They love playing both sides of the coin.
Women are strong and independent, but wants to be treated nicely like a woman does??? Pussy!! But wait?? Why are they using femininity as an insult? See? It makes no sense.
Think about foids like electricity; they will always take the path of least resistance.
So if they can get validation from society for calling themselves strong and independent, they will do that. If they can hurt you or degrade you by calling you feminine, then they will also do that. At no point in their foid brain does that register as hypocrisy because their brains simply aren’t wired to be able to recognize it for what it is. They simply see it as a means to their end, and more importantly, a convenient, means to their end.
Another example, like you said, women aren’t objects and yet they’ll make fun of a man for getting “no bitches”. Why is that? It’s because in their foid brain and because of our matriarchal society, they’ve all got it in their brain that they are the prize. So when they see a man with a lack of foid attention, they register that as him not being good enough to have “won” or have any “prizes” or good enough to acquire vagina. And at the same time in their foid brains they’ll consider it one of the biggest insults to be wanted for sex by a man. Even though they consider themselves a sexual prize, they don’t like being objectified on the basis of their sexuality.