Experiment Need some good comebacks or strategies/jabs to beat sb. at their own game...

[The Wolf]

- my mom knows that I'll never get a gf so she keeps on telling me stuff like: "relationships suck",
"relationships are totally overrated, that's just my opinion",
"it's okay to be alone",
"my friend's son is having relationship problems"
"your sister doesn't want a bf anymore" (context: she's 22 and had 5 Chads already)
(it's so obvious it's her extremely lame strategy to make me cope, but it's also insulting to me. As if you can talk someone out of wanting a gf. Sure she'd be happy if I get one, but she thinks she's well-meaning by trying to talk me out of it bc she knows I'll never get one anyway.)

- she also tells me that my sister who in reality is a 6.5/10 (she admitted that), is "a 10/10 out there" bc there are no prettier ones. And apparently people always compliment my mom on how pretty my sister is. LIES AFTER LIES AFTER LIES.

So my question is, how do I "beat her at her own game"? What stuff can I randomly say as jabs, to make her realise how dumb she sounds?

So, something like ___________ is overrated, or anything...

thanks brocels

 

[Mrugly420]

Tell her if relationships suck so bad, give them up for the rest of her life then, or a long period of time

 

[Mrugly420]

And if relationships aren't important, ask her why she brings them up then.

 

[LesscoBlob]

I don't see a reason to try to debunk her.

 

[The Wolf]

Tell her if relationships suck so bad, give them up for the rest of her life then, or a long period of time

good idea. she has a few friends but she's divorced for 5 years now though.

if I tell her something she doesnt have an answer to, she'll just laugh then get mad at me for being "rude"

 

[Geryon]

No offense but your mom's a cunt, I think the best way is to demonstrate to her how you're not in a good place mentally because of your loneliness.

 

[The Wolf]

I don't see a reason to try to debunk her.

I'll tell you why:

- she's insulting my intelligence and really thinks she can change my desires willingly (or in the same way, that I will be influenced and that I suddenly don't want a gf anymore)
- bc she's lying to herself and thinks she can manipulate my wants, desires and needs

 

[The Wolf]

And if relationships aren't important, ask her why she brings them up then.

I told her numerous times I'm sad bc I'm lonely. Now every now and again, if I tell her I won't let myself be manipulated, she says "relationships are totally overrated, can't I state my opinion" and stuff like that...
in the past she just brought it up randomly.

- She has the misguided belief that she's doing something good, to make me feel better. If I don't want a gf (bc she tells me relationships suck/are overrated), all is well and I'm content

 

[Mrugly420]

good idea. she has a few friends but she's divorced for 5 years now though.

if I tell her something she doesnt have an answer to, she'll just laugh then get mad at me for being "rude"

Fuck her.

 

[LesscoBlob]

I'll tell you why:

- she's insulting my intelligence and really thinks she can change my desires willingly (or in the same way, that I will be influenced and that I suddenly don't want a gf anymore)
- bc she's lying to herself and thinks she can manipulate my wants, desires and needs

I would still suggest to not engage with her much. There's really no point in blackpilling bluepilled folk.

 

[The Wolf]

No offense but your mom's a cunt, I think the best way is to demonstrate to her how you're not in a good place mentally because of your loneliness.

I tried. All she says is "go outside" (that's like telling a homeless person to just make money – I'm extremely ugly and have social anxiety).

- last summer she told me, when I said I'm said that I'm lonely, "it's ok to be alone, the woman who lives close by is 40 and has never wanted a partner." Again, such a lame statement and not taking me seriously. As if my desires, wants and needs can be changed

 

[Geryon]

"it's ok to be alone, the woman who lives close by is 40 and has never wanted a partner."

 

[Luzifer]

acid on face theory in videogame

 

[The Wolf]

 

[Mrugly420]

I told her numerous times I'm sad bc I'm lonely. Now every now and again, if I tell her I won't let myself be manipulated, she says "relationships are totally overrated, can't I state my opinion" and stuff like that...
in the past she just brought it up randomly.

- She has the misguided belief that she's doing something good, to make me feel better. If I don't want a gf (bc she tells me relationships suck/are overrated), all is well and I'm content

Brutal manipulationpill, from ur mom

 

[armis]

So my question is, how do I "beat her at her own game"? What stuff can I randomly say as jabs, to make her realise how dumb she sounds?

Why do you keep trying to 'debate' her? Even if you beat her and your mum is able to change her mind, what would you gain from that, it wouldn't change your situation. You are just wasting your time. It's like when people try to debate the blackpill with normies and redditors. They will always be stuck in their bluepilled worldviews, normies can never understand the blackpill because they haven't lived through our experiences as low value males.

 

[The Wolf]

Why do you keep trying to 'debate' her? Even if you beat her and your mum is able to change her mind, what would you gain from that, it wouldn't change your situation. You are just wasting your time. It's like when people try to debate the blackpill with normies and redditors. They will always be stuck in their bluepilled worldviews, normies can never understand the blackpill because they haven't lived through our experiences as low value males.

You are right. I actually agree with everything you say.

If she orders asparagus at a restaurant I won't tell her "I don't like asparagus."

I can say why: I don't like my intelligence insulted (as in, she thinks she can change my mind into not wanting a gf, bc he'll never get one anyway.
Wanting love, sex, companionship is a human desire and need. You can change people's opinion's on politics, economics, whatever. BUT NOT LOVE AND SEX... she probably thinks bc I'm autistic, she can change my "wants" and "desires", and she probably tells herself that I don't really want love and relationships, as in "he just wants them bc everyone else has one." I tell her I'm no different than other people, and she's like, "yeah, I know." (liar)

I'm 99% sure my mom doesnt actually believe all the crap she's telling me. Even if she does, she should keep it to herself.