Serious Myth of confidence.

[NorthernWind]

Good article.

https://scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/04/08/the-myth-of-confidence/

 

[Sexless incel]

The most important part;


"The reality about confidence is so simple and so obvious, it amazes me that otherwise intelligent people haven’t figured it out. Or maybe they have figured it out and they’re too dishonest with themselves to admit it. Perhaps the reality is too uncomfortable. After all, it’s much easier to sell books and self-help courses with fantasy than with reality.

So here’s the truth about confidence: You can only have confidence when other people give it to you. When others in your age group like you, respect you, admire you, and are attracted to you, you get confidence. When they don’t like you, scorn you, and reject you, you lose confidence. Therefore, the level of confidence you have is controlled by others, NOT by you. You can not just decide to be confident. Confidence is not a choice or decision you can make. You can’t just snap your fingers and, Abracadabra, you’re confident. It doesn’t work that way. It can’t work that way. Social confidence, by it’s very definition, requires support and acceptance from others (in your own age group) before it can exist.“

 

[Fallenleaves]

If we had Andrew Tate's stats, we'd be as confident if not even more confident than he already is

 

[hondas2000cel]

This is brutal and makes me hate everyone even more

 

[Sennacherib]

No confidence 4 ur face

 

[Izayacel]

If we had Andrew Tate's stats, we'd be as confident if not even more confident than he already is

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

confidence is attraction to specific genetic traits.

 

[dOOmerbOI]

The most important part;


"The reality about confidence is so simple and so obvious, it amazes me that otherwise intelligent people haven’t figured it out. Or maybe they have figured it out and they’re too dishonest with themselves to admit it. Perhaps the reality is too uncomfortable. After all, it’s much easier to sell books and self-help courses with fantasy than with reality.

So here’s the truth about confidence: You can only have confidence when other people give it to you. When others in your age group like you, respect you, admire you, and are attracted to you, you get confidence. When they don’t like you, scorn you, and reject you, you lose confidence. Therefore, the level of confidence you have is controlled by others, NOT by you. You can not just decide to be confident. Confidence is not a choice or decision you can make. You can’t just snap your fingers and, Abracadabra, you’re confident. It doesn’t work that way. It can’t work that way. Social confidence, by it’s very definition, requires support and acceptance from others (in your own age group) before it can exist.“

Its over

 

[Sexless incel]

Its over

It never began

 

[righteouscel]

Good article.

https://scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/04/08/the-myth-of-confidence/

Lol a bitch told me to be confident while she fucked her Manlet bf with good jaw

 

[huaus]

sex is the main source of confidence.