I hate it, with a burning passion, whenever someone calls out this "you can only be loved as much as you allow yourself to love you first" BS.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING. Especially how were treated when you were a child (in the love department that is) is how you WILL see yourself from them on, and there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. ZERO.
We are not cheetas, leopards, tigers, lions or wtvtf big cat you can name. We NEED other people to dictate our self worth, in more ways than we would like to, also.
We wouldnt even know how to SHIT in the right place if it werent for other people telling us how at some point. Thats when a green light should enter the minds and kinds of these normies who talk about this self love BS.
We learn vehemently (like 95%) through example and/or dictations of what we should behave, act and expect from others AND OURSELVES. But normies want to bury that last part.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING. Especially how were treated when you were a child (in the love department that is) is how you WILL see yourself from them on, and there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. ZERO.
We are not cheetas, leopards, tigers, lions or wtvtf big cat you can name. We NEED other people to dictate our self worth, in more ways than we would like to, also.
We wouldnt even know how to SHIT in the right place if it werent for other people telling us how at some point. Thats when a green light should enter the minds and kinds of these normies who talk about this self love BS.
We learn vehemently (like 95%) through example and/or dictations of what we should behave, act and expect from others AND OURSELVES. But normies want to bury that last part.
