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Oldcels, how do you handle life?

vorinar

vorinar

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I’m gonna be one in 2 years and 30 is basically the final nail in the coffin. 25 was already when it was placed, but 30 is when it finally finishes getting hammered in. It’s truly over in its purest form by then if you haven’t had sex by 30. Only option at 30 is to win the lottery or find a totally brokeass single mother.

I got 2 years so I wanna prepare in advance. How do you lot do it?
 
I’m 36.

Work as much as I can, get about 45 -48 hours a week. Start at 5 A.M, so that most of the day right there.

Other than that I exercise, kills time and helps you sleep to kill even more time. Also read, mostly history, for escapism.
 
I’m 36.

Work as much as I can, get about 45 -48 hours a week. Start at 5 A.M, so that most of the day right there.

Other than that I exercise, kills time and helps you sleep to kill even more time. Also read, mostly history, for escapism.
Who do you speak to though?
 
I’m gonna be one in 2 years and 30 is basically the final nail in the coffin. 25 was already when it was placed, but 30 is when it finally finishes getting hammered in. It’s truly over in its purest form by then if you haven’t had sex by 30. Only option at 30 is to win the lottery or find a totally brokeass single mother.

I got 2 years so I wanna prepare in advance. How do you lot do it?
I would not recommend you to get in a relationship with a single mother. Not just because how cucked it is to do that, but also because you would be just a betabux. You probably would not have much sex with her, she would take all your money etc.
 
I would not recommend you to get in a relationship with a single mother. Not just because how cucked it is to do that, but also because you would be just a betabux. You probably would not have much sex with her, she would take all your money etc.
Fuck no. Never a single mother. I had like literally 1000s Redditards suggesting that in one thread once. Granted I lied and said i was a 32 year old virgin, but still.

Nope. Never gonna happen.
 
30 on this month... I think I am already living the same way I will live until I die.
 
Coping is not that bad but bad for your health. I realized foids wouldn't want me at 11 years old. You have to have things to look forward to or a suicide back up plan.
 
Coping is not that bad but bad for your health. I realized foids wouldn't want me at 11 years old. You have to have things to look forward to or a suicide back up plan.
I still have people who will miss me even just a tiny bit. I have pets too
 
44. I'm content alone and being around others is torture. I despise this society. Thankfully, I have plenty of copes, don't have to wageslave, and live in a comfy apartment in a nice area.
 
Fuck no. Never a single mother.
Everyone say this but always become betabuxx to a single mother, the loneliness won't spare u. You wont scape that curse bro, and u will understand it in due time
 
Everyone say this but always become betabuxx to a single mother, the loneliness won't spare u. You wont scape that curse bro, and u will understand it in due time
Well I know I’m not. There’s nothing to be had from being exploited. And it’s still lonely to know you’re being exploited
 
44. I'm content alone and being around others is torture. I despise this society. Thankfully, I have plenty of copes, don't have to wageslave, and live in a comfy apartment in a nice area.
Am I right? 25 is when the final nail gets put in, but 30 is when they’re done hammering it in? In other words, we’re doomed?
 
Am I right? 25 is when the final nail gets put in, but 30 is when they’re done hammering it in? In other words, we’re doomed?
Doomed is dark. As I got older, I embraced solitude.

But, yes, if your social life isn't in order by 23, you're fucked. It only gets harder after then.
 
My hatred for foids gives me strength.
 
I’m 36.

Work as much as I can, get about 45 -48 hours a week. Start at 5 A.M, so that most of the day right there.

Other than that I exercise, kills time and helps you sleep to kill even more time. Also read, mostly history, for escapism.
Same. Work, gym, games, music. The secret is: occuppy your mind, and tire you body
 
Doomed is dark. As I got older, I embraced solitude.

But, yes, if your social life isn't in order by 23, you're fucked. It only gets harder after then.
Why 23? What’s magic about that age?
 
42. I just keep busy with work, exercise, cooking, hobbies. That kind of thing
 
I'm mid 30s, work very little these days. I do have a friend circle. Smoke a lot of herb and drink sometimes. Honestly, happiest I've been in my life. Obvs would still trade lives with a normie sexhaver though.
 
I think the most important thing is to have a plan and feel like you're making progress.

Otherwise every year feels like you've gone downhill, which sucks >.<
 
Welding gloves and plyers
 
Alcohol, lots of it...
 
42 here.

I work a lot, do a lot of sports, and travel on my off time. Got into scuba diving a long while ago, worked my way up to instructor. Now I can enjoy "free" diving by teaching normies how not to die underwater.
 
A lot of oldcels have decent careers (at least compared to me) and become workaholics. I'm low IQ so that wasn't an option.
Then you have a lot who drown their pain with alcohol/drugs, but I don't do any of that for a lot of reasons, one of them being seeing how they end up.

Some of them drown themselves in some other copes, but as I've gotten older i've largely lost interest in the copes I had when I was young.

I wish I had a better answer for you, but I guess I just don't handle it very well compared to other oldcels. (though arguably better than the extreme alcoholics and drug addicts). I work a minimum wage job that exhausts me and stresses me out, I post on here, I lurk a few other online communities, i run day to day errands, I watch youtube videos...that's my life. That's it.

If there's any silver lining, once you reach a certain age you kind of accept it. You get off the hamster wheel of ultimately fruitless endeavors of "turning your life around" and you realize that this is your life and that's just how it's going to be.
 
I’m gonna be one in 2 years and 30 is basically the final nail in the coffin. 25 was already when it was placed, but 30 is when it finally finishes getting hammered in. It’s truly over in its purest form by then if you haven’t had sex by 30. Only option at 30 is to win the lottery or find a totally brokeass single mother.

I got 2 years so I wanna prepare in advance. How do you lot do it?
Go fuck a protitute. Use a condom and NEVER kiss her or lick her pussy.

NEVER. Don't even finger her. It's desgusting.

Just tell her to lay on the bed and keep her mouth shut.

Do your thing. Revell in it, enjoy the orgasm, pay or pay beforehand and then leave.

Maybe, if you can, cum two or three times in an hour and then leave.

At least you've had sex.

That's what I've done, more or less.

Ascension is different though, and if you're a truecel, you will skowly descend into darkness while accepting your fate.

I am at a very "dark" place nowadays.

Never thought I would become this way.

Yesterday I watched a bluepilled movie with my mum, and it pissed me off throughout the entire movie.

I just can't deal with that bullshit anymore. Most movies I simply can't enjoy anymore.

Same goes for most games.

The blackpill sets you free, but at what cost?
 
42 here.

I work a lot, do a lot of sports, and travel on my off time. Got into scuba diving a long while ago, worked my way up to instructor. Now I can enjoy "free" diving by teaching normies how not to die underwater.
Hahaha, that is awesome. Stay safe, man. I am glad you have some fun in life.
 
I've gone basically monk mode. I work and and save money for retirement. I'm going to the gym a lot and eating healthy, quit alcohol and vaping. I'm planning to retire early and move to Southeast Asia where I'll fuck Asian whores and go swimming every day. That's it, I've completely accepted my fate and now just work toward that goal.
 
A lot of oldcels have decent careers (at least compared to me) and become workaholics. I'm low IQ so that wasn't an option.
Then you have a lot who drown their pain with alcohol/drugs, but I don't do any of that for a lot of reasons, one of them being seeing how they end up.

Some of them drown themselves in some other copes, but as I've gotten older i've largely lost interest in the copes I had when I was young.

I wish I had a better answer for you, but I guess I just don't handle it very well compared to other oldcels. (though arguably better than the extreme alcoholics and drug addicts). I work a minimum wage job that exhausts me and stresses me out, I post on here, I lurk a few other online communities, i run day to day errands, I watch youtube videos...that's my life. That's it.

If there's any silver lining, once you reach a certain age you kind of accept it. You get off the hamster wheel of ultimately fruitless endeavors of "turning your life around" and you realize that this is your life and that's just how it's going to be.
Your life sounds even more depressing than mine.
I work as a lather operator.
The work is stressful, the pay for some reason is shit ... .

I have found out that I get just 10 cents more per hour than a co-worker of mine who does low IQ work like tidying up and taking new orders from customers as well as managing our small warehouse.

And, for reasons I cannot talk about here, I can't just leave that place. For now I very much rely on thar job.

It's just that I've improved so much and improved the production so much on my own without seeing a nickel for it.

That experience has blackpilled me even more as I thought tthat this employee was different.
He pretends to be different and generous, but he ain't.

How can you pay a skilled labourer almost the same as an unskilled labourer who does easy tasks? This nigga doesn't even know how to use a caliper to measure stuff with.

I will start working on some side business and one day leave this shit show, out of the blue.

I'd like to see him replace me. He's already got a hard time finding good and trustworthy people.
 
Everyone say this but always become betabuxx to a single mother, the loneliness won't spare u. You wont scape that curse bro, and u will understand it in due time
I would accept becoming a betabuxx but nor for a single mother.
 
44. I'm content alone and being around others is torture. I despise this society. Thankfully, I have plenty of copes, don't have to wageslave, and live in a comfy apartment in a nice area.
You've got one year on me.

Copes is the way, and money maxxing to afford your copes and early retirement is recommended. What keeps me going is my investment portfolio and the hope that I can soon escape the rat race.
 
Recently turned 42. I wish I could tell you that you that in time you learn to adjust to the darkness that is feeling so utterly alone, but you don't. After 40, things are at an all time low for me. I am a workaholic, an alcoholic, a druggy, out of shape, and recently recovering from a surgery with absolutely NO ONE to help me get through recovery. I spend alot of time reminiscing on better and more innocent days, wanting to just feel innocent and care free one more time, and more often than not, just uncontrollably crying late at nights because I know those days are gone forever and nothing I say or do will bring them back. I actually posted something a while back about being an incel at 40 and what comes with it. Feel free to peruse it, but be ready for some unpleasant truths. All the best to you man. Sincerely hope that something turns around for you and my present doesn't become your future.
 
Might seem cucked but purely from a personal wellbeing standpoint i'd say dont be like Sodini is the first rule, don't covet relationships or even worse, fantasize about some girls in their early 20's :feelskek:, you might have gotten one in 1850 or something but that was a long time ago so don't be a fool. Look down on them for being liberated whores just like they look down on you by default due to their feministic ethos : you're even and have nothing to say to each other. If the sadness hits you so be it but don't let it take control by basking in it cause it quickly transforms into confusion, frustration, ressentment. I dont even look at women let alone entertain the possibility of being with them and this acceptance makes me feel better.
 
44. I'm content alone and being around others is torture. I despise this society. Thankfully, I have plenty of copes, don't have to wageslave, and live in a comfy apartment in a nice area.
You won hard. That's the kind of life i want. That's why i'm making moves to get lifetime psychobuxx right now in my early 30's. :feelsthink::feelshmm:
I despise this society.
:yes::feelsUgh:
 
How can you pay a skilled labourer almost the same as an unskilled labourer who does easy tasks?
LOL, what the fuck? Are you in the US? What is a lather operator?

I live in a country where at least 80 % of university-educated people make less than people who work with their hands. Teachers, professors etc. professions that require university-level education make way less money than employees who can cause real economic harm by striking. In the USA you are paid what you are worth, what is your value. In left-wing shithole one is paid based on what destruction one can cause by striking. So a dock worker earns 10-20 times more than high IQ white collar worker.
 
The blackpill philosophy, wagecucking, and licking the SOLES of noodlewhore escorts. :yes:
 
I've gone basically monk mode. I work and and save money for retirement. I'm going to the gym a lot and eating healthy, quit alcohol and vaping. I'm planning to retire early and move to Southeast Asia where I'll fuck Asian whores and go swimming every day. That's it, I've completely accepted my fate and now just work toward that goal.
Decent goal, I think everyone of us should get as much money as possible and try to live a healthy lifestyle to minimize the suffering as much as possible. I'm not sure about SEA part though.
 
Recently turned 42. I wish I could tell you that you that in time you learn to adjust to the darkness that is feeling so utterly alone, but you don't. After 40, things are at an all time low for me. I am a workaholic, an alcoholic, a druggy, out of shape, and recently recovering from a surgery with absolutely NO ONE to help me get through recovery. I spend alot of time reminiscing on better and more innocent days, wanting to just feel innocent and care free one more time, and more often than not, just uncontrollably crying late at nights because I know those days are gone forever and nothing I say or do will bring them back.
That's fucking terrible man, I hope things get better for you man.
 
i have no actual advice as im a sheltered mommy's boy with no real life experience, one thing i will say is that if you think anything will happen in your life simply because normies around you have this and that - you are wrong. You will get older and remain the sad loner you always were.
 
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Recently turned 42. I wish I could tell you that you that in time you learn to adjust to the darkness that is feeling so utterly alone, but you don't. After 40, things are at an all time low for me. I am a workaholic, an alcoholic, a druggy, out of shape, and recently recovering from a surgery with absolutely NO ONE to help me get through recovery. I spend alot of time reminiscing on better and more innocent days, wanting to just feel innocent and care free one more time, and more often than not, just uncontrollably crying late at nights because I know those days are gone forever and nothing I say or do will bring them back. I actually posted something a while back about being an incel at 40 and what comes with it. Feel free to peruse it, but be ready for some unpleasant truths. All the best to you man. Sincerely hope that something turns around for you and my present doesn't become your future.
hello future me.
 
or find a totally brokeass single mother.
Don't do that. Don't be such a cuck.

Btw I'm 35 and don't give a fuck about most things anymore, coping with alcohol and LDAR most of the time.
 
LOL, what the fuck? Are you in the US? What is a lather operator?

I live in a country where at least 80 % of university-educated people make less than people who work with their hands. Teachers, professors etc. professions that require university-level education make way less money than employees who can cause real economic harm by striking. In the USA you are paid what you are worth, what is your value. In left-wing shithole one is paid based on what destruction one can cause by striking. So a dock worker earns 10-20 times more than high IQ white collar worker.
I meant LATHE operator. Damn, is it so hard to tell the difference with just an r attacked?

No, I live in Germany.
 
The older I get, the shittier I feel after drinking. Not worth it.
yeah, I've noticed that, I'll have to search for better copes in the future.
 
Who do you speak to though?

Relatives. I’m ND, so it’s not like I ever had a social life, or any possibility of having one anyway.

I live in a drunk, stupid right wing shithole anyway, it’s not like there’s anyone around worth knowing anyway.
 
I meant LATHE operator. Damn, is it so hard to tell the difference with just an r attacked?
I have no idea what that is. Never heard. What it is in German?
 
0dVNyc0
 
I am almost 38 and I am not flexible and healthy as I used to be. Deteriorating health and aging body is worse than inceldom.
 

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