This guy killed his sister. If you have a 5head it's over.
This guy killed his sister. If you have a 5head it's over.
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Baldness causes immense psychological damage and trauma.
Men of course never admit this, because of the cognitive dissonance that arises from our being conditioned and socialized, by means of manipulation, coercion, shame, or outright force, into being stoic, silent, forced to bottle up our emotions, lest our masculinity, or reputation take a hit.
This is why it is incredibly difficult for men to seek help. A man admitting he needs help is a man, that society, sees as less than a man. He is penalized for needing help. And if not, then he is met with indifference. This causes an immense amount of cognitive dissonance where a man feels overwhelmed by feelings of hopelessness and despair and knows he needs help or wants help; and in the same breath he feels an overwhelming amount of guilt and shame for needing it, fear of looking weak or soft, fear that his status or reputation will take a hit when he’s seen without the brave face that he’s expected to wear.
So what does he do? He takes the path of least resistance. He stays silent. It’s easier to stay silent and endure those feelings of despair and hopelessness than to admit there’s something wrong and risk his status or reputation as a man. The dissonance triggers deep existential fears that affect men in unique ways.
We can see this in the yearly suicide stats. Men are the overwhelming majority of “deaths of despair.”
Anyway, make and keep friends if you can you guys. Healthy coping mechanisms. Read good literature. I recommend “notes from underground” and “dangling man” (ending sucks ass though).
Men of course never admit this, because of the cognitive dissonance that arises from our being conditioned and socialized, by means of manipulation, coercion, shame, or outright force, into being stoic, silent, forced to bottle up our emotions, lest our masculinity, or reputation take a hit.
This is why it is incredibly difficult for men to seek help. A man admitting he needs help is a man, that society, sees as less than a man. He is penalized for needing help. And if not, then he is met with indifference. This causes an immense amount of cognitive dissonance where a man feels overwhelmed by feelings of hopelessness and despair and knows he needs help or wants help; and in the same breath he feels an overwhelming amount of guilt and shame for needing it, fear of looking weak or soft, fear that his status or reputation will take a hit when he’s seen without the brave face that he’s expected to wear.
So what does he do? He takes the path of least resistance. He stays silent. It’s easier to stay silent and endure those feelings of despair and hopelessness than to admit there’s something wrong and risk his status or reputation as a man. The dissonance triggers deep existential fears that affect men in unique ways.
We can see this in the yearly suicide stats. Men are the overwhelming majority of “deaths of despair.”
Anyway, make and keep friends if you can you guys. Healthy coping mechanisms. Read good literature. I recommend “notes from underground” and “dangling man” (ending sucks ass though).
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