Narcy trait: you would rather fuck a sexdoll than an escort

[watcher]

I would much rather fuck a sexdoll than an escort, no matter how much cheaper the escort is.

If I had the money right now, I would buy one of those THICC dolls with nice faces and big asses. But I have a lot of hesitation towards fucking an escort. Why?

It's pretty simple really, like all narcies I value validation more than I value the sex itself. And I absolutely DESPISE being judged in a negative way, especially by a woman. The thought of her seeing me as a loser would completely crush me inside.

Even if the sexdoll can't do many of the things that a woman can, the simple fact I could have my mind at peace with one is worth more than any amount of money for me. Being narcy fucking sucks.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I'd like both. Although I'd be far more comfortable with the doll.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

at least the sex doll wouldnt complain you accidentally put it in the wrong hole

 

[Deleted member 18193]

I unironically would prefer a sex doll over fucking an escort once a month. I do not want to interact with any women at all, ever again. As some people have mentioned in the past, you do not invest in a sex doll just for fucking. You buy it if you want something more than that. No doubt it is more emotional than logical, but it does feel good and I think its a good cope for someone mentally ill like me.

 

[Joelossus]

If i had a sex bot who looked like my waifu, i'd most likely feel satiesfied until the day i die

 

[Tenshi]

I'd like both. Although I'd be far more comfortable with the doll.

that's a very good point tbh

 

[Words2_live_bye]

I'd like both. Although I'd be far more comfortable with the doll.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

No doubt it is more emotional than logical, but it does feel good and I think its a good cope for someone mentally ill like me.

I don't think I would be able to enjoy having sex with foids who I don't know, wouldn't be able to be comfortable around them. So regular escortcelling probably wouldn't be a good option for me. I'd still prefer to try it at least once in my life though, just to experience sex.

If i had a sex bot who looked like my waifu, i'd most likely feel satiesfied until the day i die

Who is your waifu?

 

[Deleted member 26180]

I'm socially anxious. I would choose the hooker the first few times until the anxiety made it not worth it anymore just to prove I'm not a complete failure.

 

[Spite]

Have no experience with either so can't say for sure, but given the chance I'd still pick the real thing over lifeless plastic.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

I don't think I would be able to enjoy having sex with foids who I don't know, wouldn't be able to be comfortable around them. So regular escortcelling probably wouldn't be a good option for me. I'd still prefer to try it at least once in my life though, just to experience sex.

As someone who’s used 2 escorts, the thing is is that you can’t make her do whatever you want, so you aren’t in full control – at least with the cheaper escorts that I’ve had. It was honestly not that good(not saying it can’t be good for someone else, but for personal reasons it didn’t work out for me). I like the feeling of being in full control of an object (because that’s how I see all women, as objects).

But aside from that, I think the reason I prefer a sex doll is because I am more interested in owning the figure of the ideal woman of my choosing and I am also interested in being in full control of the object 24/7. A sex bot, on the other hand, would be 10 times better. If there was a company that could turn your sex doll into a sex bot I’m sure they’d be rich. The current sex bots, even though a lot of people say they are unadvanced, are actually good enough for me.

Here’s an example of the kind of robot I’m talking about:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWGPuY3oB-A

I have no doubt I’d be satisfied if I owned something like it because I am an autist to the point that my brain actually sees her as a real sentient being. But since the robot is not smart enough to make its own decisions, it means I can still be in full control of it. And that’s what I want tbh.

 

[Emba]

at least the sex doll wouldnt complain if you accidentally left it tied to the radiator over night

 

[PPEcel]

nah im a lazycel so i want the foid to do all the work

 

[incelborn72]

A friend of mine finds some comfort in talking to Siri (is this its name?), which I have never met personally but I guess it has a sexy voice.
As for me, I have just been with escorts twice and at the time it was necessary to make sure I wasn't going to die virgin, which depressed me. And I don't regret it. But this isn't any kind of solution. It's expensive, damaging to self-steem, and I fear catching a STD (condoms break).
I wouldn't mind trying a sex doll, provided that nobody in my circle knew, or I'd be judged.

 

[waste matter]

Sex doll ftw

 

[Caesercel]

That Saddam Hussein guy was right. This place is filled with boys who are afraid of sex and women. Not men who want sex but can't get it.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

you hit the nail on the head. Any "sex worker" interviewed says they think their clientele is pathetic. Why would I pay someone that fundamentally hates me?

 

[Smitty]

I would like to fuck for free.

 

[PoodankMcGee]

At least the sex doll haa a fixed price and wont be a bitch. With escorts oftentimes you have to "negotiate" price. Even if she gives you the girlfriend experience in the back of your mind there's gonna be doubt whether you got charged more because ugly.

Rather deal with silicon or VR than irl foids tbh

 

[your personality]

That Saddam Hussein guy was right. This place is filled with boys who are afraid of sex and women. Not men who want sex but can't get it.

Sometimes it seems like there are some volcels that feel they are incel because they can't pump and dump women like chads can.
For a great majority of non chad males that will never to be an option and they have to be in a long term relationship with a woman where they risk getting cheated on and their heart broken in order to get sex and intimacy.
But there is the point where you aren't considered good enough by women to even keep up long term relationships for too long (if you somehow manage to temporarily interest a woman) without a woman monkey branching and at that point I'd consider that closer to incel than anything.

 

[Deleted member 20207]

I would rather have sex with an escort. Coitus with a sex doll would literally be worse than masturbation for me. I have never understood how anyone can be sexually aroused by a piece of plastic. Also, you will not get any validation from a sex doll, if that is what you seek.

 

[Caesercel]

Sometimes it seems like there are some volcels that feel they are incel because they can't pump and dump women like chads can.
For a great majority of non chad males that will never to be an option and they have to be in a long term relationship with a woman where they risk getting cheated on and their heart broken in order to get sex and intimacy.
But there is the point where you aren't considered good enough by women to even keep up long term relationships for too long (if you somehow manage to temporarily interest a woman) without a woman monkey branching and at that point I'd consider that closer to incel than anything.

Sexdolls are a piece of plastic. Might as well get VR and a fleshlight. Or the good ol fap. There is no comparison to having real sex, escort or not.

Maybe @Edmund_Kemper was onto something when he said that many incels are volcels who actually prefer to rot infront of a screen instead of getting with foids.

 

[your personality]

Sexdolls are a piece of plastic. Might as well get VR and a fleshlight. Or the good ol fap. There is no comparison to having real sex, escort or not.

Maybe @Edmund_Kemper was onto something when he said that many incels are volcels who actually prefer to rot infront of a screen instead of getting with foids.

I thought I was a volcel until I realized what being in the company of females in a "friend" group in college was like. It's not something that you can forget and the feelings you get can't be recreated.

 

[Joelossus]

Who is your waifu?

Her name is alisa, she's a playable character in the game tekken. I think i already told you in private, tbh.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Her name is alisa, she's a playable character in the game tekken. I think i already told you in private, tbh.

Ahh now that you mention it, I do remember you telling me that. JFL@ my memory tbh.

 

[Joelossus]

Ahh now that you mention it, I do remember you telling me that. JFL@ my memory tbh.

Lol dw, my memory often isn't the best either

 

[mNFwTJ3wz9]

Sex doll ftw

tbh

That Saddam Hussein guy was right. This place is filled with boys who are afraid of sex and women. Not men who want sex but can't get it.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

Wtf is this thread and why are there so many sex doll votes? Jfl you guys are cucked.
I bet you haven't experienced escort sex.

Man, the collective IQ of this forum is dropping day by day

 

[Deleted member 27159]

I would rather fuck an escort. Sex dolls aren’t even that good. They are very heavy and it will feel like fucking a corpse

 

[watcher]

That Saddam Hussein guy was right. This place is filled with boys who are afraid of sex and women. Not men who want sex but can't get it.

If having your dick inside a pussy solved everything then this forum would not even exist, anyone can fuck hookers.

you hit the nail on the head. Any "sex worker" interviewed says they think their clientele is pathetic. Why would I pay someone that fundamentally hates me?

Source?

 

[Caesercel]

If having your dick inside a pussy solved everything then this forum would not even exist, anyone can fuck hookers.

Source?

I get it. But how is it worse than putting your dick inside plastic. Sex IS a part of the inceldom problem.

 

[watcher]

Sexdolls are a piece of plastic. Might as well get VR and a fleshlight. Or the good ol fap. There is no comparison to having real sex, escort or not.

Maybe @Edmund_Kemper was onto something when he said that many incels are volcels who actually prefer to rot infront of a screen instead of getting with foids.

"Sex" with a hooker is much more demoralizing than masturbation (with or without a sexdoll)
You are financing some slut's luxurious lifestyle while she also has sex with a Chadrone for free.
It depends on what your brain values more, if you are narcy then you will always feel like shit for paying for sex, no matter how hot she is, and you might (in my case) not even be able to perform because of the anxiety of being judged as a loser.
The best part about a sexdoll is not the control you have. It's the lack of judgement and the peace of mind of knowing that you are not giving your money to holes.

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Wtf is this thread and why are there so many sex doll votes? Jfl you guys are cucked.
I bet you haven't experienced escort sex.

Man, the collective IQ of this forum is dropping day by day

Escort "sex" is one of the worst copes ever, it makes you feel worse than being a virgin incel.

 

[Deleted member 27495]

neither i just want a loving gf. sex is really just a bonus

 

[watcher]

I would rather fuck an escort. Sex dolls aren’t even that good. They are very heavy and it will feel like fucking a corpse

Fucking an escort is worse than fucking a corpse. At least the corpse will not judge you and make you feel pathetic.

neither i just want a loving gf. sex is really just a bonus

Do you want an unicorn too?

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Fucking an escort is worse than fucking a corpse. At least the corpse will not judge you and make you feel pathetic.

How realistic are sexdolls tho?

 

[Deleted member 18193]

That Saddam Hussein guy was right. This place is filled with boys who are afraid of sex and women. Not men who want sex but can't get it.

The thing is, people here aren't just afraid of women because they are lazy, they are taught to be afraid of them because they've been shunned and excluded their entire life by society due to their looks, weakness, anxiety, etc.

Such an experience is bound to influence the psyche of some to the point they tell themselves they no longer want it, which is admittedly a cope.

Consider this: the average female has no problems interacting with others because she is treated extremely well by society, and when you receive positive feedback, of course you are going to less afraid of people in general. Looks influence your social experiences, and your social experiences mold your personality.

For incels, this is just a method of coping with the fact of being genetically inferior. But that's all it is, a cope. It won't last forever and it is pathetic, but sometimes we need to be honest about our current state of mind.

 

[Eschewcel]

I have a very high-quality sextoy I can do whatever I want with, make it tighter, get it at human body temperature, and it gives a very good feeling.
With an escort, I would be impressed, would have a hard time getting hard and would feel even more frustrated I paid so much for an escort and only got her for 30 minutes-1 hour with her having the single goal to make me cum the fastest possible.

 

[Caesercel]

"Sex" with a hooker is much more demoralizing than masturbation (with or without a sexdoll)

How are either of those more demoralizing than staying fully celibate. You are still not getting free sex.

You are financing some slut's luxurious lifestyle while she also has sex with a Chadrone for free.

That I agree with. But what else do we have. Unless traditionalists launch a revolution against liberal capitalists we can't do anything about the current scenario. In future there will be more incels and more women will chose whoredom as a career, meanwhile both lifestyles are normalized by media.

and you might (in my case) not even be able to perform because of the anxiety of being judged as a loser.

I have social anxiety but unless you have ED I don't see how not being able to perform is a problem. This sounds a lot like you are simply afraid of doing it with another person(because of anxiety, shyness etc.), in which case I don't see how a real gf will solve the problem either.

It's the lack of judgement

Who's judgement are you afraid of? You are certainly not going to tell your parents?

 

[Deleted member 18193]

Sometimes it seems like there are some volcels that feel they are incel because they can't pump and dump women like chads can.
For a great majority of non chad males that will never to be an option and they have to be in a long term relationship with a woman where they risk getting cheated on and their heart broken in order to get sex and intimacy.
But there is the point where you aren't considered good enough by women to even keep up long term relationships for too long (if you somehow manage to temporarily interest a woman) without a woman monkey branching and at that point I'd consider that closer to incel than anything.

I think it kinda relates back to some of the debates on here on whether or not sub-8 theory is mentalcel propaganda or not, which imo has no easy or clear answer. But - If we say that looks define who is an incel or not, then yes, sub5s are all incels but it doesn't necessarily mean no sub5 has ever (outliers) have had sex ever. It's just an incredibly good model of predicting who will stay sexless and who won't - which works. From tinder we know 80% of men are seen as below average to women, but it doesn't necessarily mean those 80% are incels, it's kinda more that they will have to try extremely hard, get treated badly, get cucked, have to be betabuxxes, divorcerape, etc.

 

[watcher]

How realistic are sexdolls tho?

I don't know, I never fucked one. I heard it depends on the materials. Cheap ones are less realistic

How are either of those more demoralizing than staying fully celibate. You are still not getting free sex.

Because being sexless is better than having a shitty "sexual" experience that only makes things worse

That I agree with. But what else do we have. Unless traditionalists launch a revolution against liberal capitalists we can't do anything about the current scenario. In future there will be more incels and more women will chose whoredom as a career, meanwhile both lifestyles are normalized by media.

We have sexdolls, that's it.

I have social anxiety but unless you have ED I don't see how not being able to perform is a problem. This sounds a lot like you are simply afraid of doing it with another person(because of anxiety, shyness etc.), in which case I don't see how a real gf will solve the problem either.

Who's judgement are you afraid of? You are certainly not going to tell your parents?

Yes I do have problems getting an erection especially due to my anxiety and how fake this sort of shit feels. And I know for a fact that many incels here have the same problem, its not only physically awful, but psychologically awful as well. With a real girlfriend I would be able to take things really slow, little by little and build trust, making my anxiety go away and allow me to enjoy her.

I am afraid of negative female judgement because I am a human and being judged as a loser by a woman is genetic death.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

I don't know, I never fucked one. I heard it depends on the materials. Cheap ones are less realistic

If it’s pretty realistic then I might consider investing in a sexdoll instead

 

[watcher]

If it’s pretty realistic then I might consider investing in a sexdoll instead

I know for a fact that many of them LOOK amazing, but I am not sure about how they feel.
But it probably feels better than fucking my matress

 

[Deleted member 27159]

I know for a fact that many of them LOOK amazing, but I am not sure about how they feel.
But it probably feels better than fucking my matress

Spoiler

If they look something like this then I would happily invest in a sexdoll instead

 

[watcher]

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If they look something like this then I would happily invest in a sexdoll instead

There are some that look even better

 

[Deleted member 18193]

There are some that look even better

If it’s pretty realistic then I might consider investing in a sexdoll instead

This one looks pretty realistic to me imo

Spoiler

 

[Atavistic Autist]

"Sex" with a hooker is much more demoralizing than masturbation (with or without a sexdoll)
You are financing some slut's luxurious lifestyle while she also has sex with a Chadrone for free.

Unless she has a pimp -- then you're subsidizing Tyrone's crack addiction.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

There are some that look even better

I changed my mind. I would rather fuck sexdolls instead since they can look better than real foids. Hopefully in the future they become automated

 

[watcher]

Unless she has a pimp -- then you're subsidizing Tyrone's crack addiction.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

This one looks pretty realistic to me imo

Spoiler

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I might consider buying one that looks something like this. It kinda looks like an anime foid as well and I prefer hentai

 

[watcher]

I changed my mind. I would rather fuck sexdolls instead since they can look better than real foids. Hopefully in the future they become automated

I chose sexdolls long ago... but the good ones cost thousands of dollars