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Discussion Oldcels (25+) here who are still virgin, why didn't you escortmaxx at least once?

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Honestly if I don't find someone by the age of 23 I'm going to escortmaxx for sure
 
I live with my mom and feel watched. If I were truly alone in another city I imagine I would feel less conscious about it
 
I'm not willing to pay a woman for something that should be free
 
I live with my mom and feel watched. If I were truly alone in another city I imagine I would feel less conscious about it
Does your mom ever go out like to go buy something or do something? Maybe you could catch time
 
Does your mom ever go out like to go buy something or do something? Maybe you could catch time
No, you don't get it. Me going to see a prostitute is not totally unfeasible. It's just that near mom I feel much less inclined to do certain things. Like get drunk, get a hooker, do drugs etc.
 
Hard to find escorts in my part of the country. Most of them are available in bigger cities like Stockholm and Gothenburg. I live in the forest dude.

Sure i might be able to find one in my nearest city but it's probably a hard, long painful process. If i fail with online dating i will for sure try to hire an escort.
 
And was it worth it?
Did it multiple times during 2022 and 2023. Sometimes it was worth the money, most of the time not. I stopped at some point because it is a waste of money and got boring. These days i hardly even think about Sex anymore. No money in the world can buy true attraction and love.
 
It's legal where I'm from but I just don't want to pay for it since it's admitting to failure and it's humiliating. I wanted to be desired and valued, also risk of getting diseases and/or scammed.
 
I'm a NEET I don't have money
Also I dont have a car to travel around
 
I am too socially awkward and I am not comfortable with being naked for several reasons.
 
I have no desire to have sex with a stranger
 
I am 42, and I live in a very rural area, and while I work in a larger city, they are not common there.

Also, because of my unique circumstances of being "ND" I think that most prostitutes would refuse me as a client, and I do not mean "autism".

Finally, there would be so many things that could go wrong, ranging from getting an STI (Condoms are near worthless against herpes), getting scammed, too expensive, ect. that it does not seem worth it. Plus, knowing my luck, I would get busted by an undercover cop as prostitution is highly illegal in my country (The US).
 
Hard to find escorts in my part of the country. Most of them are available in bigger cities like Stockholm and Gothenburg. I live in the forest dude.

Sure i might be able to find one in my nearest city but it's probably a hard, long painful process. If i fail with online dating i will for sure try to hire an escort.
It would probably be better for you to visit a country where escortmaxxing is legal instead of trying to do it in Sweden. It's ridiculous that selling sex is legal here but buying it is not. The Nordic prostitution model is one of the most misandrist laws ever. Knowing as much as I do about the dickpill the only reason I would ever escortmaxx personally would be to have some jestermaxx stories to tell.
 
The Nordic prostitution model is one of the most misandrist laws ever.
Nordic prostitution model also doesn't make sense. It's illegal to buy sex, but legal to sell? That's a contradiction since with every transaction, there's always a buyer, and a seller.
 
I'll never escortmaxx because I don't want to pay foids and fund their lives.
 
Nordic prostitution model also doesn't make sense. It's illegal to buy sex, but legal to sell? That's a contradiction since with every transaction, there's always a buyer, and a seller.
The idea behind it is that they think that all prostitution is without consent due to trafficking, which is obviously not true. @The Judge made a great thread about it:
In Sweden you can get imprisonment of up to one year for escortmaxxing:
And the statue of limitations on escortmaxxing in Sweden is two years:
https://lawline.se/answers/hur-lang-ar-preskriptionstiden-for-sexkop-
If you are convicted for escortmaxxing it can end up on your criminal record for up to 10 years as well:
So that's why escortmaxxing is not worth the risk in Sweden. @wasted12years
 
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What is the point if I can't have the girl I love, I assume escortmaxxing is similar to masturbation
 
I don’t see the point in humiliating myself like that.
1. I don’t want to lose that money to a whore
2. I don’t like how adult women look
3. I don’t want to use a condom
4. I don’t want to lose a emotional part of myself
5. I have a small dick and will probably have performance anxiety not being able to get erect (I won’t even like the escorts body anyway probably)
6. The legality of it
7. I know it will be not be good because it’s going to be uncomfortable and shallow interaction
 
I'm not willing to pay a woman for something that should be free
I don’t see the point in humiliating myself like that.
1. I don’t want to lose that money to a whore
2. I don’t like how adult women look
3. I don’t want to use a condom
4. I don’t want to lose a emotional part of myself
5. I have a small dick and will probably have performance anxiety not being able to get erect (I won’t even like the escorts body anyway probably)
6. The legality of it
7. I know it will be not be good because it’s going to be uncomfortable and shallow interaction
 
I don’t see the point in humiliating myself like that.
1. I don’t want to lose that money to a whore
2. I don’t like how adult women look
3. I don’t want to use a condom
4. I don’t want to lose a emotional part of myself
5. I have a small dick and will probably have performance anxiety not being able to get erect (I won’t even like the escorts body anyway probably)
6. The legality of it
7. I know it will be not be good because it’s going to be uncomfortable and shallow interaction
Same here
 
1. I am too poor. All of my "NEETbuxx" is spent on food.

2. I have no idea where to search for one. Paying for a prostitute is illegal here, this is rather difficult.
 
Did it multiple times during 2022 and 2023. Sometimes it was worth the money, most of the time not. I stopped at some point because it is a waste of money and got boring. These days i hardly even think about Sex anymore. No money in the world can buy true attraction and love.
i have said this but if you experience sex a couple times you will realise it ain’t special and you will stop thinking about it. I was thinking about sex 24/7 before escortmaxxing. Sex is like water, you need it to function properly but it’s bland. It feels good as hell when you haven’t had it for a long time tho.
 
the true answer that most aren’t willing to give: Because they have social anxiety :feelskek:
 
‘Oldcels (25+)’ Yeah okay, mate. :feelskek:
 
i have said this but if you experience sex a couple times you will realise it ain’t special and you will stop thinking about it. I was thinking about sex 24/7 before escortmaxxing. Sex is like water, you need it to function properly but it’s bland. It feels good as hell when you haven’t had it for a long time tho.
I agree. Since escortmaxxing, i goon much less. Hardly really. I just don't enjoy it that much anymore. Sexual drive became a nuisance to me. I get thirsty, i drink so my body shuts up about it. The equivalent of that.
 
Honestly if I don't find someone by the age of 23 I'm going to escortmaxx for sure
First, I don't have the money for that.
Second, I don't give prostitutes money on principle.
 
being called an oldcel at 26 is pretty fucking brutal, I haven't escortmaxxed because the foids in my area are ugly as fuck and charge too much.
 
No money in the world can buy true attraction and love.
Good point

I would add that I could not possibly perform such an intimate act with a foid I don't even know.
I couldn't bring myself to do something like that.
 
I'm insecure about my dick size, body, lack of experience, and I just don't want to do it with someone who hates me and is disgusted by me. I'm also high inhib, and there's a decent chance I'd get scammed, beaten or mugged. If I had a huge dick I'd probably do it at least once. I'd also get in shape and maybe try getting into porn.
 
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When I was 25 I still had some hope things will change. Eventually I got to my 30's and realized it's been over for a long time.
1. I am too poor. All of my "NEETbuxx" is spent on food.

2. I have no idea where to search for one. Paying for a prostitute is illegal here, this is rather difficult.
1. So far the only reasonable excuse here.
2. Not hard once you take some time learning the ropes. Stick to girls who have been reviewed or have paid ads on reputable escort boards. Prostitution is every where whether it's illegal or not and it's never been easier than ever to see one. There's entire sites dedicated to it. The biggest risk is getting scammed, followed by getting robbed, and lastly LEA. I'm still willing to deal with all of that over living a sexless life because from my experience it's miserable.
I don’t see the point in humiliating myself like that.
1. I don’t want to lose that money to a whore
2. I don’t like how adult women look
3. I don’t want to use a condom
4. I don’t want to lose a emotional part of myself
5. I have a small dick and will probably have performance anxiety not being able to get erect (I won’t even like the escorts body anyway probably)
6. The legality of it
7. I know it will be not be good because it’s going to be uncomfortable and shallow interaction
1. It's either that or die a virgin tbh.
2. Can't relate.
3. I mean some girls do offer bareback but I wouldn't recommend doing that. Remember you aren't special and it will likely end in contracting an STD.
4. Honestly not a big loss. What I lost was my anxiety over being a virgin. It's been pretty good.
5. Now this is a reasonable concern especially with you considering you don't like adult women.
6. Who cares? Even law enforcement doesn't really care otherwise they would had cracked down on it much harder. As far as I'm concerned the only reason they try to stop prostitution from happening is to look good to their city so they get more funding and they usually stick to easy stuff like raiding agencies as they get more bang for their buck.
7. Depends on the woman you see. Some are excellent at conversing and making it seem like they like you. Others you'll feel like the fuckbot 9000 and wanna quit.
 
I have, but it doesn't fill the void.
 
Honestly if I don't find someone by the age of 23 I'm going to escortmaxx for sure
Against my religion/morals, too high inhib, seems awkward being naked with a stranger. I'm not even sure my penis works correctly (I'm a phimosis-cel). Also I lived with my mom and didn't have a car until I was 40.
 
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Disgusting wretched used up rot holes :feelsUgh:
It just doesn't make sense to me that a virgin should pay to get defiled by a filthy slut
 
I'm insecure about my dick size, body, lack of experience, and I just don't want to do it with someone who hates me and is disgusted by me.
 
i have said this but if you experience sex a couple times you will realise it ain’t special and you will stop thinking about it. I was thinking about sex 24/7 before escortmaxxing. Sex is like water, you need it to function properly but it’s bland. It feels good as hell when you haven’t had it for a long time tho.
Best take in this thread
 

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