rice and curries with retarded narcissistic parents, post ur parents retarded traits. I will start.
1. They are entitled to your servitude on the basis of their superior status. Therefore, you must cater to their needs without question. Having you at their beck and call keeps them at the center of attention, and they get to feel important.
2. Narcissists are perfect the way they are. They already know everything that's worth knowing. If they don't know something, such knowledge was beneath them in the first place. And if it's such a menial task that needs to be done, you can do it because you have lower status.
3. Narcs are too cool for school. Learning means first admitting ignorance. It also means having to acknowledge the superior status of a would-be teacher and their own inferior status as students. Good luck if that would-be teacher happens to be you, the unfortunate child of a narc AP.
4. They willingly stunt their own growth with mental gymnastics to maintain their delusions of power and supremacy. They can live half a century outside of Asia and still not speak basic English, and yet, they are somehow superior to the "foreigners."
In conclusion, narc APs are unteachable, especially if that poor teacher is their abused child. I personally know an Asian narc mom who demanded her child show her how to drive, but made it clear that she was the boss and wouldn't be told what to do. Predictably, she crashed the car because she couldn't/wouldn't follow instructions. Of course, she scapegoated her child after the crash.
5. Narc APs will weaponize anything to manipulate/control their children, including their own incompetence. They are the type who will cut off their noses to spite their face. They make decisions that will hurt themselves in the long run to control their children and keep them around. They weaponize their incompetence to play the victim and make their children feel guilty about growing up and wanting to leave.
6. It’s bad enough that APs cripple and stunt themselves in a foreign country, but, by not letting you make friends, join clubs, get student jobs, have hobbies, play sports, or socialize, they strive to cripple you as well. Instead of raising you to surpass them, they want you to be just as useless and dependent as they are. Misery loves company like crabs in a bucket that will sabotage your escape by pulling you back down.
1. They are entitled to your servitude on the basis of their superior status. Therefore, you must cater to their needs without question. Having you at their beck and call keeps them at the center of attention, and they get to feel important.
2. Narcissists are perfect the way they are. They already know everything that's worth knowing. If they don't know something, such knowledge was beneath them in the first place. And if it's such a menial task that needs to be done, you can do it because you have lower status.
3. Narcs are too cool for school. Learning means first admitting ignorance. It also means having to acknowledge the superior status of a would-be teacher and their own inferior status as students. Good luck if that would-be teacher happens to be you, the unfortunate child of a narc AP.
4. They willingly stunt their own growth with mental gymnastics to maintain their delusions of power and supremacy. They can live half a century outside of Asia and still not speak basic English, and yet, they are somehow superior to the "foreigners."
In conclusion, narc APs are unteachable, especially if that poor teacher is their abused child. I personally know an Asian narc mom who demanded her child show her how to drive, but made it clear that she was the boss and wouldn't be told what to do. Predictably, she crashed the car because she couldn't/wouldn't follow instructions. Of course, she scapegoated her child after the crash.
5. Narc APs will weaponize anything to manipulate/control their children, including their own incompetence. They are the type who will cut off their noses to spite their face. They make decisions that will hurt themselves in the long run to control their children and keep them around. They weaponize their incompetence to play the victim and make their children feel guilty about growing up and wanting to leave.
6. It’s bad enough that APs cripple and stunt themselves in a foreign country, but, by not letting you make friends, join clubs, get student jobs, have hobbies, play sports, or socialize, they strive to cripple you as well. Instead of raising you to surpass them, they want you to be just as useless and dependent as they are. Misery loves company like crabs in a bucket that will sabotage your escape by pulling you back down.
( In video Game)
