This is what's called a narcissistic "splitting" defense tbh
But there is truth to it insofar as being ostracized from society due to low social status ends up enabling you to unironically form your own personality and world-view, at least when the social exclusion stops hurting and being a massive source of debilitating psychic pain that stops any character development from happening whatsoever (the secret to this is the therapeutic use of LOW DOSE OPIOID AGONISTS).
Like idgaf anymore about social standards or rules anymore, am a thugmaxxed felon, and finally have a personaliteehee that's genuine in its hatred and spite for soyciety
But yeah, it would not be possible if not for opioid agonists. These trick the brain and body into thinking you have close relationships and social belonging (endogenous opioids regulate SOCIAL ATTACHMENT and dictate love/bonding -- incels clearly have a deficiency of this, and it explains all the pain I and so many others on here have gone through in life, and why exogenous opioids relieve it).