I was on the nightclub dance floor minding my own business then some girl approached me then yelled "Oi pervert, why are you trying to make a move on my mate she's already with some" at my face accusing me of something I never even did. I fired back yelling that "What?! I wasn't" then she yelled "Yes you were" then I continuously yelled again "I didn't" then some random guy a hold of me trying to calm me down so she walked away with her mates. I started sobbing slightly I said to some random guy "I didn't do anything" then he was "I know you didn't mate, I'll get you some water". All did was looked at her for a good second or two but her mate took it the wrong way.
I'm very shy towards talking to women and holding a conversation with them. I never had a relationship or never did anything intimate with a girl. Due to having aspergers I struggle to understand people's body language and facial expressions. So I can't tell if a girl finds me attractive or wants me to dance with them. All I ever wanted to do that night was just dance and try to have conversation with different people to increase my confidence since someone gave me advice about taking baby steps. I wasn't looking for a snog or sex like a lot of guys would. Sadly my confidence because of what happened.
I've seen those 'lads' who I assume slept with so many girls forcefully grabbing random girls on the waist and snogging them. How do they get with it? E.g. my former mate of me who's very good looking and always been popular with the ladies if he did all that he would've got away with it but if tried doing it I'd get slapped in the face, chucked out by the bouncers (possibly banned from the club) and possibly end up getting arrested for it. If you're not a good looking guy with the 'lad' behaviour it's a severe disadvantage. I think most girls at nightclub think I'm ugly every time I look at them they look at me back like "ew" or if they notice that I'm trying to approach them they just walk off. Most of the girls at nightclub must think having an attitude problem makes them sexy are probably the same girls who hate being objectified but still fall for the f*ckboys who'd live their live through using women.
I'm very shy towards talking to women and holding a conversation with them. I never had a relationship or never did anything intimate with a girl. Due to having aspergers I struggle to understand people's body language and facial expressions. So I can't tell if a girl finds me attractive or wants me to dance with them. All I ever wanted to do that night was just dance and try to have conversation with different people to increase my confidence since someone gave me advice about taking baby steps. I wasn't looking for a snog or sex like a lot of guys would. Sadly my confidence because of what happened.
I've seen those 'lads' who I assume slept with so many girls forcefully grabbing random girls on the waist and snogging them. How do they get with it? E.g. my former mate of me who's very good looking and always been popular with the ladies if he did all that he would've got away with it but if tried doing it I'd get slapped in the face, chucked out by the bouncers (possibly banned from the club) and possibly end up getting arrested for it. If you're not a good looking guy with the 'lad' behaviour it's a severe disadvantage. I think most girls at nightclub think I'm ugly every time I look at them they look at me back like "ew" or if they notice that I'm trying to approach them they just walk off. Most of the girls at nightclub must think having an attitude problem makes them sexy are probably the same girls who hate being objectified but still fall for the f*ckboys who'd live their live through using women.
