Discussion One thing I hate about modern dating is how normies make you feel absolutely worthless.

[Yunoo]

If you can’t get a girlfriend and express your struggles normies will tell you to “self improve” and get a better “personality”.

What does that really mean? There are criminals, homeless men, abusive men, lazy men, etc with girlfriends. So are they saying I’m worse than all of them and I must self improve to be at least on their level?

Tons of guys get gfs when they’re young with 0 self improvement. So am I worse than those guys too? Makes me feel pretty worthless and it offends me a lot. This is a big reason I gave up on dating.

 

[anon65]

If you are told you have to improve to get a date, it's over.

 

[Yunoo]

If you are told you have to improve to get a date, it's over.

Yep

 

[ihatelife2]

I understand, I hate feeling worthless and do feel worthless

 

[Emba]

I wear a $300 watch on my dirt encrusted unwashed wrist.

 

[The Death Devil]

If you are told you have to improve to get a date, it's over.

There's nothing more embarrassing for a man than having to 'self-improve' in order to convince themselves that they're not genetic-dead ends.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

There's nothing more embarrassing for a man than having to 'self-improve' in order to convince themselves that they're not genetic-dead ends.

And telling women they have to self improve is violence and sexism.


What do you mean Bex who weighs 200lbs and mouth breathes and smells bad has to improve? Are you objectifying her? lol.



Soyciety does not deserve us to improve to meet its standards.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

I hate the concept of dating itself. It didn't exist for most of history.

 

[GloomyGhoul]

No level of self-improvement will ever make foids see you as anything other than subhuman

 

[elephant man]

“Keep IMPROOOVING bro!”