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It's Over My only friend has left me for a woman

fentacel

fentacel

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I usually have high standards when it comes to friends. There's guys I talk to from time to time, but they got better things going on, it even seems like they try to avoid talking to me. This guy however, he was different. We're both neurodivergent, outcasts, generally share the same interests and beliefs and he's claimed to be scared of women. If there was someone I felt understood by, it was him. He was a great friend up until the point he met a woman, somehow.
He hasn't told me when and how he met her, presumably because he might have known I wouldn't have been impressed by it. And that's right - I wouldn't be, at all. But at that point I've already reached a new low which makes me cling onto anything I got. I could have possibly tolerated it up until the point his whole life started to revolve around her.
For whatever reason, she was interested in him. As soon as they began having a relationship, he's put corny shit like "I am scared of women besides my love" in his social media bios, he matches profile pictures with her, he reposts retarded couple memes going "me and bae when we go though another pregnancy scare (it will happen again!!!)" :feelsrope:
HE'S HAD SEX. THIS RETARDED PIECE OF SHIT TOUCHED A WOMAN. "SCARED OF WOMEN" MY ASS
I first assumed it was an online relationship but apparently this guy had sex. He turned into a mindless slave for that whore.
The little time I've spent with him after his mind was consumed by that bitch, he couldn't talk about anything else no more. He kept going on about how he was so much better because girls want him now. I was fed up and left, one more minute of listening to his brainwashed ramblings and I would've beaten the fuck out of him.
I lost my only friend to a woman. It might have been my choice to leave him, but continuing to hang out with him in this state only would've been torture.
 
Time to make some new (and better) friends here brocel. :feelsLSD::feelsLSD::feelsLSD: :feelsautistic: :feelsautistic:
 
Your friend is very similar to the average incel (fakecel then) tho. Most of the users here are gonna end up exactly as him.
 
If she wasn't old, then he might get his heart shattered soon by the toilet. He could come back soon. But fuck him
 
He became a life mogger, we can only envy him.
 
ur friend is scum, if he disposes and disregards u for a foid hes a selfish faggot
 
That is messed up he is not a loyal friend
 
Wait a few weeks, and he'll come crawling back. After she's dumped him for the first Chad she sees. Or he catches her with Tyrone.
What you do then is up to you.
But at least you've learned a valuable lesson: Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy.
 
Could you try to dig up dirt on that whore or your "friend"? Maybe make anonymous accounts and spread rumors on insta/tiktok about him being a rapist or something. Best way to destroy them.
 
You are alone
 
I have only a single friend as well and he is dating someone at the moment. He asked me if I was jealous because I was clearly in distress whenever he mentioned it to me but I just kept saying no
 
Why wouldn't he, you won't birth his children. Then again if he changed who he was for her that's simping.
 
Tale as old as time
 
Lesson learned
 
We're both neurodivergent, outcasts, generally share the same interests and beliefs and he's claimed to be scared of women. If there was someone I felt understood by, it was him. He was a great friend up until the point he met a woman, somehow.
is he tall? or facially attractive.
 
I hate women a lot but I hate simps even more. Women have no leverage without simps
 
I had a friend do that to me once. His girlfriend hated that he was a former incel before he ascended and he turned into a cuck and she broke with up not long after to hop on Chads cock. This is why you shouldn't betray your brocels for some foidlet, those foids always turn out the same, those few moments of bluepill bliss will fall flat on your face in just a second once curtain is revealed.
 
is he tall? or facially attractive.
he's fairly tall, attractive-wise I can only say that he isn't something for normies. He's got long hair, bit of acne, I wouldn't say that he looks horrendous but it is about below-average.
 
Could you try to dig up dirt on that whore or your "friend"? Maybe make anonymous accounts and spread rumors on insta/tiktok about him being a rapist or something. Best way to destroy them.
I definitely could. Thing is that neither of them have an audience, so I have no idea if that would do anything
 
cool pfp,lets be friends brocel
 
>incel
>friend
We don't have friends.
 
I usually have high standards when it comes to friends. There's guys I talk to from time to time, but they got better things going on, it even seems like they try to avoid talking to me. This guy however, he was different. We're both neurodivergent, outcasts, generally share the same interests and beliefs and he's claimed to be scared of women. If there was someone I felt understood by, it was him. He was a great friend up until the point he met a woman, somehow.
He hasn't told me when and how he met her, presumably because he might have known I wouldn't have been impressed by it. And that's right - I wouldn't be, at all. But at that point I've already reached a new low which makes me cling onto anything I got. I could have possibly tolerated it up until the point his whole life started to revolve around her.
For whatever reason, she was interested in him. As soon as they began having a relationship, he's put corny shit like "I am scared of women besides my love" in his social media bios, he matches profile pictures with her, he reposts retarded couple memes going "me and bae when we go though another pregnancy scare (it will happen again!!!)" :feelsrope:
HE'S HAD SEX. THIS RETARDED PIECE OF SHIT TOUCHED A WOMAN. "SCARED OF WOMEN" MY ASS
I first assumed it was an online relationship but apparently this guy had sex. He turned into a mindless slave for that whore.
The little time I've spent with him after his mind was consumed by that bitch, he couldn't talk about anything else no more. He kept going on about how he was so much better because girls want him now. I was fed up and left, one more minute of listening to his brainwashed ramblings and I would've beaten the fuck out of him.
I lost my only friend to a woman. It might have been my choice to leave him, but continuing to hang out with him in this state only would've been torture.
Welcome to the club
 
there's no brotherhood
 
This never ends, boyo.

I have a case of this happening now and I'm old.
 
That's quite normal, dude been starved his whole life and only got a taste of "love". I'm sure everyone here would do the same, he probably doesn't even realize that he's growing apart from you, so don’t take it personally. And as a few comments have said: (un)fortunately once she breaks his heart he'll come crawling
 
Normies balance women and friends all the time. Not a good friend you had.
 
niggers will leave their best and lifelong friends for some used up hole
 
Sorry that happened to you OP.
 
Anything for pussy my friend

A person can be friends with someone and know him for 6 years but once a girl takes interest in him and only knows him for 2 weeks he will leave your ass to fuck that girl


Human behavior is such an interesting concept!
 
He dosn't seem that great tbh, he changed his tune pretty fast. So he was pathetic all along, not someone i would consider a friend. Maybe you were mistaken and thought of him as a friend but he was just another retard, if i were you i would be grateful to his gf instead for letting him show his true colors.

He got a girlfriend, so what? does that make him superior? does that mean he can piss on his friendships? nah fam, he's just a normie now. But he's a failure of a normie
 
As incels, our friends from school outgrow us. We soon become a social liability and a deadend to them. It happened to me. :feelsbadman:
 
Happened to me too

I found out he even got married and had a kid over the covid period. The worst part is we still talked over whatsapp every few months. But he didn’t think to tell me.

Normies lives go through stages. They're constantly moving onwards towards the finish line of mediocrity. But incels, we do they same shit forever. And thats why we must be left behind.
 
Wait a few weeks, and he'll come crawling back. After she's dumped him for the first Chad she sees. Or he catches her with Tyrone.
What you do then is up to you.
But at least you've learned a valuable lesson: Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy.
Best thing to take from this experience
 
He dosn't seem that great tbh, he changed his tune pretty fast. So he was pathetic all along, not someone i would consider a friend. Maybe you were mistaken and thought of him as a friend but he was just another retard, if i were you i would be grateful to his gf instead for letting him show his true colors.

He got a girlfriend, so what? does that make him superior? does that mean he can piss on his friendships? nah fam, he's just a normie now. But he's a failure of a normie
The behaviour of his friend isnt uncommon, most normies forget they ever had friends the second they get pussy. Thats why male brotherhood will never work among sub6/sub7 men
 
Wait a few weeks, and he'll come crawling back. After she's dumped him for the first Chad she sees. Or he catches her with Tyrone.
What you do then is up to you.
But at least you've learned a valuable lesson: Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy.

Indeed. Most men would instantly betray another man for a female.

I have only a single friend as well and he is dating someone at the moment. He asked me if I was jealous because I was clearly in distress whenever he mentioned it to me but I just kept saying no

He is trying to get some sort of reaction from you. What an absolute normie. If he tries this again, just ignore him. Do not even talk to him.
 
Indeed. Most men would instantly betray another man for a female.
Especially the younger ones (under 25). Their sex drive is particularly high, and many men almost die from thirst for pussy.
I might black pill that friend afterward if he comes crawling back. Maybe it will be successful.
 
Wait a few weeks, and he'll come crawling back. After she's dumped him for the first Chad she sees. Or he catches her with Tyrone.
What you do then is up to you.
But at least you've learned a valuable lesson: Most guys would throw you under the bus for a crumb of pussy.
 

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