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Girlfriend or wife, other guys would still ask her out for dates, also they'll be several guys in real life (work or school), and online chasing her. This sort of dynamic makes cheating somewhat inevitable in relationships, if the girl gets asked multiple times to "go out" with them, and one day a there's a better guy than you in terms of looks, money, and status, then he may steal your gf away from you. Those in the 1-6 PSL range are more likely to get cheated on... Sorry guys :(.

Plus, its now known that you can't have necessarily have, own, or possess her, so I guess you might as well enjoy the ride, If you guys ever end up getting a gf or wife.
 
This is the reason why I never have that. I can't trust humans because they are fucked up.


Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.

Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018

They were always a joke. Selection by beauty standards (short term survival) and the coolidge effect fucked any relationship in the ass


The only thing that you can do to not get hurt is becoming a monster yourself which can repeat the cycle of pain & hatred
 
Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.
Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018
Yeah, relationships are a meme in 2018, and getting cucked is envitable. A lot of people too are partially pursuing open or poly relationships because of this. I'm too insecure and possessive to ever consider another person taking my gf lol.

Facade said:
This is the reason why I never have that. I can't trust humans because they are fucked up.


Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.
Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018
They were always a joke. Selection by survival beauty standards and the coolidge effect fucked any relationship in the ass


Yeah, its definitely hard to trust people nowadays... As well adding on the fact that you're a Scorpio, lol.

The dating world is judgmental as fuck, but a lot of girls don't want to admit, it sometimes drive me insane.
 
This is why we need the death penalty for adultery/divorce. Divorce only permissible in EXTREME circumstances.
 
Comeon Kim you fat fuck. Send the nukes already stop being a cuck.
 
This why you never get married or let her move in with you so you don't lose anything
 
ItheIthe said:
This is why we need the death penalty for adultery/divorce. Divorce only permissible in EXTREME circumstances.

Divorce should only be permissible in death. Just use the standards that gangs have for members leaving.
 
Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.

Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018
 
Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.

Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018

If you ever see tinder on your gf's phone you're free to slap her, it's a cheating attempt even if she didn't do it yet.
 
ItheIthe said:
This is why we need the death penalty for adultery/divorce. Divorce only permissible in EXTREME circumstances.

What would count as extreme circumstances?
 
Twisted said:
I hate the way I’ve turned so cold tbh 

I just want to be that innocent kid again :(

I am thinking about my childhood every single day.(Had such a wonderful childhood) It would be so cool to rewind time to relive my memories

.Humans are stuck between being an actual animal and wanting to become something greater. But our brain is not adapted to that. This is what causes humans to act selfish and not following to actual morals.
 
Examples

> Ik that cheating is bad but the dopamine rush I get from seeing this man is so good 
> I give this guy the job based on looks and sympathy even though the other guy might be better
>Replacing friends with "better" friends. 

Humans think that they are so much better in social aspects but it is pure cognitive dissonance
 
ItheIthe said:
This is why we need the death penalty for adultery/divorce. Divorce only permissible in EXTREME circumstances.
Pretty extreme... It may work in some cases, I don't disagree with you. I'm not that type of person that would wish death on anyone, especially if they're a bad person.
 
Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.

Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018

Yeah. I honestly think a Chad now is more likely to get cucked than a modern-incel-tier man would've a hundred years ago.
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
Not over for women, but its over for men :(.

Even men cheat on women (I have personal experience from my environment but I won't give many details)

Only low-mid tier normies and incels get cucked
 
/pol/cel said:
Comeon Kim you fat fuck. Send the nukes already stop being a cuck.
Its just too depressing or mentally draining to know stuff like, yeah it just seems like, you want it all to end... I feel you.
 
Twisted said:
My primary school days were beautiful. Even with my autism I was still accepted and treated kindly. Then my world got turned upside-down when I started secondary school.

Sometimes I even walk by my primary school to remind me of happier times

I have a whole album of pictures from my younger self and I listen to early 2000s or 90s music to get some nostalgia. It was iterally the best part of my life. I was a little shy but I had no signs of depression and normal energy levels
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
he may steal your gf away from you
totally false, wtf man you seemed smarter than this
 
nausea said:
are you a provocator now????

I am just  asking a question. His point is not unrealistic and I like arguments
 
ATOMIC ACE PUGG said:
This why you never get married or let her move in with you so you don't lose anything
Yep, there's so much risk thats involved coming into relationships. Most relationships are temporary nowadays, even high school sweet hearts are letting things go, this is just too depressing. Of course the otherside is greener, but its not the greener side we all hope for :(.

Akarin said:
If you ever see tinder on your gf's phone you're free to slap her, it's a cheating attempt even if she didn't do it yet.
That may not work in the West, many men here have to bend over for women lol.

aut said:
What would count as extreme circumstances?
Not sure, if I'd agree with that, but promiscuity is hard-wired in our brains, I don't necessarily blame degenerates for that.

not_here_4_points said:
Yeah. I honestly think a Chad now is more likely to get cucked than a modern-incel-tier man would've a hundred years ago.
Chad is a man of opportunities, but he may get cucked by an 11/10 Angel like Chad lol.

Facade said:
Even men cheat on women (I have personal experience from my environment but I won't give many details)
Only low-mid tier normies and incels get cucked
Yeah, I've forgotten about that, and yes you're right :).
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
Girlfriend or wife, other guys would still ask her out for dates, also they'll be several guys in real life (work or school), and online chasing her. This sort of dynamic makes cheating somewhat inevitable in relationships, if the girl gets asked multiple times to "go out" with them, and one day a there's a better guy than you in terms of looks, money, and status, then he may steal your gf away from you. Those in the 1-6 PSL range are more likely to get cheated on... Sorry guys :(.

Plus, its now known that you can't have necessarily have, own, or possess her, so I guess you might as well enjoy the ride, If you guys ever end up getting a gf or wife.

i wish i was 6.5 instead of 5.5, it would have changed a lot in my life....... i would finally be good enough instead of invisible
 
Facade said:
nausea said:
are you a provocator now????
I am just asking a question. His point is not unrealistic and I like arguments
ok sorry, maybe you missed SOME thread of mine
 
Twisted said:
I remember playing crash bandicoot after retrieving my old PlayStation and wanting to cry as I was drowning in euphoric nostalgia 

That game was such a big part of my childhood

Yeah videogames were quite important to me as well. I remember playing all the pokemon editions on my nintendo ds and various gamecube games. Every child wants to grow up because they see the ideal adult life. I never had a playstation but I have heard a lot about crash bandicoot and the nostalgic factor that it had
 
ghostcell said:
i wish i was 6.5 instead of 5.5, it would have changed a lot in my life....... i would finally be good enough instead of invisible
I presume you still have a bit of room to looksmatched ;).

Yeah, a lot of guys are sadly invisible.
 
nausea said:
ok sorry, maybe you missed SOME thread of mine

Yeah maybe but it's not unlikely that a better looking dude steals & fucks your gf and breaks your heart
 
Facade said:
nausea said:
ok sorry, maybe you missed SOME thread of mine
Yeah maybe but it's not unlikely that a better looking dude steals & fucks your gf and breaks your heart
no man, I provided scientific proof of the contrary

look, OP knows, with full respect I cannot always point people to my threads or other threads or whatever, it's not my fault anyway
 
ghostcell said:
i wish i was 6.5 instead of 5.5, it would have changed a lot in my life....... i would finally be good enough instead of invisible

I only get the aww you are so cute treatment from girls or the invisible treatment.

I had at least many hugs from girls because they think I am adorable which is the opposite of my personality.
 
Twisted said:
Thanks to stuff like tinder, even Chads are at risk of getting cucked in favour of a bigger Chad.

Relationships are pretty much a joke in 2018

Lol at using tinder for anything other than hookup.
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
I presume you still have a bit of room to looksmatched ;).

Yeah, a lot of guys are sadly invisible.

hmm this is after looksmaxxing already, well, i can get surgery but it wouldn't even work i think. maybe i could fix my big nose but its not a jew nose, it wouldn't significantly change anything. the other thing is my eye bags could be fixed with surgery but i don't know if it's worth it. already had LASIK done last year so im kind of done with surgeries.

im a bit done with self improvement in general, it didn't give me any results after 5 years... i'll see if things get better with women if i get a job but else i'll just give up i guess
 
ghostcell said:
hmm this is after looksmaxxing already, well, i can get surgery but it wouldn't even work i think. maybe i could fix my big nose but its not a jew nose, it wouldn't significantly change anything. the other thing is my eye bags could be fixed with surgery but i don't know if it's worth it. already had LASIK done last year so im kind of done with surgeries.

im a bit done with self improvement in general, it didn't give me any results after 5 years... i'll see if things get better with women if i get a job but else i'll just give up i guess

Yeah it's pretty sad that nothing works. Do you think that your height with your frame has anything to do with it?
 
if a woman cheated on me she wouldn't hEaR the end of it.
 
Even if the guy finds out that she is taken, he will still go after her when he sees the subhuman boyfriend she has he will know that it will be easy.
 
Facade said:
Yeah it's pretty said that nothing worke. Do you think that your height with your frame has anything to do with it?

yeah, probably.

when women say they want a tall guy, they probably want someone like chris hemsworth, kevin love, etc.

but even after 5 years of lifting my body was just like stephen merchant or something ffs...

i feel like nobody really takes me seriously anyway. i always look like an outcast in group pictures too, its pretty fucking depressing
 
ghostcell said:
yeah, probably.

when women say they want a tall guy, they probably want someone like chris hemsworth, kevin love, etc.

but even after 5 years of lifting my body was just like stephen merchant or something ffs...

i feel like nobody really takes me seriously anyway. i always look like an outcast in group pictures too, its pretty fucking depressing


I can agree. Being too tall has also many negative side effects. Imagine if you were 6'3 with a godlike frame. I bet you wouldn't be here.I have the opposite problem as a manlet but I can atleast wear stuff that makes me look taller
 
Facade said:
Imagine if you were 6'3 with a godlike frame. I bet you wouldn't be here
F A C E
 
nausea said:

It's probanly true if we are talking about Chad level but normie looking guys need a whole package and not just their average face
 
nausea said:

@Facade is correct though, my face is between 5-6 depending on hairstyle / lighting etc. but I am always the odd one out due to my height. If I were a few inches shorter with a good frame it would make a world of difference. If I was a truecel it wouldn't have mattered but for me it would have changed a lot
 
ghostcell said:
nausea said:
@Facade is correct though, my face is between 5-6 depending on hairstyle / lighting etc. but I am always the odd one out due to my height. If I were a few inches shorter with a good frame it would make a world of difference. If I was a truecel it wouldn't have mattered but for me it would have changed a lot
but what kind of chinese are you spitting? are you getting pussy or not?


Facade said:
nausea said:
It's probanly true if we are talking about Chad level but normie looking guys need a whole package and not just their average face
normies are called cucks indeed, incels.is here not cucks.me
 
nausea said:
but what kind of chinese are you spitting? are you getting pussy or not?


normies are called cucks indeed, incels.is here not cucks.me



Normie looking guys and not actual normies

Average guys can't correct a flaw with their face.
 
Facade said:
nausea said:
but what kind of chinese are you spitting? are you getting pussy or not?


normies are called cucks indeed, incels.is here not cucks.me


Normie looking guys and not actual normies
Average guys can't correct a flaw with their face.


do not you leave home?
 
nausea said:
but what kind of chinese are you spitting? are you getting pussy or not?


normies are called cucks indeed, incels.is here not cucks.me



spitting chinese? what does it mean?

no im a virgin. i recently had my first kiss, well, it was like 2 seconds with a roastie german girl who kissed 6 other guys that same night. so yeah.
 
ghostcell said:
spitting chinese? what does it mean?

no im a virgin. i recently had my first kiss, well, it was like 2 seconds with a roastie german girl who kissed 6 other guys that same night. so yeah.

Where do you live? Lol always fucking germany I swear to god why am I even in this shithole
 
ghostcell said:
nausea said:
but what kind of chinese are you spitting? are you getting pussy or not?


normies are called cucks indeed, incels.is here not cucks.me


spitting chinese? what does it mean?
no im a virgin. i recently had my first kiss, well, it was like 2 seconds with a roastie german girl who kissed 6 other guys that same night. so yeah.


so your problem is your height?
 
nausea said:
so your problem is your height?

i don't really know which problem i have is the biggest one.

- zero self-confidence after being bullied ages 6-18 (due to height, glasses and acne)
- no social circle
- rejected for every social club i tried to join in university for the entire duration of bachelor and masters
- i wanted to try again being social this year and join a sport (they couldnt reject me), but i got a severe spinal injury (which i attribute to my height tbh) and 2 months later ruptured my appendix and nearly died due to complications, so i couldn't do anything physical for past 6 months
- about to graduate, no friends, still a virgin
- freak of nature height (6'7) - obvious ectomorph frame
- gymcelling didn't work for 5 years - cannot put on mass, even when i weighed 230 lbs i was considered skinny
- the hobbies i have are considered weird by girls (classical piano player, gaming, anime, tv shows, magic the gathering) 

not quite sure where to even start at this point, which is why i hope to give myself a new chance to do it well after i graduate college this summer.
 

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