janoycresva
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I legit only talk to one person, who I do enjoy speaking with. I'd consider him a best friend since he's also incel and we face time almost every weekend.
Talking to anybody else though? It physically drains me. Yesterday, I had to talk to more people than usual and what I mean by this, is that I really didn't even have an extended conversation with anybody, I just exchanged a few words in a professional setting (there were no actual conversations where people sit, eat and talk for example). Today I woke up with absolutely no energy to interact with others despite the actual relative lack of conversing I did yesterday.
I think one of the key aspects of breaking out of mentalceldom is to learn how to enjoy talking to people. That's easier said than done, but I feel like something just needs to click in my brain and I'll be able to become an extrovert.
Talking to anybody else though? It physically drains me. Yesterday, I had to talk to more people than usual and what I mean by this, is that I really didn't even have an extended conversation with anybody, I just exchanged a few words in a professional setting (there were no actual conversations where people sit, eat and talk for example). Today I woke up with absolutely no energy to interact with others despite the actual relative lack of conversing I did yesterday.
I think one of the key aspects of breaking out of mentalceldom is to learn how to enjoy talking to people. That's easier said than done, but I feel like something just needs to click in my brain and I'll be able to become an extrovert.