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Oldcels, does the loneliness get better or worse with age?

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The answers here will probably be one-sided since they wouldn't be on this website if they didn't care, but would you say that your desire for sex & intimacy has lessened from your early 20s? Or has it gotten worse?
 
Probably worse, knowing you're a complete loser in his 30's who never had a female is probably a daily amount of suicide fuel.
They probably wear a fucking rope as a necktie for work.
 
No change really. But I can feel calm knowing I've conquered a lot of the horror in life and I've got a pretty stable life.
 
"better"
Being 30 years old without a female, being lonely having your chance for having kids to continue your legacy gradually decreasing, knowing your parents will have their bloodline stopped, must feel really good.
 
WAY worse. Why do you think I have 3000 posts + in a little more than a month? And I live with my family, imagine if I didn't.

I immediately feel lonely if I close incels.is/imageboards and am not talking to someone here.

When I was 18 it was very different, I could go on for days avoiding people and doing non-social stuff on the internet like playing non-online games.
 
I'd imagine it just continues to get worse, the loneliness that is, as that has been my experience for several years. I can't see myself becoming less lonely as I grow older and become more and more isolated from others than I already am.
 
In my experience, the increase in loneliness was proportional to the decrease in sex drive. I don't feel nearly as sex driven as I was when I was in my teens and early 20s, but the loneliness still remains and has increased.

Eventually though, that loneliness turns to emptiness. In my case, for the most part, I just burned out from caring. But at times, I do feel suicidally lonely and depressed.
 
Yeah its also been my experience that it gets worse year by year. In the early days loneliness felt poetic now its just falling into despair and feeling cornered. feels like I was a bit naive back in the days
 
I'm only 30 but it has increased.
I at least had hopes in my 20s that I was a late bloomer or that I could find me an ugly gf
Now entering my 30s I can see that this is it for me. No hope. I will never experience female touch. My only success in life is that at least I have a job. At my funeral there will be nobody but the priest and he will say, "That Pumkin. Boy oh boy. I heard he had a job." before they lower my body into the Earth forever.
 
37 here. KHHV truecel.

It gets worse if you think about it too much. Thinking about my prime years being behind me and I never, ever got any pussy or love or friendship during them is pretty bad, but the worst part is thinking of the coming 40 odd years of growing old and dying alone and forgotten.

The only thing I’m looking forward to right now is finally roping.
 
"better"
Being 30 years old without a female, being lonely having your chance for having kids to continue your legacy gradually decreasing, knowing your parents will have their bloodline stopped, must feel really good.

Aside from the first thing, we really have no reason to care about that other stuff. My legacy is ending? Guess what, every species goes extinct. Worrying about my parents’ bloodline coming to an end? They rolled the dice and it didn’t pan out, that happens.
 
"better"
Being 30 years old without a female, being lonely having your chance for having kids to continue your legacy gradually decreasing, knowing your parents will have their bloodline stopped, must feel really good.
I didn't say "good". Just better.
 

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