SuicideFuel Never going on night walks again

[Skoga]

I just came back from one and let me tell you, being alone with yourself and your thoughts is not a good idea as a KHHV incel.
Over the years I've come to the conclusion that the best cope for an incel and outcast of society is to constantly distract your mind with something.
Whatever media you can get your hands on, vidya, reading books, it really doesn't matter.
The moment you're alone with your thoughts is the moment you start to think negatively. It's the most depressing thing you can do apart from looking at couples, social medias etc.

 

[Xul]

Night walks just fuel your own depression

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Yeah, distraction is all we have got. Even something small, like a video or a book, keeps your brain from reminding you of your eternal loneliness. Although I still see the value in reflection, despite the suffering it inevitably brings.

 

[anthonyfantano]

I was on a walk..thinking about how many times I was fucked over and I started punching the air in rage.

 

[anthonyfantano]

But I like walking. I just dont do it that often because I dont like crossing paths with other people.

 

[Xul]

I was on a walk..thinking about how many times I was fucked over and I started punching the air in rage.

Thats just the tism

 

[ItsOverMan]

I just came back from one and let me tell you, being alone with yourself and your thoughts is not a good idea as a KHHV incel.
Over the years I've come to the conclusion that the best cope for an incel and outcast of society is to constantly distract your mind with something.
Whatever media you can get your hands on, vidya, reading books, it really doesn't matter.
The moment you're alone with your thoughts is the moment you start to think negatively. It's the most depressing thing you can do apart from looking at couples, social medias etc.

Lying in bed awake at night is bad for this reason too. Your mind starts dwelling and pondering on things.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Disagree, I love my silent walks on a former railroad line that nobody walks on. It's quiet, peaceful and I always feel better afterward.

 

[cathuluelitist]

I just came back from one and let me tell you, being alone with yourself and your thoughts is not a good idea as a KHHV incel.
Over the years I've come to the conclusion that the best cope for an incel and outcast of society is to constantly distract your mind with something.
Whatever media you can get your hands on, vidya, reading books, it really doesn't matter.
The moment you're alone with your thoughts is the moment you start to think negatively. It's the most depressing thing you can do apart from looking at couples, social medias etc.

Very true and especially true for someone like me with debilitating pure O.

 

[t3mcel]

Over the years I've come to the conclusion that the best cope for an incel and outcast of society is to constantly distract your mind with something.

all i have are the copes. its exhausting having to find new ones every so often

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Disagree, I love my silent walks on a former railroad line that nobody walks on. It's quiet, peaceful and I always feel better afterward.

Kinda same. Although not on the rail line.

 

[retardfuel30]

I find it quite peaceful.

 

[Trident]

The only thing that worries me when I go outside in areas with few people is the possibility of encountering some psycho that could kill me.

 

[Erenincel]

Yeah, distraction is all we have got. Even something small, like a video or a book, keeps your brain from reminding you of your eternal loneliness. Although I still see the value in reflection, despite the suffering it inevitably brings.

It works sometimes, but it doesn't solve the problem, and the loneliness still hurts. But apparently, there's no other solution.

all i have are the copes. its exhausting having to find new ones every so often

For me cope stop working. this is what happens when you try to pretend there is no problem and run away from it.

 

[chalk son]

They're good for getting some exercise that's it

 

[romanstock]

I don't know how you guys walk at night. I find that too scary. I go for walks during the day, where no one else is. Have to get some sun.

 

[Skoga]

But I like walking. I just dont do it that often because I dont like crossing paths with other people.

I live in a small town with 20k people or so when you're out at a late time you almost never see other pedestrians, as people are sleeping to wake up for their wageslave job

 

[Skoga]

I don't know how you guys walk at night. I find that too scary. I go for walks during the day, where no one else is. Have to get some sun.

You're not low inhib enough then. Also I'm not a happy person who clings to life so if something was to happen it wouldn't really matter to me.

 

[CADcel]

Yeah, distraction is all we have got. Even something small, like a video or a book, keeps your brain from reminding you of your eternal loneliness. Although I still see the value in reflection, despite the suffering it inevitably brings.

heavily agree with the reflection part

 

[ihatelife2]

Your conclusion is absolutely right. We have to constantly fight to keep our minds distracted.

 

[coursehawk69]

I find that thoughts are highly influenced by habits, and your habits can change if you make an effort to override the old rules.

I'm a gymcel, have been steadily going to the gym for over a decade. Around 2014 I noticed I'd often think of similar thoughts when walking home from the gym. They would often be negative thoughts about mtgow or alt-right topics, or anything ugly about the world.

Some years later I got into romhacking classic snes games (creating new level designs and modifying abilities). Coming up with fresh ideas replaced the negative thought patterns. Eventually it became its own dominant habit to the point I would not have to try to not think the negative thoughts.

I don't know what hobbies or interests you have, but I hope you can find something creative to think about, to reclaim your mind. When you find it, it will much more effective than consumer distractions, it will feel exciting like digging for gold. I feel a sense of loss about how many nights I'd think about things that were so outside my control.

 

[nazianime]

Yep, that’s why I don’t even try and go touch grass anymore. Go to movies, look like a cuck alone, go to restaurant, food is tasteless, go to event, look like a cuck alone

 

[koala bear]

when i was 15 i punched myself in the face and broke my nose when i was sitting in my room alone because one of my “friends” at the time hooked up with my sister and the entire school knew about it.

 

[Chirag gupta]

well I barely have any distractions at my house anyway, so I might as well go on them. Plus it’s nice to leave the house after laying in my room for days on end

 

[Skoga]

I find that thoughts are highly influenced by habits, and your habits can change if you make an effort to override the old rules.

I'm a gymcel, have been steadily going to the gym for over a decade. Around 2014 I noticed I'd often think of similar thoughts when walking home from the gym. They would often be negative thoughts about mtgow or alt-right topics, or anything ugly about the world.

Some years later I got into romhacking classic snes games (creating new level designs and modifying abilities). Coming up with fresh ideas replaced the negative thought patterns. Eventually it became its own dominant habit to the point I would not have to try to not think the negative thoughts.

I don't know what hobbies or interests you have, but I hope you can find something creative to think about, to reclaim your mind. When you find it, it will much more effective than consumer distractions, it will feel exciting like digging for gold. I feel a sense of loss about how many nights I'd think about things that were so outside my control.

Why do you go to the gym? Incels try to improooove so much and go through pain just to have a fraction of what chad gets for free on a daily basis without doing anything (a chance to impress and have sex with foids)

You're just occupying your mind with things that also don't matter in the grand scheme of things and don't improve your chance of getting into a relationship. So in simple terms, just another cope. I have times where I'm more invested in my copes and sometimes I'm not. At the moment everything seems boring and pointless to me.

 

[Hevel]

Night walks just fuel your own depression

Not necessarily. Before the medication, I wasn't able to go out without music or headphones, and I would naturally go for long walks. It depends on the person how much they can forget the outside world while walking. In retrospect, I think that was really the only thing that got me out of my room. Now I don't see the point unless it's urgent.

 

[Hevel]

You're just occupying your mind with things that also don't matter

Wouldn't participation in the forum fall under the same category, since we're going in circles about not getting a gf? Because that's something we can't change

 

[Skoga]

Wouldn't participation in the forum fall under the same category, since we're going in circles about not getting a gf? Because that's something we can't change

Its just another cope, a good one at that since you are talking to like-minded people

 

[Hevel]

Its just another cope, a good one at that since you are talking to like-minded people

True

 

[garrett]

Real. I used to love nightwalks, walked for miles listening to music. But I'm off prozac and can't handle them, can't even sit with myself and watch a movie. I need to be with my family up until bedtime or intrusive doomer thoughts destroy me

The feeling of the cool night air, some hard music in my Airpods, sipping a can of Monster.. flow state, genuinely euphoric

 

[pisser]

everything feels like utter shit

 

[VanGobbel]

over for nightwalkercels

 

[Dead End]

I don't know how you guys walk at night. I find that too scary.

Nighttime gives you a lower chance of encountering others, and is quieter and less bright. Not everyone has nearby locations that are deserted during daytime. I also personally enjoy being scared, and nighttime has a strong positive association for me.

 

[romanstock]

Nighttime gives you a lower chance of encountering others, and is quieter and less bright. Not everyone has nearby locations that are deserted during daytime. I also personally enjoy being scared, and nighttime has a strong positive association for me.

Higher chance of encountering a roaming thug who will try to mug you on the chance you're carrying your phone or wallet.

 

[Dead End]

Higher chance of encountering a roaming thug who will try to mug you on the chance you're carrying your phone or wallet.

It's a small risk (at least where I live), and is a risk I'd prefer to take over guaranteed exposure to other strangers during the daytime.

 

[Izayacel]

Why do you go to the gym? Incels try to improooove so much and go through pain just to have a fraction of what chad gets for free on a daily basis without doing anything (a chance to impress and have sex with foids)

You're just occupying your mind with things that also don't matter in the grand scheme of things and don't improve your chance of getting into a relationship. So in simple terms, just another cope. I have times where I'm more invested in my copes and sometimes I'm not. At the moment everything seems boring and pointless to me.

There are guys here who still think " muscles must be the key " . well good that im past that garbage . Just stay lean if you want .

 

[ANTAGONIST]

The moment you're alone with your thoughts is the moment you start to think negatively. It's the most depressing thing you can do apart from looking at couples, social medias etc.