New Cope. Borderline Personality Disorder. The personality disorder not even Incels would want to have a relationship with

[CaptainRussia]

Actually it's cope and suicide fuel in one. According to the mental healt support forum i've been in, foids with borderline personality disorder will clinge to you so hard that not even an incel would put up with that. no matter what you do it is never enough. they will search your phone, your browser history and accuse you of cheating if you are out of sight for more then 10 minutes. they will devalue you and then lift you up, but always devalue you more then they do good. if you are in a relationship with a borderliner you are in for constant drama.

now the cope part. those borderliners are usually aware that something is wrong with them and that no one will put up with that. since borderliners fear abandonment to an insane extent, they will settle for way less then their looksmatch, just to be safe not to be abandoned. there are many hot borderliners out there. borderliners have a lot of sex. borderliners may get together with incels, because they think an incel wont leave them.

now the suicide fuel part. no one can put up with that. if you ever snag a borderliner, you are going to commit suicide faster then you would have without a gf. borderliners are more prone to cheating, because they always need someone around. no more privacy for you. constant drama. get ready to be depressed, while in a relationship and after she leaves you.

i claim that many of those anecdotal "ugly guy with hot gf" are ugly guys with borderline foids.

 

[Mickeyonacid]

I'm not touching this with a yardstick but all I'm going to say is
>Having a girlfriend with BPD is better than no girlfriend at all

 

[Void]

They are yanderes in real life, without the cute part, being protective or devoted.

From what I can gather, with borderlines it's a predator and prey relationship. She'll get bored of you if she can't get arise out of you, its a rare case where being confident will fuck you. If you try to call her out, she'll keep doing crazier and crazier stuff to match you.

A shame though, most of them are really hot due to being hot and crazy have a positive relationship to each other just like you say.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

I would love to have a girlfriend that would cling to me like that. It's my ultimate fantasy.

 

[ColdPillow]

I can live with it. If my oneitis searched through all my shit and monitored everything I did, I would live with it. It'd be worth it knowing I can have sex with her and love her every day.

No more porn, no more texting any girl (I don't do that anyway), and no more dating apps. God send me your angel

I would love to have a girlfriend that would cling to me like that. It's my ultimate fantasy.

Plus she would probably be more loyal to you that way.

 

[CaptainRussia]

there were dudes on the forum, who were completly sane. they were deluded by their borderline gfs to a point where they had to go to therapy. i dont think that those guys were idiots. their hormones took control of them and the borderliners wreaked havoc upon them.

A shame though, most of them are really hot due to the hot-crazy relationship.

exactly this is why i think that many of those anecdotal "ugly guy hot gf" pictures we see are an ugly dude with a borderliner. we don't know how it is behind the scenes. she may be driving him insane, but he cant let go of her because then the loneliness would come back. incel and a borderline gf are horrible. you cant just leave her, because you most likely wont ever find a new gf again, so you keep beeing abused. borderliners can get rid of your virginity but no one could put up with them for long.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

there were dudes on the forum, who were completly sane. they were deluded by their borderline gfs to a point where they had to go to therapy. i dont think that those guys were idiots. their hormones took control of them and the borderliners wreaked havoc upon them.



exactly this is why i think that many of those anecdotal "ugly guy hot gf" pictures we see are an ugly dude with a borderliner. we don't know how it is behind the scenes. she may be driving him insane, but he cant let go of her because then the loneliness would come back. incel and a borderline gf are horrible. you cant just leave her, because you most likely wont ever find a new gf again, so you keep beeing abused. borderliners can get rid of your virginity but no one could put up with them for long.

Dude, you're coping hard at thinking that having a girlfriend like that would be a bad thing. I'd marry her.

 

[CaptainRussia]

Plus she would probably be more loyal to you that way.

borderliners are crazy when it comes to that. some dude reported that his gf accused him of deleting text messages from his phone and cheated on him, because he "lied about deleting messages", while he never deleted any messages.

Dude, you're coping hard

i think its a good cope

 

[Void]

Dude, you're coping hard at thinking that having a girlfriend like that would be a bad thing. I'd marry her.

Only worth it if she pays for your shit or you are already rich enough tbh

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

Only worth it if she pays for your shit or you are already rich enough tbh

Since this is a cope thread for fantasizing about the perfect woman, my BPD girl would definitely be rich.

 

[Anger]

All femoids on earth have some sort of borderline personality disorder, they ll are fucked up in the head.

 

[Void]

Since this is a cope thread for fantasizing about the perfect woman, my BPD girl would definitely be rich.

If thats the case i'll let her lock me in the basement. The only difference is that I would get laid and NEET for life.

 

[ColdPillow]

borderliners are crazy when it comes to that. some dude reported that his gf accused him of deleting text messages from his phone and cheated on him, because he "lied about deleting messages", while he never deleted any messages.

That does sound pretty crazy. guess there's a limit to how obsessive and clingy they should be for my liking.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

If thats the case i'll let her lock me in the basement. The only difference is that I would get laid and NEET for life.

That would be so amazing, imagine she's some rich girl with a giant house by the beach and she loves the fact that you're a NEET and she wants you to be her NEET. She makes you tasty food and iced tea and you lie together naked under the sun and read books and visit art museums together. Pure bliss, tbh.

 

[CaptainRussia]

another anectode. a guy went with his gf bpdstacy to a bar. in front of the bar they met a guy friend of bpdstacy with his gf somechick. they shook hands and somechick introduced herself. a few days later bpdstacy asked what somechicks name was. guy answered somechick. bpdstacy started drama because he rememberd her name.

 

[Jockcel]

I don't do any suspicious shit anyway. Yes, please.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

another anectode. a guy went with his gf bpdstacy to a bar. in front of the bar they met a guy friend of bpdstacy with his gf somechick. they shook hands and somechick introduced herself. a few days later bpdstacy asked what somechicks name was. guy answered somechick. bpdstacy started drama because he rememberd her name.

That's really cute actually, I would love to grab both her arms and kiss her when she starts getting upset and reminder her that I'll never leave her and never hurt her.

 

[CaptainRussia]

That's really cute actually, I would love to grab both her arms and kiss her when she starts getting upset and reminder her that I'll never leave her and never hurt her.

he did all this, but she ghosted him a couple of weeks after.

 

[Phallusy]

I would love to have a girlfriend that would cling to me like that. It's my ultimate fantasy.

A legit dream come true.

Ah, if only

 

[Void]

That would be so amazing, imagine she's some rich girl with a giant house by the beach and she loves the fact that you're a NEET and she wants you to be her NEET. She makes you tasty food and iced tea and you lie together naked under the sun and read books and visit art museums together. Pure bliss, tbh.

Stop stop stop it, ahhhh why cant it happen in this life!!!!!

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

he did all this, but she ghosted him a couple of weeks after.

You said that these girls are clingy. Don't go changing the rules on this fantasy right now, I'm coping here.

 

[Gepard]

Cope? BPD is now seen as a 'cool' thing to have. Chances are 9/10 women who claim BPD are just larping.

 

[CaptainRussia]

You said that these girls are clingy. Don't go changing the rules on this fantasy right now, I'm coping here.

borderliners clinge until they push you away. they fear abandonment, so they will test you. they will push you away, break up with you or ghost you and expect you to come running after them. they may ghost you for days, weeks or months. if you come back they will test you again, if you dont they see it as confirmation, that you werent loyal anyway. they may break up every two weaks or so.

 

[Deleted member 1410]

I'm one of the rare male cases.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

borderliners clinge until they push you away. they fear abandonment, so they will test you. they will push you away, break up with you or ghost you and expect you to come running after them. they may ghost you for days, weeks or months. if you come back they will test you again, if you dont they see it as confirmation, that you werent loyal anyway. they may break up every two weaks or so.

This is beautiful. I would chase her to the ends of the Earth, my beautiful BPD girl.