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Serious Never go to therapy. Explained.

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For the few of you that regularly watch my shitty videos and follow my insane posts, there will be nothing new here. A poster requested a thread on mental therapy, and thus I shall provide.

I got dragged into therapy because I stupidly attempted suicide, but it's largely been the same as if Mommy paid for you to go see some therapist because she thinks you might be gay.

The basic forms of therapy today are CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy). CBT is the main thing you want to Google if you want to know more about, DBT goes more into group therapy, and I shouldn't need to tell you much on why an incel should absolutely avoid group therapy where you'll be listening to a majority of ''''''''''''''''''''''''''depressed''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' females, many of whom have boyfriends, kids, are single mothers, etc...

Anyway, therapy is basically CBT methods, like mindfulness, identifying and managing emotions, how to cope, etc... and you'll be forced to have some plan. Incels already fail here as our obvious plan is 'have sex', which will not be used, and can even get you in trouble if you're ugly enough like me. Your therapist will make you have a goal of be socially acceptable, find some shitty wageslave job, etc... that you don't care and/or don't even want.

The common perception about therapy is that you lay on a couch and dump all your feels to a therapist. Therapy does not work like this. Sure, you can babble for as long as your therapist is getting paid, but she won't care about what you're saying. The only thing the therapist cares about is progressing towards your 'goals' so she can write some bullshit to insurance companies and eventually guiding you into taking Jew pills.

Also, there are many female therapists that automatically hate you for being male. I strongly suggest watching this video (It's a girl, I know... but she's a rare honest one) about the misandric garbage that future therapists are taught in schools. I suggest never seeing a therapist at all, but if you insist or you're forced to, vet vet VET any potential therapists that you'll be working with. Do your research. Do not blindly listen to any of these people. Do not do anything in 'good faith'. Know your shit.

Jew pills are the lifeblood of the mental health field. They make a lot of people, a lot of money, and that is why every stupid cunt chose psychology as an easy degree while they were riding the Chad carousel in university. If you want to get Jew pills, go directly to a psychiatrist. There are benefits to some, and some that I would avoid like the plague. Do your own research on this, also.

Therapy will probably HURT incels in the long run, because none of these people give a shit about you. They won't hide this fact, either. This is another horrible misconception that normalfags have about therapy. Therapists will abandon you, lie about you, do whatever concerning you as long as it gives them the most shekels. Turnover in mental health facilities is unbelievably high. These therapists and social workers are completely expendable and there's an endless line of them. If you ever get attached to one (like I sadly always do), prepare for PAIN and being far worse than before you saw one.

The reality, which all of you probably know already, there is no 'fix' to our problems as ugly males.
 
I had different experience with shrinks, some were more quite, some were more vocal and expressive.
It also depends on how you hire the shrink and mostly it's about the personality.
It might differ in the west, it's not the same for every place - I had shrinks with some partially conservative views in contrast to others who were more liberal minded and also somewhat in the middle.

Therapy ain't gonna change your inferior brain, but it can reduce the symptoms.
 
tldr
I had different experience with shrinks, some were more quite, some were more vocal and expressive.
It also depends on how you hire the shrink and mostly it's about the personality.
It might differ in the west, it's not the same for every place - I had shrinks with some partially conservative views in contrast to others who were more liberal minded and also somewhat in the middle.

Therapy ain't gonna change your inferior brain, but it can reduce the symptoms.
how does politics and therapy have anything to do with each other?
 
I see a therapist and she mostly let's me rant and talk about whatever I want. Then asks what I've been doing, any improvements then tries to set goals.

It's mostly helpful for me. Ultimately I havent made much progress in 3 years. But whatever its free for me to go and it gets me out of the house.

Group therapy is suifuel though. Dont ever do that.
I tried it once and had a mental breakdown after leaving.
 
I want to go to group therapy and call females out for not having real problems. They would probably just make fun of me or smth.

Read a post here about a dude who went to group therapy and a female took up a significant amount of time talking about herself and her non-issues, soaking up all the validation and attention, then went on her phone when a man started talking about his PTSD or something similar.
 
I think escorts could do more good than therapists
 
Just go to Therapy Theory Officially Debunked
 
Speaking of therapists and escorts. Why couldn't they combined the two?

Has any one seen the Movie titled The Sessions? It was about a sex worker who sees handicapped people.
 
Therapy seems so useless to me
 
tldr

how does politics and therapy have anything to do with each other?
All the social sciences, and college in general, is now just nonstop liberal propaganda. So of course therapists are going to be liberal as well, aka the biggest bluepillers and SJW's.
 
Just go to the BlackPill archives for a free and legit Blackpill Therapy session with Incels.
 
Fucking incels should be a part of a therapist's job description.
 
CBT is for trauma, nothing to do with your situation
 
tldr

how does politics and therapy have anything to do with each other?
Politics involve everything - the ICD just recently decided to define trans people as not mentally ill while treating gaming "addition" as a
disorder.

Psychiatrists rely on global standards they can't just make up terms of their own, psychologists though act differently but they are still human.
 
I remember when I used to talk to my school counselor about my problems, then one day I realized she doesn’t give one fuck. She just nods and gives that fake sad face, writes some bullshit down and gives me trash advice. If it’s their JOB to listen to your problems then they don’t give a shit, they’re just there for the money
 
Great post OP.

Psychologists are now mostly women who really have no clue about the science (or lack of) that underpins therapy.

Therapy cannot cure mental problems, caused by chronic loneliness and a complete absence of physical intimacy, when those two things, in turn, are the result of poor physical appearance.

This forum is better than any therapy a low IQ feminist "psychologist" can give you.
 
CBT and drugs helps with my extreme hypochondria.
 
I had a terrible experience with a therapist. I always thought it was useless but that time I decided to just give it a try and see what happens, my mother made me go because I had become a NEET. I was completely open with him and told him I´m scared of aliens and that like once a month I have to sleep with my mom because I feel like I´m going to be abducted. After 45 minutes he said that my situation is going to get worse and worse and that I have to get medicated, I told him that he can´t say that after just 45 minutes of knowing me, and then started to try to convince my mom that i need to be put in a ward, and then I started to freak out because my mother tends to believe professionals like they are a god. I had to spend the following week convincing my mother that I´m not crazy or anything.
 
I had a terrible experience with a therapist. I always thought it was useless but that time I decided to just give it a try and see what happens, my mother made me go because I had become a NEET. I was completely open with him and told him I´m scared of aliens and that like once a month I have to sleep with my mom because I feel like I´m going to be abducted. After 45 minutes he said that my situation is going to get worse and worse and that I have to get medicated, I told him that he can´t say that after just 45 minutes of knowing me, and then started to try to convince my mom that i need to be put in a ward, and then I started to freak out because my mother tends to believe professionals like they are a god. I had to spend the following week convincing my mother that I´m not crazy or anything.
But if you believe that you might get abducted by aliens, you are indeed crazy.
 
CBT and drugs helps with my extreme hypochondria.

JFL! The Irony. Your extreme hypochondria is being treated medically. Your hypochondria is what is making you get the treatment. Drugs and therapy are feeding your hypochondria!
 
But if you believe that you might get abducted by aliens, you are indeed crazy.

It´s not like I believe it, I just get a feeling that it´s going to happen and I get really scared, I get goosebumps and I can´t sleep. But I go to my mother´s bed and it all goes away. Only happens like once a month. I don´t even think aliens exist
 
JFL! The Irony. Your extreme hypochondria is being treated medically. Your hypochondria is what is making you get the treatment. Drugs and therapy are feeding your hypochondria!

The drugs work though, they calm me down and it eliminates the symptoms i get from my anxiety which fuel my hypochondria.
 
It´s not like I believe it, I just get a feeling that it´s going to happen and I get really scared, I get goosebumps and I can´t sleep. But I go to my mother´s bed and it all goes away. Only happens like once a month. I don´t even think aliens exist
That sounds pretty crazy to me.
 
The only thing I've found consistently helpful from a psychiatric/psychological perspective is actually St. John's Wort which is over the counter. i take it when I'm feeling overwhelmed or like giving up.

Tried escitalopram but it made me nauseous. Mirtazapine made me sleep too much but it's pretty good to knock you out and the dissolving tablets taste good. Trazodone's okay for sleep too. I like zopiclone for sleep also.

St. John's makes me a bit nauseous too if I take a lot in one day but overall it's very gentle and natural feeling. Just helps me coast a bit.
 
SSRIs are the biggest scam in western society. No idea why doctors aren't speaking up about it. it's worse than the opiate problem
 
The only thing I've found consistently helpful from a psychiatric/psychological perspective is actually St. John's Wort which is over the counter. i take it when I'm feeling overwhelmed or like giving up.

Tried escitalopram but it made me nauseous. Mirtazapine made me sleep too much but it's pretty good to knock you out and the dissolving tablets taste good. Trazodone's okay for sleep too. I like zopiclone for sleep also.

St. John's makes me a bit nauseous too if I take a lot in one day but overall it's very gentle and natural feeling. Just helps me coast a bit.

Gonna have to try st johns.

But really, fuck ssris, antianxiety meds are amazing though. Xanax gives me a nice break from worrying and thinking about how shitty my life is. I highly recommend it and it’s easy to get if your primary care doc is cool.
 
anyone who believes therapy is helpful is retarded. have you guys learned nothing?
the complete medical industry is controlled by pharma companies.
Their only goal is to get you addicted on pills for life, simply because it makes them the most money.
it's always about money

 
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Gonna have to try st johns.

But really, fuck ssris, antianxiety meds are amazing though. Xanax gives me a nice break from worrying and thinking about how shitty my life is. I highly recommend it and it’s easy to get if your primary care doc is cool.

I've taken lorazepam but it's similar to opioids in my opinion. There's something about knowing that it's addictive, it's a controlled substance, and the fact that it only works for a few hours then wears off that makes it hard for me to get into it. I just feel like it's so fake. Benzos are really relaxing though.

In Star Trek, they don't drink alcohol, they drink Synthehol, which is a clean variant of alcohol that doesn't cause hangovers. In my opinion that's essentially what benzos are. Except Synthehol isn't addictive while benzos are. In an ideal world, benzos would replace alcohol.

Either way though, I don't like bandaid high drugs like that. It just makes me feel more pathetic and weak to take them. But St. John's doesn't feel like that to me because it's not a quick bandaid. It doesn't get you high like opioids/benzos. It's just a slower acting gentle boost.

Just my opinion.
 
Therapy is another jewish trick to suck your money
 
I want to go to group therapy and call females out for not having real problems. They would probably just make fun of me or smth.

Read a post here about a dude who went to group therapy and a female took up a significant amount of time talking about herself and her non-issues, soaking up all the validation and attention, then went on her phone when a man started talking about his PTSD or something similar.
I did this, along with attempting to blackpill people. Don't bother. Nobody cares what you're babbling about, and the only thing you can accomplish is pissing off someone that has the power to fuck you over.

If you're stuck in therapy, say whatever people want to hear and get out.
anyone who believes therapy is helpful is retarded. have you guys learned nothing?
the complete medical industry is controlled by pharma companies.
Their only goal is to get you addicted on pills for life, simply because it makes them the most money.
it's always about money


Good video. Thanks for posting.
 
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It's more sensible to go to the Emergency Room, tbh.
 
I always chuckle when blackpilled fellows want to blackpill them and fuck the system.
It's like a gambler that wants to beat the casino.
Those people are trained and much more smarter than you.
If your family force you to go there, you swallow your pride and you do whatever they say to you. You want to get rid of them.
Your problem is not your brain but your face.
If you want to ascend (or wathever you call it), you take an appointment with a maxface.
Maxillofacial surgeons are worth every shekels.
 
I completely agree.

if you go to therapy choose a male therapist.
 
Socrates IQ. Therapists shill Jew pills hard. Jew pills make you sicker, not better. If you want a therapist, don't. Only pill you need is more blackpills.
 
wheres's the vid?

there's therapists that post on inceltears, truly evil, spend their free time mocking incels while suggesting therapy.

all therapists are frauds.
 
wheres's the vid?

there's therapists that post on inceltears, truly evil, spend their free time mocking incels while suggesting therapy.

all therapists are frauds.
 
Therapy was completely worthless in the end for this ugly male..made me feel worse because they acknowledged my ugliness and gave me gay advice like go take a walk and think about other things..

Jew pills helped me not kill myself when I was deep into depression, but is that a good thing? Not really cause I'm still here rotting. Right now I'm not suicidal but I certainly wish my attempts were sucessful..
 
Therapy ain't gonna change your inferior brain, but it can reduce the symptoms.

This has been my experience. I agree with OP that some therapists CAN be dangerous and you can still feel like they don't truly care about you, but some of them have had some decent advice and it can be cathartic to just vent to someone that's willing to listen to you and not judge you for whatever you believe in.

That being said, research and keep a barrier with your feelings. This is not a friend or a companion. This is a person that is there to help you get to your most inner machinations. They exist to guide you through the bullshit your mind likes to beat you up on.

Therapy might be a cope, but the right therapist has helped to keep some darkness at bay. Do your research and don't hesitate to go to someone else if they're not a good fit.
 
Therapy works if you want it to work.

Don't rake advice about menral illness from mentally ill people. Would you believe an obvious alcoholic who says alcohol actually makes his life better?
 
drink alcohol instead, therapy wasnt a thing back then, its just a tactic to get you in the line
 
Females HATE US, they are sociopaths, they become therapists so they can Drive males into suicide without no one noticing
 

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