
ALifeWastedOnRot
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My mom is the most freakishly controlling person I've ever met. Literally beyond parody, like she controls when I can use the bathroom and drink water.
She doesn't EXPLICITLY say I can't use the bathroom, but she'll be all passive aggressive. I'll get up to use the bathroom and she'll say
>"HEY! WHERE ARE YOU GOING????"
I'll say I'm just going to the washroom
>"ANON YOU JUST WENT"
>"yeah but i just drank a whole thing of sparkling water"
>"BUT ANON, YOU JUST WENT!! YOU DONT NEED TO USE THE BATHROOM!"
>"Yeah but i do need to go lol, what?"
>"ANNNNNON, MAYBE WE NEED TO GET YOU CHECKED OUT!"
It's super annoying because now when I need to use the bathroom, I don't go. She has effectively controlled me to stop using the bathroom as much because I know everytime I go I have to fight through her bullshit. She does the exact same thing when I get up to grab water or do anything. She seems to be snarky with every little action I do. Even if I go upstairs to get away from her she starts yelling at me for going upstairs and says I have no reason to be there.
My new strategy:
>"I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT, LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE, I DO WHAT I ANNNNNNNNT!"
I rent my own place now so even if I get kicked out over this, she has no bargaining power over me. It's lifefuel to finally say this to her.
She doesn't EXPLICITLY say I can't use the bathroom, but she'll be all passive aggressive. I'll get up to use the bathroom and she'll say
>"HEY! WHERE ARE YOU GOING????"
I'll say I'm just going to the washroom
>"ANON YOU JUST WENT"
>"yeah but i just drank a whole thing of sparkling water"
>"BUT ANON, YOU JUST WENT!! YOU DONT NEED TO USE THE BATHROOM!"
>"Yeah but i do need to go lol, what?"
>"ANNNNNON, MAYBE WE NEED TO GET YOU CHECKED OUT!"
It's super annoying because now when I need to use the bathroom, I don't go. She has effectively controlled me to stop using the bathroom as much because I know everytime I go I have to fight through her bullshit. She does the exact same thing when I get up to grab water or do anything. She seems to be snarky with every little action I do. Even if I go upstairs to get away from her she starts yelling at me for going upstairs and says I have no reason to be there.
My new strategy:
>"I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT, LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE, I DO WHAT I ANNNNNNNNT!"
I rent my own place now so even if I get kicked out over this, she has no bargaining power over me. It's lifefuel to finally say this to her.