[Mystery] Where are all the other ugly males

[Fontaine]

This question keeps obsessing me. What are they doing? How are they coping? Why isn't there a more widespread epidemic of male clinical depression and LDARing?

According to a book I had read on human esthetics, 20% of a given population sample is very ugly. There should be way more ugly men on this forum or rotting in psychiatric asylums.

Instead I see some of them living their life as if there's no issue, smiling, working, etc. I think that getting depressed over inceldom is partly a neurotransmitter issue.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

They've killed themselves. Or they hide in their room, like I mostly done

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Living in denial.

 

[Newbie17]

High iq post. Hard to say where they are but what is obvious is that most of them are still bluepilled. They think that love comes when you least except it, that there is someone for everyone, and similar bullshit.

Living in denial.

Also this.

 

[_incelinside]

Solid coping strategies, blind optimism

 

[torujo]

watching pua videos

 

[Fontaine]

They've killed themselves.

Nope. I see a lot of extremely ugly men walking around my town, going about their daily business. Unashamed and sometimes even smiling.

 

[Felix97]

they hide in their room

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I think that getting depressed over inceldom is partly a neurotransmitter issue.

This is likely some of our problem. Experience is reality, if being an incel makes me feel awful, then regardless of what IT says, it truly does make me suicidal.

 

[Fontaine]

High iq post. Hard to say where they are but what is obvious is that most of them are still bluepilled. They think that love comes when you least except it, that there is someone for everyone, and similar bullshit.

That's definitely part of the explanation, especially for those under 40.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Many are still bluepilled. Many are actually cucked and married to a landwhale ex-thot, raising chads kids.

 

[Robo Sapien]

Most of them were probably lucky enough to score a foid in youth, or are just escortmaxxing.

 

[imbored21]

Raising chad’s kids

 

[Fontaine]

Many are still bluepilled. Many are actually cucked and married to a landwhale ex-thot, raising chads kids.

Yes. But how do you explain that they don't get depressed over dating a 2/10 single mother who treats them like shit, while not being able to date 5+ girls depresses us.

 

[Weirdcel]

Most ugly males are walking around as if nothing is wrong. You see them working normal jobs, many happily even beta buxx a fat wife. The difference between NT and non NT.

 

[z2020]

I'm here thanks.

And much less than 20% are ugly, especially considering only 0.4% of people die virgins

 

[Flabcel Repulsive]

Most of them still haven't heard about inceldom, much less find the motivation to sign up on a forum. They walk around being depressed, considering the enigma of their misfortune for short while everyday, and are in various states of blackpilling. I did that for over 40 years.

 

[Newbie17]

Raising chad’s kids

Kek.

 

[Robo Sapien]

Most ugly males are walking around as if nothing is wrong. You see them working normal jobs, many happily even beta buxx a fat wife. The difference between NT and non NT.

Because incels realize the disadvantages of being hideous. We aren't trying to fuck up another generation. That's why most of us shoot high, because we want to make the next generation better.

 

[Newbie17]

Most of them still haven't heard about inceldom, much less find the motivation to sign up on a forum. They walk around being depressed, considering the enigma of their misfortune for short while everyday, and are in various states of blackpilling. I did that for over 40 years.

Are you really 47 years old? How do you cope? Seems like a torturemaxxing tbh...

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Yes. But how do you explain that they don't get depressed over dating a 2/10 single mother who treats them like shit, while not being able to date 5+ girls depresses us.

Being a cuck to a landwhale is enough for many men to fill up the Maslow Hierarchy just enough for them to be content. As Camus once said, rolling a boulder up a hill can be enough to fill a mans heart. I guess us incels just expect more from life.

 

[Fontaine]

Because incels realize the disadvantages of being hideous. We aren't trying to fuck up another generation. That's why most of us shoot high, because we want to make the next generation better.

That's definitely my case. I don't want to ever have a child who'll endure what ugly children endure.

 

[theultimate341]

They've killed themselves. Or they hide in their room, like I mostly done

 

[Flabcel Repulsive]

I'm here thanks.

And much less than 20% are ugly, especially considering only 0.4% of people die virgins

Not trusting the statistics you offer, and even then, virginity is quite a useless categorization anyway. Say you die a 75-year old incel in a nursing home. 48 years ago, back when you were 27, you once visited a prostitute in Amsterdam. That would make you technically a non-virgin, although it was the only incidence of coitus in your entire life.

 

[Bronzehawkattack]

We were all in the same place as them at one point.
Some of us were blue pilled.
Some of us already felt isolated and depressed, we just didn't know why.
Some of us that would be here, roped before ever getting a chance to find this community.

You're never gonna hear about it anyways when some ugly unloved guy ropes anyways. No one is going to be talking about it, their family probably won't even care that much. Ugly people are mostly invisible and uncared for by society.

 

[_wifebeater_]

A lot are bluepilled and still think that they'll find 'the right woman'.

 

[Flabcel Repulsive]

Are you really 47 years old? How do you cope? Seems like a torturemaxxing tbh...

It is. But I've been betting it all on consciousness surviving death. Other than that, I am old enough to successfully practice apateia. I walk around with a gentle smile on my face and radiate love towards everyone and everything.

 

[Robo Sapien]

That's definitely my case. I don't want to ever have a child who'll endure what ugly children endure.

Definitely, I made the decision that my sons- if I have them- will be tall and handsome. I never want my boys to go through the stupid shit I had to go through as an ugly average height guy.

 

[Jockcel]

Most incels are bluepilled and in denial.

 

[Newbie17]

It is. But I've been betting it all on consciousness surviving death. Other than that, I am old enough to successfully practice apateia. I walk around with a gentle smile on my face and radiate love towards everyone and everything.

Nice, kudos for that...

 

[Chileancel]

Bluepilled, married their looksmatch, working 60 hrs a week and waiting for the imminent divorce.

 

[z2020]

Not trusting the statistics you offer, and even then, virginity is quite a useless categorization anyway. Say you die a 75-year old incel in a nursing home. 48 years ago, back when you were 27, you once visited a prostitute in Amsterdam. That would make you technically a non-virgin, although it was the only incidence of coitus in your entire life.

I don't count paying someone as losing your virginity.

Very few people in the world are too ugly to ever be lovable where it literally is out of their control, unfortunately I'm one of them.

 

[LebaneseCel]

Living in denial.

 

[acnescarcel]

they're cucks/bluepilled

 

[The End]

I once visited a friend of a friend. He was older than us, a complete nerd, ugly, and definitely an incel.

But he seemed just fine being who he was, and where he was. I couldn't understand how he could be content like this, so I questioned my friend. He said that this older guy thought that he would eventually score a woman, once she got over her 'bad-boy' phase and matured emotionally.

It was disgusting.

 

[excel]

they're cucks/bluepilled

Exactly.. I’m in a dating discussion (((group))) where a virgin 33 year old Asian dude in California asked for tips to start dating. I popped the race pill and he wasn’t even mad. He was like.. oh let’s not be so negative. I’m sure I’ll find the right lady sometime.

Life can be sometimes ridiculous.

 

[acnescarcel]

Exactly.. I’m in a dating discussion (((group))) where a virgin 33 year old Asian dude in California asked for tips to start dating. I popped the race pill and he wasn’t even mad. He was like.. oh let’s not be so negative. I’m sure I’ll find the right lady sometime.

Life can be sometimes ridiculous.

*I'm sure ill find the right roastie sometime.

 

[LebaneseCel]

They're getting cucked into oblivion thinking they're gonna ascend one day.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

I was as bluepilled as they come before I stumbled onto sluthate. It's hard to remember but think back to those days. You first think "Oh, I haven't had a gf cause I haven't really put any effort. I just don't go outside enough." Then you start going outside and going places or maybe to parties, using social media, and realizing women still don't like you. Then you try online dating and it doesn't work for you, you start getting sexually frustrated and then stumble onto incel forums where they reveal blackpills and then you're stuck here forever.

 

[Deleted member 1060]

One group is on /r/TheRedPill and another group is on /r/IncelTears

 

[masterwizard]

There is a reason the male suicide rate is 4x higher than that of women's.

Quite literally LDAR.

 

[Mainländer]

They're coping on other parts of the internet (imageboards, youtube, other forums, etc) or are hardcore bluepilled cucks thinking it's not over.

The incel movement has the potentional to expand much more tbh.

 

[Robinxyz]

You need to be bluepilled to go about life with a smile on your face.

 

[FortunateMilkman]

They live entirely oblivious existences. They don't care. They're ignorant. No different than normalfags.

 

[GeneticFilth]

They're just early puberty fags that got free instant pussy because early puberty made them be taller and better looking than everyone. When everyone caught up they became ugly.

 

[Enlightened_Alien]

Yes. But how do you explain that they don't get depressed over dating a 2/10 single mother who treats them like shit, while not being able to date 5+ girls depresses us.

Validation is a drug that keeps men going, even if its poisonous.

 

[Evildoer]

The incel movement has the potentional to expand much more tbh.

 

[Enlightened_Alien]

I once visited a friend of a friend. He was older than us, a complete nerd, ugly, and definitely an incel.

But he seemed just fine being who he was, and where he was. I couldn't understand how he could be content like this, so I questioned my friend. He said that this older guy thought that he would eventually score a woman, once she got over her 'bad-boy' phase and matured emotionally.

It was disgusting.

Some men produce their own bluepills without being fed it. Men like this are the perfect slaves because they actively look for a master. I dont think any amount of blackpills will fix their mental imbalance.

 

[latinoincel]

Many men do not want to accept that they are ugly.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

They aren’t as self aware and are not as biologically inclined to feel the way we feel, aren’t as pessimistic or realistic. Simply put, they are not wired like we are.