A typical advice for struggling men is to get out of their comfort zones. Though unlike other common platitudes this is actually pretty solid advice, it still comes across as naive and unempathetic due to not recognizing the social inequality and discrimination faced by men on the basis of their bones. What happens to the psyche of a boy when every time he attempts to escape his comfort zone he is punished? He will of course avoid going outside of it. This is not an unreasonable decision but a completely logical one performed by the brain after it has been exposed to continuous negative stimulus. This is especially pronounced in those with ADHD who experience a greater sensitivity to rejection. But negative stimulus does not come from thin air. If a biologically undesirable man fails his failures are amplified, and if he achieves success his victories are muted. Occasionally, especially if he is a child surrounded by other children, the undesirable male is denied and pushed out from partaking in a social activity (i.e. football) via harassment and physical force.
A male with desirable biology on the other hand does not usually get punished for going outside their comfort zone. He attains the benefits while receiving minimal mental scarring. If he is ridiculed it is done in a non-malicious joking manner, they still recognize him as human and not Untermensch. Mankind does not intend to exclude him under usual circumstances and he rarely gets beaten back into his comfort zone. If he goes back into his comfort zone it is by his own will or maybe as a result neurodivergence such as schizoid personality disorder
tl;dr Chad's discomfort zone is nowhere near as bad as the Subfive's discomfort zone
Does anyone here have any experiences that corroborate this or am I missing the mark?
A male with desirable biology on the other hand does not usually get punished for going outside their comfort zone. He attains the benefits while receiving minimal mental scarring. If he is ridiculed it is done in a non-malicious joking manner, they still recognize him as human and not Untermensch. Mankind does not intend to exclude him under usual circumstances and he rarely gets beaten back into his comfort zone. If he goes back into his comfort zone it is by his own will or maybe as a result neurodivergence such as schizoid personality disorder
tl;dr Chad's discomfort zone is nowhere near as bad as the Subfive's discomfort zone
Does anyone here have any experiences that corroborate this or am I missing the mark?
