE friends because they’re not needed anymore. The paradigm’s shifted over independency and as a result, you can’t foster everlasting companionships for two reasons in particular:
• Lack of common danger (which was discussed earlier)
• The digital age
The latter being the more devastating cause.
The digital world fucked everything up and the further technology advances, the more our loneliness persists. I know, wow, what a hot quirky original take, never heard it before but holy fuck if it’s not true. It’s all now non-verbally personified ergo unsubstantially felt and superficially lived through. There is no humane sense of belonging anymore. Everything feels out of touch (literally) in our digitized society and there’s no longer any incentives to push us out of comfort zone. Why would anyone even bother making real life friends when you can receive an equal amount of dopamine getting 100 likes on Twitter? It’s useless.
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