Venting Not everyone likes me.

[NowItsSlimeTime]

I know this seems like a silly thing to vent about, but I just don't think many people like me. And that sucks. I want to be liked, I want to belong, I want to have someplace I can feel good for being there. I just don't have many places like that.

Just today I got someone yelling at me to stop talking (through private message but in shouty caps) because I was doing it in the wrong area. And they got really aggressive about it. Here that doesn't happen, and that's great and all, but I also have the reverse problem where things people say hurt me.

And like, yeah not everyone should have to build me up all the time, that's unrealistic, but it sucks to think that people out there just... don't enjoy me. They would be happy if I wasn't there, if I died, if I was gone. I just wish that I could belong, that I could have that compassion and basic companionship that so many other people seem to have.

And why? Why can't I? This is one of the best places on the internet for me, but I still get sad if I stay here too long because people think I'm lying or infiltrating and that just bums me out. I love being here because I can say whatever whenever, even if I don't exercise that much, but... I just don't feel like I belong here too, or that people don't want me here either.

It's really hard.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

which retarded nigger here is saying your infiltrating fuck them

also boyo Idk whats wrong with the world but everyone is a stuckup cunt who is only focused on themselves

They don't care if you have a good bubbly funny personality which I know you have they just want to see what they can get out of you

Alot of modern day friendships arent really friendships they are appearances almost all of them at the end of the day backstab each other by either cucking each other or disrespecting each other behind there back theres no such thing as a brotherhood bond anymore

Its very hard to find genuine friendships

No, totally. It can be difficult to get people who like you in the world, that you also like, and then who can both foster a bond of mutual trust. The issue is that it's incredibly hard to find someone who you can actually associate with, by virtue of how unique we are as people. We are the only ones going through our own experiences.

But yeah, sucks I can't have many friends.

I haven't had it directly said to me in a while, but I made a thread about my aggresiveness and everyone called me a glowie there, and then I got called IT by someone for asking them a question in private messages (since resolved) and... once a few months ago. Can't remember who or when.

I wish we could make some genuine change in the world. But, just like people only focus on themselves, well... people can only change by themselves.

 

[Luzifer]

Just buy some hookers they will like you afterwards

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

Ya I hope your able to find a friend group

I mean its brutal dealing with incel problems + trauma

but not having a friend group to talk about your problems makes it even worse

Totally

It's because that stuff gets pent up inside you, and then you can't deal with it as easy, and then it becomes bigger. Big reason why I actually act really meek irl, I was (semi) abused as a kid and when my parents took me to therapy the therapist breached conduct and told them what I said to her.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

Just buy some hookers they will like you afterwards

i have already decided if i buy a hooker i will make her my emotional support animal

 

[Mecoja]

I know this seems like a silly thing to vent about, but I just don't think many people like me. And that sucks. I want to be liked, I want to belong, I want to have someplace I can feel good for being there. I just don't have many places like that.

Just today I got someone yelling at me to stop talking (through private message but in shouty caps) because I was doing it in the wrong area. And they got really aggressive about it. Here that doesn't happen, and that's great and all, but I also have the reverse problem where things people say hurt me.

And like, yeah not everyone should have to build me up all the time, that's unrealistic, but it sucks to think that people out there just... don't enjoy me. They would be happy if I wasn't there, if I died, if I was gone. I just wish that I could belong, that I could have that compassion and basic companionship that so many other people seem to have.

And why? Why can't I? This is one of the best places on the internet for me, but I still get sad if I stay here too long because people think I'm lying or infiltrating and that just bums me out. I love being here because I can say whatever whenever, even if I don't exercise that much, but... I just don't feel like I belong here too, or that people don't want me here either.

It's really hard.

Users here are suspicious of new members because often people (redditors, youtubers, journalists wannabe) join to make fun of us. stick around longer for users to get to know you.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

hope that dumbass got fired

also nigga dont act meek ur just gonna be a doormat for everyone else

I had alot of trauma like you and it only toughened me (also damaged me alot)

if your gonna act like a submissive cuck you should be ready for these dumb whores to walk all over you

Eh, I wouldn't call it trauma.

I did try to kill myself, granted, because of my mom manipulating me.

But it's nothing compared to what a lot of people go through at all. Yours was probably worse. B)

Basically my dad was complacent to whatever my mom would do, and my mom would do shit like gossip behind our backs by saying rude stuff to other family members, lie and say she never said or did hurtful stuff she did, and drove my sister to trying to kill herself as well by saying she was whoring herself out for drugs. My dad, in more recent times, never talks to me. If I don't call my mom at least once a week she gets upset but also says I can "call her whenever". Our calls consist of her telling me that she never talks to anyone else in our family and I have to talk to them to ask them why they don't talk to her, or her asking about stuff I have no interest in.

While I was with my mom (parents divorced when I was in elementary), I would have thoughts of killing her. It started when I almost strangled her in front of my dad when he visited and, when she took away literally everything in my room because I had brought something from my dad's house to hers, I yelled at her, threatened to kill her then tried to overdose.

She isn't the worst mom, and only semi abusive, but I still love her. I can't really just replace her.

Anyway yeah trying to be stronger emotionally. I don't like people walking over me, so I gotta work on not letting that happen.

Users here are suspicious of new members because often people (redditors, youtubers, journalists wannabe) join to make fun of us. stick around longer for users to get to know you.

Yeah I get that. I remain a 2022cel. Thanks for clarifying though, it is appreciated

 

[Sans]

also boyo Idk whats wrong with the world but everyone is a stuckup cunt who is only focused on themselves

They don't care if you have a good bubbly funny personality which I know you have they just want to see what they can get out of you

Alot of modern day friendships arent really friendships they are appearances almost all of them at the end of the day backstab each other by either cucking each other or disrespecting each other behind there back theres no such thing as a brotherhood bond anymore

Its very hard to find genuine friendships

It’s fucking sad - I know all about the stereotype of friend groups going to the bar for a few drinks, I’ve seen it in person, there’s the sense of friendship/brotherhood, but nowadays it’s almost impossible to have that :feelserope:

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

damm nigga u crazy

hope you your able to break out of your predicament

Oh, I moved out. I live on my own rn. Well, with roommates, but still.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

Cant u befriend your roommates?

Trying to yeah

I think I am close enough with them. But sometimes they get upset, and that makes me

see i told u, dumb thing to worry about

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

why do they get upset?

Are you annoying or something

also are u repulsive to look at?

Mostly because I have difficulty getting asleep, but I also have autism, so I have difficulty communicating with them. Once again, I'm really meek irl, too, so I also kinda hide away.

A lot of people say I look like I'm 30, btw. Like a lot of people.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

I didn't know you had autism wow yes it will be very hard to communicate when you have autism

And ya your looks don't help either

If anything please dont tell them you have autisim and dont let them find out on there own

you have to hide it

Idk that much about autism but I do know FOR A FACT that as soon as they know your autistic they will treat you like you have cooties in diary of the wimpy kid

Okay but diary of a wimpy kid slaps thooo

Anyway, got it. Thanks for the advice brocel!

 

[RandomGuy]

Don't Please Others​

View: https://youtu.be/yItM0DmmZsI

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

which retarded nigger here is saying your infiltrating fuck them

Don't Please Others​

View: https://youtu.be/yItM0DmmZsI

 

[Hoppipolla]

I must admit I find that avatar a bit jarring but it might just be because I don't know the game, heh

Other than that you seem fine.

It can be hard to feel wanted and valued as a man.

Children are treated well, women are treated well, but it can be a tough world out there for men.

I think it's best to focus on yourself a lot and especially your accomplishments. And of course do keep socialising also. Other things seem to naturally follow after that.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

I must admit I find that avatar a bit jarring but it might just be because I don't know the game, heh

Other than that you seem fine.

It can be hard to feel wanted and valued as a man.

Children are treated well, women are treated well, but it can be a tough world out there for men.

I think it's best to focus on yourself a lot and especially your accomplishments. And of course do keep socialising also. Other things seem to naturally follow after that.

DUDE YOU NEED TO PLAY DRAGON QUEST IT IS SO GOOD

but thanks. I appreciate that. It's good advice too, I'll make sure to not give up.

 

[Sans]

Ik for a fact alot of men are feeling this way yet wont address it or dont care about it

its so weird

This is why I wish I could meet some of the forum users in person - I know it’s not likely to happen because of the potential for FBI honeypots or whatever but I think our mental health could be greatly improved just by having some sort of IRL friend group

 

[Hoppipolla]

DUDE YOU NEED TO PLAY DRAGON QUEST IT IS SO GOOD

but thanks. I appreciate that. It's good advice too, I'll make sure to not give up.

That is good I'm glad ^^

Also I looked it up on Steam and found 11, Builders and Heroes.

I'm not really that into turn-based stuff although I really like how it says you can switch between 3D and 2D mode ^^

Heroes has lower reviews?

Builders looked quite good as it had high reviews and wasn't turn-based but I dunno if you like that one :o

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

That is good I'm glad ^^

Also I looked it up on Steam and found 11, Builders and Heroes.

I'm not really that into turn-based stuff although I really like how it says you can switch between 3D and 2D mode ^^

Heroes has lower reviews?

Builders looked quite good as it had high reviews and wasn't turn-based but I dunno if you like that one :o

Oh, if you don't like turn based then don't play mainline. Don't worry, there's no congruent plot, you won't miss anything.

The cool thing about dragon quest is that it's a huge series (in japan) so pretty much any of the games can be appealing. I haven't tried builders yet but reccomend it!

I haven't tried heroes yet. While I reccomend it, it features a lot of dragon quest characters. They'll probably be lost on you without their stories.

and yeah, they basically changed the game's entire interface to work with 2d as well. Every monster has a 2d version. It does get rid of the voice acting, sadly.

 

[NoLooksNoLife]

I know this seems like a silly thing to vent about, but I just don't think many people like me. And that sucks. I want to be liked, I want to belong, I want to have someplace I can feel good for being there. I just don't have many places like that.

Just today I got someone yelling at me to stop talking (through private message but in shouty caps) because I was doing it in the wrong area. And they got really aggressive about it. Here that doesn't happen, and that's great and all, but I also have the reverse problem where things people say hurt me.

And like, yeah not everyone should have to build me up all the time, that's unrealistic, but it sucks to think that people out there just... don't enjoy me. They would be happy if I wasn't there, if I died, if I was gone. I just wish that I could belong, that I could have that compassion and basic companionship that so many other people seem to have.

And why? Why can't I? This is one of the best places on the internet for me, but I still get sad if I stay here too long because people think I'm lying or infiltrating and that just bums me out. I love being here because I can say whatever whenever, even if I don't exercise that much, but... I just don't feel like I belong here too, or that people don't want me here either.

It's really hard.

Ok GrAYcel

 

[NoMoreHope]

While I was with my mom (parents divorced when I was in elementary), I would have thoughts of killing her. It started when I almost strangled her in front of my dad when he visited and, when she took away literally everything in my room because I had brought something from my dad's house to hers, I yelled at her, threatened to kill her then tried to overdose.

 

[righteouscel]

Got told irl nobody liked me

 

[Hoppipolla]

Oh, if you don't like turn based then don't play mainline. Don't worry, there's no congruent plot, you won't miss anything.

The cool thing about dragon quest is that it's a huge series (in japan) so pretty much any of the games can be appealing. I haven't tried builders yet but reccomend it!

I haven't tried heroes yet. While I reccomend it, it features a lot of dragon quest characters. They'll probably be lost on you without their stories.

and yeah, they basically changed the game's entire interface to work with 2d as well. Every monster has a 2d version. It does get rid of the voice acting, sadly.

That's really cool yeah

I do play a lot of indie and retro games. Recently I've been mostly playing Spectacular Sparky, Police Stories, Blake Stone 2 and The Long Dark!

So I guess mostly action and survival.

 

[NowItsSlimeTime]

That's really cool yeah

I do play a lot of indie and retro games. Recently I've been mostly playing Spectacular Sparky, Police Stories, Blake Stone 2 and The Long Dark!

So I guess mostly action and survival.

I would reccomend the stanley parable, specifically ultra deluxe, uhh... most of my favorite games are turn based, so I can't think of any others rn.

 

[Hoppipolla]

I would reccomend the stanley parable, specifically ultra deluxe, uhh... most of my favorite games are turn based, so I can't think of any others rn.

I think I did try that once...

Hm. Apparently I played it for an hour and the demo for half an hour. According to my Steam!

It was OK. Maybe not my style but pretty interesting ^^