My Name Jeff
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i haven't seen my dad in about 2 months and he called me last monday saying he was free this weekend so visit. i said okay i will come.
friday night he calls and says oh and by the way i need you to help me split some wood (he has done this forever 99% of my visits are just me doing physical labor for him)
i get there saturday and meet him. ask him how it's going and he acts annoyed i even asked. says he had another job for me. rototill the garden.
(google image of what rototilling is so you know)
he has a massive garden that he doesn't even maintain this would take me hours and then i would have to split wood after too
i get annoyed and say i don't want to. he starts saying he needs me to help him. i say you must think im a fucking idiot if i'm doing that because i said i would visit and help split a BIT of wood
he then gets angry and starts saying "okay fine i guess you can just sit around and watch me work" and "i wish i knew this was a visit where you just wanted to talk because i had stuff i needed to do"
he then tries to guilt. saying he needed me to do this for him. how he has no time. (he goes to the casino to gamble every other day and is retired so this makes no sense)
we are both in a bad mood and go inside and sit there awkwardly. i then say i'm just going to head out because this isn't really going well. he then says "fine just fucking leave. you won't even help me? you can visit me at my funeral" and he walks away
so yes my relationship with my dad just ended because i wouldn't rototill his fucking garden
friday night he calls and says oh and by the way i need you to help me split some wood (he has done this forever 99% of my visits are just me doing physical labor for him)
i get there saturday and meet him. ask him how it's going and he acts annoyed i even asked. says he had another job for me. rototill the garden.
(google image of what rototilling is so you know)
he has a massive garden that he doesn't even maintain this would take me hours and then i would have to split wood after too
i get annoyed and say i don't want to. he starts saying he needs me to help him. i say you must think im a fucking idiot if i'm doing that because i said i would visit and help split a BIT of wood
he then gets angry and starts saying "okay fine i guess you can just sit around and watch me work" and "i wish i knew this was a visit where you just wanted to talk because i had stuff i needed to do"
he then tries to guilt. saying he needed me to do this for him. how he has no time. (he goes to the casino to gamble every other day and is retired so this makes no sense)
we are both in a bad mood and go inside and sit there awkwardly. i then say i'm just going to head out because this isn't really going well. he then says "fine just fucking leave. you won't even help me? you can visit me at my funeral" and he walks away
so yes my relationship with my dad just ended because i wouldn't rototill his fucking garden
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