I mean when you're still virgin and no foids ever talk to you past 30, how do you cope ? Are you getting used to it anyway or is it becoming unbearable ?
Firstly, you need to realize things were very different 10, even 5 years ago.
But mainly just drugs, alcohol, hookers, work, gym and travel, like most people my age.
Farming. Got out of the city in 2015 and got used to being alone.
And keep away from all mainstream movies, tv, visual news.
And keep away from all mainstream movies, tv, visual news.
Sounds based. I used to have that mindset, but now it feels kinda hard. I don't really qualify as an oldcel yet though, it's just that I'm beginning to think at what will happen between now and my inevitable death in some decades from now.
Based advice though hard to follow. Mainstream shit is an easy source of leisure and cheap serotonin.
Serious response, it gets easier.
As you get older, the sex drive decreases, you become wiser and gain more clarity and acceptance of the [clown] world. Assuming you're not excessively co-dependent or emotionally needy, you'll come to appreciate the solitude and develop copes.
There are still regrets of missing out. Seeing prime and attractive foids that you will never have stings. I still want sex (waning despite constant exercise), but the desire for a partner or emotional connection is almost gone (its more about lack of validation that depresses me sporadically). the silver lining is that I don't have to concern myself about child support/alimony/vindictive ex. Such horror stories on the mensrights subreddit are just an outsider looking in from my perspective.
I basically just exist, going through my routine with the occasional urge to fuck and then ensuing self-loathing for an hour as I stare at the ceiling. Cope, than repeat.
No one is responding. They all roped
I don't cope, I just let the days keep going.
Yeah,it never began 4 me so i might as well save my energy instead of wasting it on futile endeavours.
I don’t foresee many incels living past 30. By then every single person you know is heavily invested into their own life and have their own empire built.
Every single person from highschool has a degree, a full time job, a wife, kids, 2 cars, their own house, maybe a boat or some ATV’s too if they have play money.
They already got their decade of partying and drugs and fucking, and don’t even care about it anymore, while we still desperately chase.
At that point, in Our 30’s, we are chasing what most people had, and now DONT EVEN WANT ANYMORE
Every single person from highschool has a degree, a full time job, a wife, kids, 2 cars, their own house, maybe a boat or some ATV’s too if they have play money.
They already got their decade of partying and drugs and fucking, and don’t even care about it anymore, while we still desperately chase.
At that point, in Our 30’s, we are chasing what most people had, and now DONT EVEN WANT ANYMORE
Coping itself is a struggle. Finding copes is another struggle.
I see those WMAF couples and couples in general especially on the weekends. They have each other's companies and they think about each other, bond, have motivation to live. And are happy. They literally look forward to life week by week.
Meanwhile, we Asian men literally rot inside. I can't believe these white foids are so unbelievably stuck up and cruel. When you see SO MANY WMAF couples, as in literally everywhere on every city block kid you fuckin not, you'd think those white foids seeing that too would think to themselves about actually giving us Asian men a chance.
I see those WMAF couples and couples in general especially on the weekends. They have each other's companies and they think about each other, bond, have motivation to live. And are happy. They literally look forward to life week by week.
Meanwhile, we Asian men literally rot inside. I can't believe these white foids are so unbelievably stuck up and cruel. When you see SO MANY WMAF couples, as in literally everywhere on every city block kid you fuckin not, you'd think those white foids seeing that too would think to themselves about actually giving us Asian men a chance.
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Just when you think you have experienced the absolute worst sensations the human brain is capable of producing you get hit by another wallop.
You begin to realize your "strength" keeping you alive is a curse that puts you through daily hell. And each day more and more sanity chips off.
Drugs are pretty much the only valid cope I have left.
You begin to realize your "strength" keeping you alive is a curse that puts you through daily hell. And each day more and more sanity chips off.
Drugs are pretty much the only valid cope I have left.
Asians kid parents beat the shit out of their kids because asian kids are ugly. If they are good looking and smart then the obedience will come naturally. On top of that they feed asian kids soy which is very harmfull for bone growth.
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Gambling
32 here, I've mostly gotten used to it by now, sometimes I can really get down and get tired of living but I tend to to keep my mind occupied with my copes/hobbies
Am 28 it ain't easy just gotta accumulate copes like no tomorrow
Just always looking forward to end of the world and the U.S. salivating over my personal ambitions to someday carry out my own vengeance upon this world. I'm an extremely patient man where for now at least I just patiently wait for the world's demise. You don't live as an oldcel for very long without learning patience and looking at everything with the lens of humor. Patience with mental fortitude is the only way to survive this absurd comedy world of ours, you're either laughing or crying, I prefer to laugh myself.
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Very difficult to cope when your friends chads describe their beautiful life.
how do you have internet and how did you not lose your sanity living alone
Same as anyone else, you dont magically change as you get older.
Based.
I'm used to it, but I still feel lonely, frustrated and generally unhappy with life.
9 to 5 work, videogames and ldar
I'm stuck in a vicious circle.
Hope to leave it.
Hope to leave it.
How old are you Marquis ? If you don't mindJust always looking forward to end of the world and the U.S. salivating over my personal ambitions to someday carry out my own vengeance upon this world. I'm an extremely patient man where for now at least I just patiently wait for the world's demise. You don't live as an oldcel for very long without learning patience and looking at everything with the lens of humor. Patience with mental fortitude is the only way to survive this absurd comedy world of ours, you're either laughing or crying, I prefer to laugh myself.
Thought you would be a youngcel for surviving out in the open
I'll be 36 soon.How old are you Marquis ? If you don't mind
Thought you would be a youngcel for surviving out in the open
This is a sad realization, painfully relatable.
Weed is probably the best and safest way to cope, and so are smaller doses of psychedelics. Alcohol doesn't work that well, sometimes still feel like shit when drunk.
My nephew is telling me how much foid attention he's getting at the age of 17. He's not taking everything though, he said that he will reject all fat foids, he's getting so much attention that he has to filter out foids.Very difficult to cope when your friends chads describe their beautiful life.
Inertia
I am oldcel wizard and I have never used any drugs, I have never drinked any alcohol even a drop, never visited any kind of prostitute, never worked a day, never gymmed, never travelled. I don't even know how to buy airplane tickets. Never visited the capital city of my country etc. etc. etc. etc.
Oldcel here... I haven't been coming around here much lately because basically I've been moneymaxxing my ass off. No, it's not not getting me laid, obviously. But I did the math... and moneymaxxing is the only way out of inceldom, and inevitable suicide.
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34 here; Ocasional escort to remind me how repulsive women see me as. Then work, buy bunch of crap, hobbies, until the hope of dating resurfaces again. Rinse and repeat.
I would rope but there’s still people that will miss me.
I would rope but there’s still people that will miss me.
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The moneymaxxing does not work for incels, only for volcels. The money is almost nothing in western countries now, foids receive everything as a gift from others now.
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pornography - i absolutely hate this now, but i have no alternative
gambling - the way i make my living, but i don't like the fact that there's an addictive/dopamine component of it
music - the only one of these 4 copes i actually like. Being an incel made me obssessed with music as it literally feels like my only friend
alcohol - thankfully i have stopped drinking now and dread he day i go back, but for a while i became alcoholic due to all this
gambling - the way i make my living, but i don't like the fact that there's an addictive/dopamine component of it
music - the only one of these 4 copes i actually like. Being an incel made me obssessed with music as it literally feels like my only friend
alcohol - thankfully i have stopped drinking now and dread he day i go back, but for a while i became alcoholic due to all this
The soup line getting longer.
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it gets worse and worse. ran out of copes, quit my job and am living on savings.
when i run out of money, i will rope.
when i run out of money, i will rope.
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Will you try finding another job?
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i was making good money at a faang company but had a mental breakdown due to loneliness. no motivation to find another one. will just end it when i’m out of money.
True oldcel
Sex drive is slowly being replaced by fomo. I've accepted it. Apart from that not much has changed.
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hay I am 38 years of age and may possibly die alone. I find that spiritual practices such as zazen meditation helps (have recently learned) reading holy scriptures and doing my youtube channel gives me happiness also buying things on the internet. but the loneliness still gets to me. I am always praying for god's assistance my way.
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not me mateNo one is responding. They all roped
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wow much respect to you
I'm somewhat younger but still semi-old. I can't cope for shit; I'm a wreck
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yes similar with me
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its getting harder everyday, 27 here, I just fap my urges away
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sort of yesI don’t foresee many incels living past 30. By then every single person you know is heavily invested into their own life and have their own empire built.
Every single person from highschool has a degree, a full time job, a wife, kids, 2 cars, their own house, maybe a boat or some ATV’s too if they have play money.
They already got their decade of partying and drugs and fucking, and don’t even care about it anymore, while we still desperately chase.
At that point, in Our 30’s, we are chasing what most people had, and now DONT EVEN WANT ANYMORE
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me too that is why we are here
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What does fomo mean?Sex drive is slowly being replaced by fomo. I've accepted it. Apart from that not much has changed.
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