we act like we dont care what we wear, but we really do. Like if you had nothing but pink skirts in your closet you would freak out.
It's more accurate to say that we want to project an image of ourselves that seems distinctly male in gender, but invisible. Conveying an image like we don't care about fashion is something we are extremely sensitive to
In a way it's actually kinda gay to not care about fashion at all. That's why gay people dress so queer, because they really don't care what they wear, and are openly experimental about it in a nonchalant way