Needed to get this off my mind

[kevkon]

Am I the only one who’s almost actually okay with being an incel? Like sure I’ll never have a girlfriend, have sex, get married or have children but so what? I don’t like giving women the satisfaction of knowing that I’m completely dependent and reliant on their existence in my life for me to be happy.

Incel isn’t some insult to me or some pejorative term to be ashamed of. In my eyes if you aren’t an incel in the year of 2026 after seeing the way females are then there’s something wrong with you and YOUR the weird one.

Idk maybe I’m coping and deep down inside there’s some part of me that deeply desires the love and affection of a woman but I have far too much pride to ever fully admit that. Like if women don’t want me I just have the urge to say “well fuck you then, I don’t want you either”.

Being a simp who chases after women like a drooling dog is a million times worse than any form of incel could ever be. I’m involuntarily celibate but I also think we should have some level of dignity and self respect. Even if we do crave the attention of women don’t let them know that. Don’t give them the satisfaction. They’ll smell blood in the water and pounce. I refuse to contribute to the massive ego foids get from male attention, yeah it’s a pride thing. Thoughts?

 

[spud_tard]

Being a simp who chases after women like a drooling dog is a million times worse than any form of incel could ever be

its normal to have less attractions to woman when you are rejected by them, I personally try to restraint my desires to cope but I have the conscience that it's practically impossible to fully remove them

 

[Paladin]

In my eyes if you aren’t an incel in the year of 2026 after seeing the way females are then there’s something wrong with you and YOUR the weird one.

Someone who chooses to be celibate because of modern women is not an incel. Part of the problem with being an incel isn't just that we can't get pussy but that the traits that make us unable to get pussy affect us in pretty much every aspect of life. So I could never say that I'm okay with being an incel. Okay with being celibate would make more sense as a title.

 

[Emba]

It's good to have the closure

 

[kevkon]

its normal to have less attractions to woman when you are rejected by them, I personally try to restraint my desires to cope but I have the conscience that it's practically impossible to fully remove them

I understand but you just have to fight it as hard as you can imo it’s about the optics to me, at least try not to appear like Foids are living rent free because they literally GET OFF TO THAT SHIT

 

[kevkon]

Someone who chooses to be celibate because of modern women is not an incel. Part of the problem with being an incel isn't just that we can't get pussy but that the traits that make us unable to get pussy affect us in pretty much every aspect of life. So I could never say that I'm okay with being an incel. Okay with being celibate would make more sense as a title.

I guess what I mean is that women are such awful and terrible people that I find it hard to understand why men want to be with them so much WHILE they put them on a pedestal and act as if they are some innocent angels who could never possibly do any harm. They’re evil. And guys still simp and beg for a drop of their pussy. Women get off to that shit, they get off knowing that they are so desired by so many men and will never be with them, all I’m saying is why give them that satisfaction? Fuck them.

 

[sirlancelot]

Agreed wholeheartedly

 

[kevkon]

Someone who chooses to be celibate because of modern women is not an incel. Part of the problem with being an incel isn't just that we can't get pussy but that the traits that make us unable to get pussy affect us in pretty much every aspect of life. So I could never say that I'm okay with being an incel. Okay with being celibate would make more sense as a title.

Well what I mean is that I don’t understand how men who CAN get pussy would ever even want to date women when they are terrible, vile, disgusting human beings. i can’t comprehend how so many men put women on a pedestal and worship them as some innocent angels who can do no harm. They chase after and simp for people who literally hate their guts or at the very least are entirely apathetic to them

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I would never be happy either way, if I had a wife and family there would be many other things to keep me miserable. I often remind myself of that.

 

[Neurotic]

Life has beaten me down too much for me to care anymore

 

[ChindianEugenicist]

I would never say I'm proud to be incel, because being lonely is never something to be proud of. That said. Unlike most people here. I'm not depressed about my current relationship status or my ancestry.

Ultimately I have self actualized a very long time ago and the things I value in life had absolutely nothing to do with Sex or toilets at all.

 

[Caichan]

Whitepill or soemthing

 

[Last2025cel]

I kinda feel that way too but I also sometimes think of my oneitis and what it would be like to have a family with her.

 

[kevkon]

Ultimately I have self actualized a very long time ago and the things I value in life had absolutely nothing to do with Sex or toilets at all.

this is respectable. You don’t NEED to rely on a female for your happiness. You should learn to be happy with yourself before hand anyways. If your entire peace of mind and happiness entirely depends on another human being then your essentially a slave to that person and they own you.

 

[guessthatsit]

this is respectable. You don’t NEED to rely on a female for your happiness. You should learn to be happy with yourself before hand anyways. If your entire peace of mind and happiness entirely depends on another human being then your essentially a slave to that person and they own you.

Whitepill truth
We also need to stop our habit of comparing ourselves to others. Chads will always lifemog us but that doesn't mean we have to be obsessed with them.

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

I'm ok with being called an incel but i'm not okay with being an incel, The fact that we are completely cut off from an experience that we are literally biological wired to desire just because of our looks is completely unacceptable.

 

[itsovER99]

Smart

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I see what you mean

Being an incel is better than being a cuck

Yet not receive a single romantic or sexual interest from a woman in your entire life is still a brutal thought to consider

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

It doesn't really bother me anymore. I'm almost 40 and I've accepted reality. It's over.
I'm ignoring the rest. I'm sitting in my room, trying to block out the world outside as best I can.
Romantic daydreams like those of a few years ago are useless.

 

[ihatelife2]

I agree with you, foids are not good people at all. I still feel bad about being an incel but you are right and I also don't want to give people the satisfaction, it's why I lie and tell people I never wanted a gf anyways.

 

[soft]

I'm not okay with being completely sex-starved. The hunger is real and I will never be happy without sex.

But I don't want to give the gatekeepers of sex the satisfaction either.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I don't like being a sub5

 

[Wither]

I don't like being a sub5