Venting My stepmom told me that she sometimes wonders if I’d be happier if I was gay

[Deleted member 101]

Idk how this came up (guess I was depressed and venting to my parents) and my mom said she sometimes wonders if I’d be happy if I were gay. Apparently she said that maybe gay men would be more okay with my more shy, awkward personality than women would be. Also that gay men are more forgiving on less attractive dudes. My parents both know that one of the main sources of my depression is over me never having a girlfriend.

Of course she keeps insisting on giving me dating advice (which I clearly don’t want as she’s a woman in her 60s, she doesn’t know shit). Today she was confused as to why I didn’t want to be social with some cute female cashier at Staples (had to drive her there to get something). She questioned why I didn’t “flirt”. I didn’t get into it because I didn’t want to argue but I was rather annoyed as I didn’t see any reason to banter with her. Obviously I’d have no chance with her and while she seemed friendly she didn’t pay any sort of attention to me. She keeps preaching that I should develop “game” (not in PUA sense of course she doesn’t know about that shit) as though I can just get girls by being good at talking. I’m not that good at talking to people (though I’ve bantered with people and make them laugh on occasion) but it just doesn’t work that way. She’s so bluepilled (expected for a woman, especially a middle aged one) that it’s annoying. I know she means well, I know she wants me to find happiness, but I would just rather her not ever bring up that shit.

Anyway idk how to feel about this. Either happy she feels for me and is concerned. Or mad about her thinking I’d be happier if I was gay. Would I be happier if I was gay? Maybe, but I’ll never know. Can’t exactly start finding dudes attractive.

 

[0x3nf4rt]

It sounds like she's concerned about you but she's too dumb to give you proper advice. At the same time she's undermining your manhood by basically telling you to go gay
wtf is that advice ?

 

[Words2_live_bye]

The question is, would you be a top or bottom

 

[Deleted member 101]

It sounds like she's concerned about you but she's too dumb to give you proper advice. At the same time she's undermining your manhood by basically telling you to go gay
wtf is that advice ?

Nah she wasn’t actually telling me to go gay. She’s just saying that maybe it would be easier if I was. And I sometimes wonder that myself tbh, seems like gay men are way less harsh towards unattractive men (I mean shit, bears are a thing so I can’t imagine any fat gay dude being unable to get laid) and are more accepting towards more “beta male” personalities

The question is, would you be a top or bottom

Lol.
Probably top because the idea of being fucked in the ass terrifies me. So if I had to I’d rather be the giver than the receiver.

 

[FastBananaCEO]

My parents think I'm gay ngl cuz of how I've never had a gf n that

 

[Deleted member 101]

My parents think I'm gay ngl cuz of how I've never had a gf n that

I’m happy my parents have never assumed I’m gay. If anyone in my family does I’m going to fucking kill them.

 

[FastBananaCEO]

I’m happy my parents have never assumed I’m gay. If anyone in my family does I’m going to fucking kill them.

Yeh when they ask of I'm gay I get rlly pissed at them

 

[0x3nf4rt]

Nah she wasn’t actually telling me to go gay. She’s just saying that maybe it would be easier if I was. And I sometimes wonder that myself tbh, seems like gay men are way less harsh towards unattractive men (I mean shit, bears are a thing so I can’t imagine any fat gay dude being unable to get laid) and are more accepting towards more “beta male” personalities

She thinks you're so hopeless that only fags will want you

 

[Haywire]

she should give you pitty sex tbh stupid stingy slut

 

[Deleted member 101]

She thinks you're so hopeless that only fags will want you

Yeah well if she thinks that she’s wrong since as far as I know I’ve never been hit on by a guy
I bet I would have more success on Grindr than Tinder but for obvious reasons Grindr is not an option.

she should give you pitty sex tbh stupid stingy slut

She’s like 64 and morbidly obese. Even incels should have some standards.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Just fagmaxx theory

 

[Deleted member 101]

Just fagmaxx theory

I would if you could actually change your sexuality. But that’s impossible.
Also gay porn disgusts me. And male bodies and penises are not attractive to me at all.

 

[0x3nf4rt]

Yeah well if she thinks that she’s wrong since as far as I know I’ve never been hit on by a guy
I bet I would have more success on Grindr than Tinder but for obvious reasons Grindr is not an option.

She’s like 64 and morbidly obese. Even incels should have some standards.

If a gay guy hasn't hit on you it confirms you're ugly

 

[Deleted member 101]

If a gay guy hasn't hit on you it confirms you're ugly

I’m also clueless when it comes to this shit when it comes to this shit and I don’t get out a ton.
Maybe if I lived in the city it would happen.
Again tho it would be useless but I guess I’d be glad someone finds me attractive?

 

[FidelCashflow]

The first time I tried to vent about the blackpill and my incel status to my mom she thought I was coming out as gay because she couldnt comprehend the fact that her "handsome young man" is a hopeless virgin that can never get a girl

 

[Deleted member 101]

The first time I tried to vent about the blackpill and my incel status to my mom she thought I was coming out as gay because she couldnt comprehend the fact that her "handsome young man" is a hopeless virgin that can never get a girl

Yeah I hate when I’m called handsome by family
It means zero
I’d rather be called an ugly piece of shit

 

[Monk of Failure]

It's over for you, buddy boyo. Even a hole like your mom now think you aren't manly enough to get a hole and, so you deserve cock in your mouth to her.

 

[Subhuman Currycel]

When I blew up about how shit I looked to women my Mum gave some hardass bluepilled advice which may have worked for me in her time and back in India and my dad hardcore suspected I was gay. I hate my life.

 

[Deleted member 101]

It's over for you, buddy boyo. Even a hole like your mom now think you aren't manly enough to get a hole and, so you deserve cock in your mouth to her.

And yet she thinks I’m full of shit when I say that women don’t want nice guys but dominant good looking males that treat them like garbage

 

[MuslimCell]

It's over for you, buddy boyo. Even a hole like your mom now think you aren't manly enough to get a hole and, so you deserve cock in your mouth to her.

brutal tbh .

 

[Monk of Failure]

And yet she thinks I’m full of shit when I say that women don’t want nice guys but dominant good looking males that treat them like garbage

Holes are made this way to hide holes' true nature or make it look innocent.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Holes are made this way to hide holes' true nature or make it look innocent.

May as well die then

 

[frustratedhapa]

I wonder how many gay men are actually desperate incels stooping that low

 

[Deleted member 101]

I wonder how many gay men are actually desperate incels stooping that low

I’ve heard of some incels being so desperate that they tried with men, even going all the way to sex
They never really ended well

 

[Monk of Failure]

May as well die then

You should have shown your dick to your mom to show your manliness.

 

[Deleted member 101]

You should have shown your dick to your mom to show your manliness.

I don’t live in Alabama

 

[Deleted member 250]

Idk how this came up (guess I was depressed and venting to my parents) and my mom said she sometimes wonders if I’d be happy if I were gay. Apparently she said that maybe gay men would be more okay with my more shy, awkward personality than women would be. Also that gay men are more forgiving on less attractive dudes. My parents both know that one of the main sources of my depression is over me never having a girlfriend.

Of course she keeps insisting on giving me dating advice (which I clearly don’t want as she’s a woman in her 60s, she doesn’t know shit). Today she was confused as to why I didn’t want to be social with some cute female cashier at Staples (had to drive her there to get something). She questioned why I didn’t “flirt”. I didn’t get into it because I didn’t want to argue but I was rather annoyed as I didn’t see any reason to banter with her. Obviously I’d have no chance with her and while she seemed friendly she didn’t pay any sort of attention to me. She keeps preaching that I should develop “game” (not in PUA sense of course she doesn’t know about that shit) as though I can just get girls by being good at talking. I’m not that good at talking to people (though I’ve bantered with people and make them laugh on occasion) but it just doesn’t work that way. She’s so bluepilled (expected for a woman, especially a middle aged one) that it’s annoying. I know she means well, I know she wants me to find happiness, but I would just rather her not ever bring up that shit.

Anyway idk how to feel about this. Either happy she feels for me and is concerned. Or mad about her thinking I’d be happier if I was gay. Would I be happier if I was gay? Maybe, but I’ll never know. Can’t exactly start finding dudes attractive.

Ask her if she would’ve dated your dad if he was a 5’4 balding Indian janitor with a great personality

 

[Deleted member 101]

Ask her if she would’ve dated your dad if he was a 5’4 balding Indian janitor with a great personality

She would probably say yes lol

 

[78980n]

Today she was confused as to why I didn’t want to be social with some cute female cashier at Staples (had to drive her there to get something). She questioned why I didn’t “flirt”.

Cringe

 

[Gymcelled]

Pretty sure some people around me think I'm gay. I'm not effeminate but they never seen me hanging out with a girl outside of class/work related stuff, and I don't even try to flirt.

I think my mom thinks I might be gay, or just a gay in denial.

Also her wondering why you didn't flirt with the hot cashier of the opposite sex is classic foid logic.

She can't comprehend that

1) No one has ever been attracted to you so you don't feel like trying
2) Men don't have chances or odds of getting someone outside of their league. Classic foid assumption
3) You might actually get in trouble for even trying these days. You might get the cops called on you or some whiteknight might come and start shit.

 

[The Incel Decade]

Gay men would fuck anything

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Time to blackpill her.

 

[Emergency Manual]

Don't worry, many guys on here are closeted homosexuals. Just go on the discord for a few minutes and you will know who. Kill yourself if you are gay.

 

[GenGene]

Incels should just fuck eachother teehee

 

[BrapZilian]

Fagmaxxing does work AFAIK but its not 100% true

 

[squirrelsonfire2]

End her life