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Blackpill my parents upbringing contributed to my inceldom

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They were insanely strict and messed up my mentality.
  • I almost never was allowed to play video games till 16 (except birthday / new year), after 16, they allowed me to play 30 min max (with a timer) per day, given that I did all my homework, house tasks, etc. Games could not be violent (no GTA) so only racing. Braking the rule = scandal + game ban for weeks.
  • I was never allowed to visit friends. Between ages 6 - 18, I've visited my friends exactly 4 times. I remember clearly peeking behind my curtain at my friends playing and waiting for me.
  • Having a girl friend (a friend that is a girl) was not allowed (jfl, never had one or will)
  • Swearing (like saying 'shit') = scandal
  • Until 23, I had to show them all of my checks (internet, shops even like supermarkets)
  • Drinking alcohol was strictly prohibited until 23 (only champagne on New Years). Breaking the rule = beatings
  • Until 23, I had to go to sleep by 10:00 PM, staying later would result in scandal
  • I was not allowed to be angry or sad (I was once grounded for frowning at the dining table)

Their ideology was education + knowledge > social connections + friends

In the result:
1. I am ugly af due to their genetics

2. I am socially retarded, cannot build friendships or how to act in social connections, developed social anxiety, I am never sure / confident of my actions (as I always relied on approvement of my parents even for simple things like buying food). I DON'T GET SOCIAL CUES. My family says that I behave weird.

= 0 female friends in my whole life
= 0 male friends for the past 5 years (last one I had in school)
 
I almost never was allowed to play video games till 16 (except birthday / new year), after 16, they allowed me to play 30 min max (with a timer) per day, given that I did all my homework, house tasks, etc. Games could not be violent (no GTA) so only racing. Braking the rule = scandal + game ban for weeks.
You should be thanking the gods for this my friend. I spend my entire youth on vidya. It was good cope for the time being, but it leaves you with shitty health (such as decreased height due to inactivity) and loss of direction (you have no cultivated any skills/passion in your life)
 
What a fucking cucks
 
Your Parents sound like horrible people. how did you not kill them by now?
 
If they at least made sure that you train martial arts and eating healthy food . These tow things can't literally change your life but No.

EduCaTioN and FolLOWiNG ThE ruLeS iS MuCh BeTtEr.
 
how is your education tho
 
I am in med school, get good grades while having 0 social connections, social anxiety and general depressive disorder.

You gonna be a doctor? Whores love that. :chad::chad::chad::banhammer::banhammer::banhammer:.
 
I hate my parents too. It’s their fault I’m ugly and it’s their fault they made me socially akward and they made it harder for me to cope as a kid by being strict.
 
You would still be an incel don't worry about that, but your parents seems to owe you some RETRIBUTION
 
They were insanely strict and messed up my mentality.
  • I almost never was allowed to play video games till 16 (except birthday / new year), after 16, they allowed me to play 30 min max (with a timer) per day, given that I did all my homework, house tasks, etc. Games could not be violent (no GTA) so only racing. Braking the rule = scandal + game ban for weeks.
  • I was never allowed to visit friends. Between ages 6 - 18, I've visited my friends exactly 4 times. I remember clearly peeking behind my curtain at my friends playing and waiting for me.
  • Having a girl friend (a friend that is a girl) was not allowed (jfl, never had one or will)
  • Swearing (like saying 'shit') = scandal
  • Until 23, I had to show them all of my checks (internet, shops even like supermarkets)
  • Drinking alcohol was strictly prohibited until 23 (only champagne on New Years). Breaking the rule = beatings
  • Until 23, I had to go to sleep by 10:00 PM, staying later would result in scandal
  • I was not allowed to be angry or sad (I was once grounded for frowning at the dining table)

Their ideology was education + knowledge > social connections + friends

In the result:
1. I am ugly af due to their genetics

2. I am socially retarded, cannot build friendships or how to act in social connections, developed social anxiety, I am never sure / confident of my actions (as I always relied on approvement of my parents even for simple things like buying food). I DON'T GET SOCIAL CUES. My family says that I behave weird.

= 0 female friends in my whole life
= 0 male friends for the past 5 years (last one I had in school)
this is more common than you think...

a lot of gen X parents were just unprepared mentally weak dumbasses that never wanted kids, were not prepared for them, and didn't know what to do with them once they had them.

mentally they were exactly the same as this generation, they just weren't as enthusiastic with contraception.

they had kids, but they might as well have not had them. boys especially.
 
This is some elite tier helicopter parenting, probably already considered mental and physical abuse. Are u rice?
 
Tell them not us.
 
helicopter parenting is the main reason for inceldom unless youre a truecel subhuman. parents upbringing is very underrated here, but in reality if it wasn't for our stupid parents, it would have been a different world for us.
 
get revenge. get whatever inheritance you can ASAP, borrow a shit ton of money from them as much as you can and nevER pay it back.

visit then and "borrow" shit from their house
 
Get your revenge
 
helicopter parenting is the main reason for inceldom unless youre a truecel subhuman. parents upbringing is very underrated here, but in reality if it wasn't for our stupid parents, it would have been a different world for us.
 
Thread title is wrong btw.
 
They were insanely strict and messed up my mentality.
  • I almost never was allowed to play video games till 16 (except birthday / new year), after 16, they allowed me to play 30 min max (with a timer) per day, given that I did all my homework, house tasks, etc. Games could not be violent (no GTA) so only racing. Braking the rule = scandal + game ban for weeks.
I don't think this would have anything to do with being an incel. Video games are a recent phenomenon. I've personally played lots (including very violent once) and that didn't help me build relationships with women.
 

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