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Blackpill One characteristic fapping and escortcelling have in common, which makes both different from optimal sex

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It's phallic-centered.

When you fap you just stimulate your dick while you see shit.

When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.

Imagine fucking a clean, virgin foid for whom you had requited feelings. You'd be able to feel the warmth of her skin, enjoy her body thoroughly and have her do the same with you (be it with your hands, mouth, whatever), cuddle with her, etc.

It's probably a completely different experience. Phallic-centered sex gets old quickly tbh. There's no bonding. Also you get desensitized from it quickly.

With fapping and porn things always tend to escalate in terms of tolerance. You lose sensitivity, both physically and mentally. It's drug-like sex.
 
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Most women have had so many dicks they might as well be prostitutes. You aren't getting anything special if she's legal, because she started fucking and blowing before she got out of high school.

Most men don't even respect their girlfriends, and the women don't even want to be respected, because even they know they're just cumdumpsters for a history of multiple men who used them to empty their balls and nothing more.

They know they're trash. It's why women get pissed when you respect them. They think you're stupid.
 
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They know they're trash. It's why women get pissed when you respect them. They think you're stupid.
But they also get mad when you disrespect them (except if Chad). It's a lose-lose game.

I don't disrespect whores IRL because it can lead to legal problems or whiteknights lynching you.
 
It's phallic-centered.

When you fap you just stimulate your dick while you see shit.

When you have sex you are also stimulating your dick while you see shit, your point makes no logical sense here, the only difference is you've swapped hand thrusts for hip thrusts.

Also sex is inherently "phallic-centered" since it revolves around penetration, so the "penetrator" is always the key role in the interaction.

When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.

I see you like to waste money, why even bother escortcel if you aren't going to do those things, you might as well just masturbate. The argument you are making here is fucking ridiculous, you are claiming that masturbation and escortcelling are similar BECAUSE OF THE RESTRICTIONS YOU HAVE MENTALLY IMPOSED UPON ESCORTCELLING, you see there's these things call showers, you can just ask a bitch to shower and clean herself before she comes to the bed.

That would be like me saying drinking soft drinks is the same as drinking alcohol because I imposed the restriction of only drinking alcoholic beverages with a 2% concentration, its a very disingenuous way to structure an argument, you are imposing restricitons and then saying - "see I'm right, look how similar this thing is to the other with these restrictions I've imposed".

Imagine fucking a clean, virgin foid for whom you had requited feelings. You'd be able to feel the warmth of her skin, enjoy her body thoroughly and have her do the same with you (be it with your hands, mouth, whatever), cuddle with her, etc.

I'd be willing to do those things to an escort too, not all of us are egoists that have self imposed volcel restrictions on ourselves. You are romanticizing an aspect of human life that was never romantic to begin with, "teen love", its just as disgusting and lust based as "adult love", they're no different. You've been watching too many movies, you fell for the meme of "young love", it isn't "special", its just more sexually gratifying because of the attractiveness of youth, and our brains make us interpret lust as "feelings of love", and those lustful urges are stronger during the phase when your hormones are raging and your body is developing.

The only thing we missed is enjoying "optimal horniness" JFL, that's it.

Why do you think there are so few virgins today, its because virginity isn't actually anything special, that was just the rule imposed by the past patriarchal system to regulate and control women, for a fairer distribution of sexual resources among the male population.

With fapping and porn things always tend to escalate in terms of tolerance. You lose sensitivity, both physically and mentally. It's drug-like sex.

Why do you think people cheat, or you always hear about couples trying to "spice up their sex life", its because sex is the same, you lose sensitivity in the same way, you build up a tolerance even more quickly because its THE SAME PERSON, where as one who masturbates as far as their brain is concerned is having sex with many different women.

Monogamy is not natural, patriarchal systems imposed social order and make monogamy feasible, marriages are declining and more people are getting divorced, because men are no longer in control of women, no longer in the position to restrict female behavior.
 
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I agree to an extent, escortcelling is aimed at satisfy a need that society causes to be left unfulfilled for too long. In my view, pleasure becomes a secondary goal. I don´t expect that a starving person is focused on enjoying the food he´s eating, hunger comes first, flavors come second. If the flavor is good, it´s better, but what matters are the nutritional facts.

Here, with an escort, there´s no (((emotional connection))), therefore the experience itself is relegated to a mere physical release, nonetheless satisfying the most basic and important Maslow´s requirements. While desensitization might happen, it would require a steady influx of pay pussy of such size to be able to produce a desensitization. Hence, I would say that for the casual escortcel it´s a problem he´s unlikely to face, unless he consumes too much porn (but, well, I don´t see many alternative to that...)

To conclude, after the blackpill and a lifetime of rejection, I also believe some people might lose the drive to strive for a "full package" sex and tend to be content with merely physical release.
 
It's phallic-centered.

When you fap you just stimulate your dick while you see shit.

When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.

Imagine fucking a clean, virgin foid for whom you had requited feelings. You'd be able to feel the warmth of her skin, enjoy her body thoroughly and have her do the same with you (be it with your hands, mouth, whatever), cuddle with her, etc.

It's probably a completely different experience. Phallic-centered sex gets old quickly tbh. There's no bonding. Also you get desensitized from it quickly.

With fapping and porn things always tend to escalate in terms of tolerance. You lose sensitivity, both physically and mentally. It's drug-like sex.
Pretty much agreed.
The idea with the phallic-centeredness of these copes is that you're supposed to get your fill of touch and physical affection from other avenues, but the new reality is that many males are just completely touch-deprived.
 
But they also get mad when you disrespect them (except if Chad). It's a lose-lose game.

I don't disrespect whores IRL because it can lead to legal problems or whiteknights lynching you.

Same.

I ignore women as much as possible. At least that's still safe.
 
The worst thing about escortcelling is the fact that you have to use a condom. Every single guy I have asked who's had sex has told that sex with a condom is nothing like the real thing, absolutely nothing.
 
I see you like to waste money, why even bother escortcel if you aren't going to do those things, you might as well just masturbate. The argument you are making here is fucking ridiculous, you are claiming that masturbation and escortcelling are similar BECAUSE OF THE RESTRICTIONS YOU HAVE MENTALLY IMPOSED UPON ESCORTCELLING, you see there's these things call showers, you can just ask a bitch to shower and clean herself before she comes to the bed.
Look, I have fucked like 15 prostitutes in my life and never got any disease. I'm happy this is the case tbh, and almost sure it wouldn't be if I hadn't these mental restrictions :ha..feels:
 
Look, I have fucked like 15 prostitutes in my life and never got any disease. I'm happy this is the case tbh, and almost sure it wouldn't be if I hadn't these mental restrictions :ha..feels:

Without those restriction you didn't really get to enjoy anything though, I had sex with 1, and I did it with those restrictions, and I felt pretty much unsatisifed, I have not gone back to do it ever again because it doesn't seem worth it if that's the extent of my enjoyment, I'd enjoy myself more masturbating for free, that's my point, when you impose those restriction quite obviously sex is no better than masturbation.

Also this is why I want to move to a country with legal prostitution, the women are tested monthly for stds under certain establishments (well in places like germany), you can enjoy yourself fully with a peace of mind.
 
When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.

Why didn't I get this memo?
 
Most women have had so many dicks they might as well be prostitutes. You aren't getting anything special if she's legal, because she started fucking and blowing before she got out of high school.

Most men don't even respect their girlfriends, and the women don't even want to be respected, because even they know they're just cumdumpsters for a history of multiple men who used them to empty their balls and nothing more.

They know they're trash. It's why women get pissed when you respect them. They think you're stupid.
This, thanks for this . Can I use this quote?
 
In nice place, in nature, eating fresh pusi of cute adorable prime 13 years old girl ¦>
 
Most women have had so many dicks they might as well be prostitutes. You aren't getting anything special if she's legal, because she started fucking and blowing before she got out of high school.

Most men don't even respect their girlfriends, and the women don't even want to be respected, because even they know they're just cumdumpsters for a history of multiple men who used them to empty their balls and nothing more.

They know they're trash. It's why women get pissed when you respect them. They think you're stupid.
High IQ.

It's phallic-centered.

When you fap you just stimulate your dick while you see shit.

When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.

Imagine fucking a clean, virgin foid for whom you had requited feelings. You'd be able to feel the warmth of her skin, enjoy her body thoroughly and have her do the same with you (be it with your hands, mouth, whatever), cuddle with her, etc.

It's probably a completely different experience. Phallic-centered sex gets old quickly tbh. There's no bonding. Also you get desensitized from it quickly.

With fapping and porn things always tend to escalate in terms of tolerance. You lose sensitivity, both physically and mentally. It's drug-like sex.

Even if I can fuck with an 30yo something bitch and can have real sex, that thing would be great, is better than nothing. The skin to skin contact, etc. Of course I would fuck to virgin loli too as an option but you have to be realist and stop fantasying with that unless you do that shit by force. You hurting yourself and others here obsecing by something that would not happen to any of you unless you force that shit.
 
Very true. After years of porn abuse, I hit rock bottom watching a midget trying to suck off a horse.
 

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