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Story My Thoughts About Master—And A Broader Point On The "Othering" That Incels Regularly Face. [Poll]

Have thou experienced being 'othered' before?


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The Scarlet Prince

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I initially wrote this post as a reply to this post by @Misogynist Vegeta, but I thought it might honestly be better as it's own standalone thread—yet is still in a way a reply to his.

@Master just seems like he fell for the standard foid tricks. He's on Twitter all the time, trying to build up reputation, and he let his guard down and e-girls who desperately want attention just ended up latching onto him. It's the same thing that happens with a lot of guys, even other incels. I suppose because, in a way, we all desire some aspect of 'normality,' and this seems like the easiest avenue for it.

As much as incels are trashed on, I, at least in my experience, honestly kind of feel treated like a zoo animal at times? People really are shocked when you tell them that you actually are an incel, at least in the real world. They at first laugh it off, then they ask if you're serious, and then when you reaffirm that you are, they usually don't act with disgust—more so a curiosity. They ask things like 'Woah, do you really hate women like other incels?' or 'If you're an incel, why are you outside?' as if incels aren't still beings who need to go outside and do things.

The thing that will REALLY blow their mind is if you end up telling them that you regularly post on incel forums (I only do this online or with people I don't know that can't connect who I am back to my real identity), then they get super interested in you, like they've found some exotic species they've never seen before. Same thing happens if you tell them you post on 4chan, albeit, to a lesser degree. Then they start asking you all sorts of questions, and get super curious about what it's like.

It's genuinely irritating, really. Whatever, I promise this all connects back to what I was trying to say earlier.

Some incels go through this, and then when it happens, they make the mistake of assuming it's genuine interest in you as a person, and that it's a way to connect and make friends. If they're foolish, they'll start thinking that they're better than other incels after this, and start to distance themselves from this forum and similar—all because they think that these 'friends' are better than we are.

But after a while, inceldom will always come to collect, and they end up being abandoned, because the fascination of meeting an actual incel poster is replaced with disdain for the subhuman once the initial interest passes. Then they end up crawling back to us—as they have done before, and always will do.

What Master is going through on Twitter is just a form of that, I believe. As long as he has his Twitter account, he'll be going through this phase, but will always end up coming back in the end. Poor guy.

Regardless, thoughts? Have any of you ever experienced what I described? Honestly, it only really happens if you tell people that you are an incel, which probably isn't a good idea.
Master is probably going through a phase where he enjoys the attention and fascination he gets from actually proclaiming himself an incel, and as speaking as one. It's something that happens to incels as a whole, but is ultimately a bad thing as incels always end up abandoned regardless.
 
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Nobody knows.
 
Apart from family, but I am young and they probably expect me to have children in the future so things will get awkward eventually.
That seems about right, and honestly, that's probably how it should be. I at first told people because they were curious where some of my lingo originated from, since it's not stuff they've heard before. That always ends up to me mentioning that I'm an incel, and that's when it starts.

However, I don't bother telling anyone anymore. Honestly, it's just looking for attention after a while. It's irritating and genuinely dehumanizing—if we were even humans to begin with, that is.
 
I have been in similar situations as well, and many people were curious about me when I was in college. As I have a rather severe psychiatric disorder that I take medication for (The main reason for my inceldom) a lot of people were rather sympathetic, but they still acted that "somebody" (But never them!) will realize that I am a "great guy" and look past it.

...and here I am at 41. I have a steady job as an office drone and live by myself in a tiny apartment. My psychiatric medication is subsidized through state assistance.

The point is that there comes a time when people's curiousity wears off, and when you graduate from college, if people learn you are an incel past your 20's, the people who are not immediately horrified and scared off will regard you as being some sort of rare freak, like a sideshow attraction and will constantly harass you for attention.

I knew once I graduated from college to never tell anybody IRL about being an "incel" as it would just open up a Pandora's Box of awkwardness at work and elsewhere so this is the only place I have ever admitted to it.

Also, I do not "hate" women, so much that I find humanity in general disappointing and shallow as I have gotten negative interactions from both men and women in largely-equal measures.
 
As incels we are a group of people who enjoy any attention we get because we have been ignored by everyone our entire lives.
 
Brutal nearnoreplypill.
 
I initially wrote this post as a reply to this post by @Misogynist Vegeta, but I thought it might honestly be better as it's own standalone thread—yet is still in a way a reply to his.

@Master just seems like he fell for the standard foid tricks. He's on Twitter all the time, trying to build up reputation, and he let his guard down and e-girls who desperately want attention just ended up latching onto him. It's the same thing that happens with a lot of guys, even other incels. I suppose because, in a way, we all desire some aspect of 'normality,' and this seems like the easiest avenue for it.

As much as incels are trashed on, I, at least in my experience, honestly kind of feel treated like a zoo animal at times? People really are shocked when you tell them that you actually are an incel, at least in the real world. They at first laugh it off, then they ask if you're serious, and then when you reaffirm that you are, they usually don't act with disgust—more so a curiosity. They ask things like 'Woah, do you really hate women like other incels?' or 'If you're an incel, why are you outside?' as if incels aren't still beings who need to go outside and do things.

The thing that will REALLY blow their mind is if you end up telling them that you regularly post on incel forums (I only do this online or with people I don't know that can't connect who I am back to my real identity), then they get super interested in you, like they've found some exotic species they've never seen before. Same thing happens if you tell them you post on 4chan, albeit, to a lesser degree. Then they start asking you all sorts of questions, and get super curious about what it's like.

It's genuinely irritating, really. Whatever, I promise this all connects back to what I was trying to say earlier.

Some incels go through this, and then when it happens, they make the mistake of assuming it's genuine interest in you as a person, and that it's a way to connect and make friends. If they're foolish, they'll start thinking that they're better than other incels after this, and start to distance themselves from this forum and similar—all because they think that these 'friends' are better than we are.

But after a while, inceldom will always come to collect, and they end up being abandoned, because the fascination of meeting an actual incel poster is replaced with disdain for the subhuman once the initial interest passes. Then they end up crawling back to us—as they have done before, and always will do.

What Master is going through on Twitter is just a form of that, I believe. As long as he has his Twitter account, he'll be going through this phase, but will always end up coming back in the end. Poor guy.

Regardless, thoughts? Have any of you ever experienced what I described? Honestly, it only really happens if you tell people that you are an incel, which probably isn't a good idea.
Master is probably going through a phase where he enjoys the attention and fascination he gets from actually proclaiming himself an incel, and as speaking as one. It's something that happens to incels as a whole, but is ultimately a bad thing as incels always end up abandoned regardless.
Good analysis
 

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