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Hello everyone,
First post, so be kind and open-minded.
As a 61 year old incel (nice to finally find out what I am and have a name for it) I would like to offer my brief insight as to what makes the Incel condition possible. I hope to flesh this out more later when time permits.
1. Love is an artificial concept invented by gay men in the remote past so they can hang around women all day but used by women to get things they really do not deserve: diamonds, your paycheck, life of leisure, status from your accomplishments, and so on. Trust me on this, women do NOT believe in love but in getting the BEST DEAL possible. The feminist mantra is, "Do not settle" which means do not marry the schmoe who loves you but the guy with the most bucks/status/etc. As an Incel of longstanding I used to take this to mean that "I" am unloveable. No. It means that women (most) are incapable of truly loving a man in the sense of the word that you want it to mean. But I still feel unloved.
2. Chad, I take to mean a physically appealing man that women go "ga-ga" over, is not a superior being. I used to think so and in truth still do on a deeper, unchangeable level. But women are attracted to men whom they think their girlfriends will approve of or admire- a status symbol. What Chads have in looks or physique they almost universally lack in intellect, compassion, and the other attributes that make the world a better place. I try to think of not being a Chad as a plus but we know how that goes in the world of public opinion. Jesus was a great guy but they crucified him anyway.
3. metoo movement: another version of the 'born-again virgin' movement from years ago. These women knew they had lesser talent and the only way they could compete with more talented women was to use their body. But once they become famous or successful they cannot live with the fact that they are sluts and even worse, they do not want the world to think they are sluts- even though we know they are, so they yell 'rape'. If they yell 'rape' long enough and loud enough it will drown out the protestations of their male victim who made them successful. That is how women repay men. Note that Harvey Weinstein was universally described as a shy nerd, brilliant, but not a chad- so this makes him easier to victimize.
4. Pornography has had the untoward effect of convincing women that their most important asset is their vagina, that all men are dogs to be used, abused, ordered around, and humiliated. All women, by virtue of having a vagina, think they are special. Their self-esteem arises from how many Chads they can get inside of them and how many Incels they can humiliate. Then they get old, tossed aside, have no one to love them, and die alone- as it should be for all of the misery they created with their self-centered life.
5. Being an Incel has been miserable but also liberating in that I have the self-respect from not being a tool. Daily humiliation no longer bothers me and dreams of suicide passed a couple of decades ago. But I lived long enough to see the misery most women have brought upon themselves through karma. I only wish I could have found a woman worthy of my time and affection- like I have seen other Incel men finally find in their 30s to 50s. Some of my acquaintances gave up on American women and found wonderful wives from South America and the Philippines, but that was not for me.
6. Here is a blast from the past: in the 60s a feminist game/tool against men was to pick up a guy, go to his place to supposedly have sex, then when the man's penis was exposed, she would laugh at it and leave. This was designed to humiliate men and 'put them in their place'. How many men turned gay because of this? Or committed suicide? The modern variation on this feminist theme is the, "Once you go black, you won't go back."
7. White women do not really consider black men to be superior to white men. White women have sex with black men to make white men angry, to get black men to give them drugs, for fun since they know black men only want them for sex, and to humiliate black women by perpetuating the notion that white women are more desirable than black women.
More to come if interested.
First post, so be kind and open-minded.
As a 61 year old incel (nice to finally find out what I am and have a name for it) I would like to offer my brief insight as to what makes the Incel condition possible. I hope to flesh this out more later when time permits.
1. Love is an artificial concept invented by gay men in the remote past so they can hang around women all day but used by women to get things they really do not deserve: diamonds, your paycheck, life of leisure, status from your accomplishments, and so on. Trust me on this, women do NOT believe in love but in getting the BEST DEAL possible. The feminist mantra is, "Do not settle" which means do not marry the schmoe who loves you but the guy with the most bucks/status/etc. As an Incel of longstanding I used to take this to mean that "I" am unloveable. No. It means that women (most) are incapable of truly loving a man in the sense of the word that you want it to mean. But I still feel unloved.
2. Chad, I take to mean a physically appealing man that women go "ga-ga" over, is not a superior being. I used to think so and in truth still do on a deeper, unchangeable level. But women are attracted to men whom they think their girlfriends will approve of or admire- a status symbol. What Chads have in looks or physique they almost universally lack in intellect, compassion, and the other attributes that make the world a better place. I try to think of not being a Chad as a plus but we know how that goes in the world of public opinion. Jesus was a great guy but they crucified him anyway.
3. metoo movement: another version of the 'born-again virgin' movement from years ago. These women knew they had lesser talent and the only way they could compete with more talented women was to use their body. But once they become famous or successful they cannot live with the fact that they are sluts and even worse, they do not want the world to think they are sluts- even though we know they are, so they yell 'rape'. If they yell 'rape' long enough and loud enough it will drown out the protestations of their male victim who made them successful. That is how women repay men. Note that Harvey Weinstein was universally described as a shy nerd, brilliant, but not a chad- so this makes him easier to victimize.
4. Pornography has had the untoward effect of convincing women that their most important asset is their vagina, that all men are dogs to be used, abused, ordered around, and humiliated. All women, by virtue of having a vagina, think they are special. Their self-esteem arises from how many Chads they can get inside of them and how many Incels they can humiliate. Then they get old, tossed aside, have no one to love them, and die alone- as it should be for all of the misery they created with their self-centered life.
5. Being an Incel has been miserable but also liberating in that I have the self-respect from not being a tool. Daily humiliation no longer bothers me and dreams of suicide passed a couple of decades ago. But I lived long enough to see the misery most women have brought upon themselves through karma. I only wish I could have found a woman worthy of my time and affection- like I have seen other Incel men finally find in their 30s to 50s. Some of my acquaintances gave up on American women and found wonderful wives from South America and the Philippines, but that was not for me.
6. Here is a blast from the past: in the 60s a feminist game/tool against men was to pick up a guy, go to his place to supposedly have sex, then when the man's penis was exposed, she would laugh at it and leave. This was designed to humiliate men and 'put them in their place'. How many men turned gay because of this? Or committed suicide? The modern variation on this feminist theme is the, "Once you go black, you won't go back."
7. White women do not really consider black men to be superior to white men. White women have sex with black men to make white men angry, to get black men to give them drugs, for fun since they know black men only want them for sex, and to humiliate black women by perpetuating the notion that white women are more desirable than black women.
More to come if interested.
