It's phallic-centered.
When you fap you just stimulate your dick while you see shit.
When you have sex you are also stimulating your dick while you see shit, your point makes no logical sense here, the only difference is you've swapped hand thrusts for hip thrusts.
Also sex is inherently "phallic-centered" since it revolves around penetration, so the "penetrator" is always the key role in the interaction.
When you escortcel, it's not recommendable at all to put your mouth anywhere on the foid, or even to get that much skin on skin contact with her.
I see you like to waste money, why even bother escortcel if you aren't going to do those things, you might as well just masturbate. The argument you are making here is fucking ridiculous, you are claiming that masturbation and escortcelling are similar
BECAUSE OF THE RESTRICTIONS YOU HAVE MENTALLY IMPOSED UPON ESCORTCELLING, you see there's these things call showers, you can just ask a bitch to shower and clean herself before she comes to the bed.
That would be like me saying drinking soft drinks is the same as drinking alcohol because I imposed the restriction of only drinking alcoholic beverages with a 2% concentration, its a very disingenuous way to structure an argument, you are imposing restricitons and then saying - "see I'm right, look how similar this thing is to the other with these restrictions I've imposed".
Imagine fucking a clean, virgin foid for whom you had requited feelings. You'd be able to feel the warmth of her skin, enjoy her body thoroughly and have her do the same with you (be it with your hands, mouth, whatever), cuddle with her, etc.
I'd be willing to do those things to an escort too, not all of us are egoists that have self imposed volcel restrictions on ourselves. You are romanticizing an aspect of human life that was never romantic to begin with, "teen love", its just as disgusting and lust based as "adult love", they're no different. You've been watching too many movies, you fell for the meme of "young love", it isn't "special", its just more sexually gratifying because of the attractiveness of youth, and our brains make us interpret lust as "feelings of love", and those lustful urges are stronger during the phase when your hormones are raging and your body is developing.
The only thing we missed is enjoying "optimal horniness" JFL, that's it.
Why do you think there are so few virgins today, its because virginity isn't actually anything special, that was just the rule imposed by the past patriarchal system to regulate and control women, for a fairer distribution of sexual resources among the male population.
With fapping and porn things always tend to escalate in terms of tolerance. You lose sensitivity, both physically and mentally. It's drug-like sex.
Why do you think people cheat, or you always hear about couples trying to "spice up their sex life", its because sex is the same, you lose sensitivity in the same way, you build up a tolerance even more quickly because its
THE SAME PERSON, where as one who masturbates as far as their brain is concerned is having sex with many different women.
Monogamy is not natural, patriarchal systems imposed social order and make monogamy feasible, marriages are declining and more people are getting divorced, because men are no longer in control of women, no longer in the position to restrict female behavior.