Ohh. I'm such an autist I never go outside. I was talking about instagram and TikTok
I envy them if both are good-looking
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'selfish and arrogant'? That's debatable. Selfish in what ways? Arrogant in what ways? How does it hurt others if you're envious? Let's just agree to disagree here. What's certain is that feeling envy bc someone has something you don't have, can never have but really want... that's normal.
Yes and I also get envious when I see all the nice things they (I literally only see stuff on social media, I don't actually know anyone, but my sister travels with her bf) can do (like road-trips or beach-vacations, I wouldn't wanna do either alone, but I'll never have it and that creates feelings of intense sadness and envy
5. It's not as bad when the man AND the woman are attractive. It's only natural. It gets up to 7 when I see a handsome man with an average or ugly woman though.
Very interesting. We're all allowed to have our own opinion obviously. IMO the envy is worst when I see a GL couple, as that man could have been me – with a GL woman. Or if it's a MTN with a Stacy-lite which happens, but is rare. But I feel most envy when I see GL couples travelling, or seeing them being in love. And knowing I can never have that.
Generally seeing sexhavers is annoying.
I suppose so but that is how I FEEL. I don’t like myself if I am being jealous for just 10 seconds purely because there’s like a million things my ass can be jealous of due to being at the bottom of the society’s hierarchy, so in light of that, I tend to do my best to avoid feeling envious otherwise it’s unavailing and self-destructive, I guess.
Selfish and arrogant in the sense that you’d assume you “deserve” love and relationships just as much as the people you’re envious of do, when in reality, no one deserves anything and everyone deserves everything at the same time. There’s no telling in what you deserve or what you don’t.
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Hope I’ve made myself clear, brocel.
Of course, no need to justify yourself. You and others feel like that, others again feel differently. Your attitude is practical, and I wish I could think like you do. It's great we can share our opinions – this thread and poll shows they differ GREATLY
Absolutely, I don't deny any of that. People feel different things. Your feelings are objectively better, but people who feel like me can't always help it
The problem here is that GL people – for worse – "deserve" love more than ugly people, according to society. Feeling envy is natural.
yes, true. TBF: Feelings are often uncontrollable (if they were controllable I'd just stop feeling sad that I can never get a gf). However, if you look at some of the comments and the poll you'll see that opinions vary quite a bitYou’re not entitled to sex, but you’re also not NOT entitled to it
A common method of gaslighting represented by the normads and their horde is by unceasingly telling you how sex is a want and you are not entitled to Maslow’s most necessary tab of a human being’s psychological needs, reproduction, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. The truth is, you...
In the end though, I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with feeling envy as long as it’s not malicious and or with bad intentions.
Hope I’ve made myself clear, brocel.
you have, and that's why it's great we're each entitled to our own opinions and be able to share and discuss these like in any democracy
I understand!
I understand!
Just thinking about it and always having the algorithms show me this shit, and see GL young couples when I'm driving (I never actually am in a city, just drive through) makes me sad and angry.
Hell I can't imagine how it is to be happy, content, and what these said couples must feel
who is the "they" you speak of? Most people would say I'm a 0 or 1. I look stranger than most men in this vid
oops sorry, wrong post
That is very true
