My oneitis has not sent me a Christmas text yet

[LeagueEuW]

Only 2.5h left until midnight. Do i text her first?


At least my cat loves me.

 

[justforlulzandkeks]

>getting texts
normalfags OUT

 

[LeagueEuW]

>getting texts

Can you read?

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

Can you read?

You make it sound like she's sent you one before.

 

[LeagueEuW]

You make it sound like she's sent you one before.

Well if she doesn't send me a Christmas text then it's over.

 

[justforlulzandkeks]

Can you read?

I'm talking about texting in general

 

[non_factor]

Your cat's cute as fuck.

 

[LeagueEuW]

Your cat's cute as fuck.

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 1617]

I have NEVER received a text from any non-related female.

 

[PostMentalcel]

I think a girl asked me to borrow a pen in school. That was about the most interaction I had.

 

[Battlefield3cel]

Only 2.5h left until midnight. Do i text her first?

No. 

Good cat

 

[Bri8564]

Your oneitis is too busy sucking chad of to text you

 

[FiliumExMachina]

Same. I keep holding on to these useless high hopes that she'll remember me and call me, or at least send me a text.

I'm bound to be disappointed.

 

[lakb]

Don't people send on Christmas day? They don't send it before

 

[LeagueEuW]

No. 

Good cat

Yea, thanks god I didn't. Not gonna give her any clingy attention.
[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mw3IiyXZJds[/video]

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Don't people send on Christmas day? They don't send it before

I'm eurocel bro

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Your oneitis is too busy sucking chad of to text you

Yah, she got them blow job lips too. rip

 

[KV-]

Nobody sends or gets christmas texts besides low iq apes. I’m not denying the fact your chances are shit, but that’s not why. My family doesn’t even celebrate Christmas.

 

[Deleted member 2047]

At least my cat loves me.

Your cat plays with Chad when you aren't home

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

I have NEVER received a text from any non-related female.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

My oneitis doesnt even remember that i exist lol

 

[blickpall]

Look at me. I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.

Now look at you. You are a member here. You make posts here. You have a oneitis.

Back to me. We're reading the same words on the screen. We know what they mean. There are blackpills littered throughout the site.

BACK TO YOU. Look down at your phone. No messages for your "oneitis" bae.

BACK TO ME. My phone's been dead longer than some United States presidents.

BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

BACK TO ME. I'm looking at my screen with a sad expression, knowing that what I typed applies to all of us. I'm sorry that I was being harsh, but I'm also not. We need to stop the dependency we have on the sprinkles of validation that women drop on us occasionally as a passing thought, while bringing the mother lode home to Chad. I choose not to live on the scraps of another man. No more.

 

[QuantumDummy]

Look at me.  I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.

Now look at you. You are a member here. You make posts here. You have a oneitis.

Back to me. We're reading the same words on the screen. We know what they mean. There are blackpills littered throughout the site.

BACK TO YOU. Look down at your phone. No messages for your "oneitis" bae.

BACK TO ME. My phone's been dead longer than some United States presidents.

BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

BACK TO ME. I'm looking at my screen with a sad expression, knowing that what I typed applies to all of us. I'm sorry that I was being harsh, but I'm also not. We need to stop the dependency we have on the sprinkles of validation that women drop on us occasionally as a passing thought, while bringing the mother lode home to Chad. I choose not to live on the scraps of another man. No more.

Legit post. Thumbs up.

 

[asdf1234]

wtf, what country are you in? in aus, we've still got like 8 hours and I thought aus was ahead of most countries

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My family doesn’t even celebrate Christmas.

Asian families ftw

mine don't even celebrate birthdays or new years, only accomplishments (and even then it's not much of a celebration)

 

[KV-]

wtf, what country are you in? in aus, we've still got like 8 hours and I thought aus was ahead of most countries

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Asian families ftw

mine don't even celebrate birthdays or new years, only accomplishments (and even then it's not much of a celebration)

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We still celebrate Asian stuff like annual party for deceased family and lunar new year. Your family is more Asian than mine. That said though, we dont celebrate accomplishments, they just sort of get brushed off.

 

[Kointo1]

I'm talking about texting in general

The only people I text frequently are my mother, and.......no that's it.

 

[asdf1234]

Your family is more Asian than mine. That said though, we dont celebrate accomplishments, they just sort of get brushed off.

I think it's the other way round bud, my family don't give two shits about lunar new year. And we only celebrate accomplishments cause they're pretty hard to come by for us, I'm asian but usually only get like average grades

 

[Kointo1]

Look at me.  I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.

Now look at you. You are a member here. You make posts here. You have a oneitis.

Back to me. We're reading the same words on the screen. We know what they mean. There are blackpills littered throughout the site.

BACK TO YOU. Look down at your phone. No messages for your "oneitis" bae.

BACK TO ME. My phone's been dead longer than some United States presidents.

BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

BACK TO ME. I'm looking at my screen with a sad expression, knowing that what I typed applies to all of us. I'm sorry that I was being harsh, but I'm also not. We need to stop the dependency we have on the sprinkles of validation that women drop on us occasionally as a passing thought, while bringing the mother lode home to Chad. I choose not to live on the scraps of another man. No more.

P R E A C H   B R O T H E R

 

[whogivesafucc]

I have NEVER received a text from any non-related female.

Same boat

 

[Deleted member 60]

try again on NYE. Ensure you are drunk for best results.

 

[anincelforlifelol]

Fucking pathetic.

 

[Richard spencer]

Maybe her phone was dead...yeah that was definitely the reason.

 

[LeagueEuW]

Look at me.  I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.



BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

:'( Hello darkness my old friend  :'(
I can not turn off my validation seeking brain. 
She aksed me to come to her party this friday, but I had too much anxiety so I pretended to be sick. 
Probably blew it for good. Being a  hyper self conscious mentalcel is torture. 
Phenibut is my only hope.

 

[FeminismsCancer]

Pffff that reminds me of how I sent xmas cards to my crushes and some did reply out of courtesy but it never meant anything.

 

[nausea]

Only 2.5h left until midnight. Do i text her first?

At least my cat loves me.

STOP THAT ONEITIS CRAP IMMEDDIATELY

yes, my cat is life fuel kittie

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Translation: “There is a female in the world who I am attracted to and knows I exist”

Who the fuck let this chad in??

 

[Sub8Hate]

I'm also all set with having a oneitis. It never works out anyway.

OP don't waste your time and energy on a high value femoid that will never fuck you.

 

[lakb]

She was probably texting 5 other guys she keeps in contact with along with 3 other Chad guys she matched with on a dating app. You are completely irrelevant to her while you daydream about things that will never come true.

 

[oilonthe-Rose]

Mine hasn't either. Kill me

 

[modus_coperandi]

Look at me.  I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.

Now look at you. You are a member here. You make posts here. You have a oneitis.

Back to me. We're reading the same words on the screen. We know what they mean. There are blackpills littered throughout the site.

BACK TO YOU. Look down at your phone. No messages for your "oneitis" bae.

BACK TO ME. My phone's been dead longer than some United States presidents.

BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

BACK TO ME. I'm looking at my screen with a sad expression, knowing that what I typed applies to all of us. I'm sorry that I was being harsh, but I'm also not. We need to stop the dependency we have on the sprinkles of validation that women drop on us occasionally as a passing thought, while bringing the mother lode home to Chad. I choose not to live on the scraps of another man. No more.

Beautifully written.

 

[nausea]

Look at me.  I am a moderator of incels.is. This forum is for incels.

Now look at you. You are a member here. You make posts here. You have a oneitis.

Back to me. We're reading the same words on the screen. We know what they mean. There are blackpills littered throughout the site.

BACK TO YOU. Look down at your phone. No messages for your "oneitis" bae.

BACK TO ME. My phone's been dead longer than some United States presidents.

BACK TO YOU. This is where we are, what we are, who we are, what we do, what we get. Never forget it. Expecting texts from your oneitis is like waiting for another meal in prison. They keep you fed and docile so you don't rattle the cage. They keep you in line, waiting for that morsel of food to fill your tummy and make you feel like you can actually cope through this. Fuck that. If she hasn't given you the time of day up until now then what do you think will change on Christmas? Will she stop answering the slew of texts she gets from Chads and orbiters for a second to think, "Hey, there was that one awkward guy who seemed like he liked me, maybe I should reach out to him and wish him happy holidays?" For what lmao. What does she need you for. If she wants validation, Chad is just a button press away.

BACK TO ME. I'm looking at my screen with a sad expression, knowing that what I typed applies to all of us. I'm sorry that I was being harsh, but I'm also not. We need to stop the dependency we have on the sprinkles of validation that women drop on us occasionally as a passing thought, while bringing the mother lode home to Chad. I choose not to live on the scraps of another man. No more.

FUCKING GLORIOUS

QUOTE YOURSELF the next community highlight

 

[blickpall]

I can not turn off my validation seeking brain.

I feel you on this. Trust me. But we must always remember the truth, never forget that we are chained to the rock of reality.

She aksed me to come to her party this friday, but I had too much anxiety so I pretended to be sick.
Probably blew it for good. Being a hyper self conscious mentalcel is torture.

I've done this many times too brother, I think we are very similar. But since you blew the invitation, it's not a good look at all. I think that technically, if she invited you and you couldn't go, you were the one that was supposed to text her I think. That's how validation exchange goes afaik. I'm not very good at these things ever but that's one pattern I noticed and one I try to enforce to prevent myself from falling into that validation expectation position or from over-validating the other person.

@QuantumDummy @Kointo @modus_coperandi thank you, @nausea your wish = my command.

 

[KV-]

I feel you on this. Trust me. But we must always remember the truth, never forget that we are chained to the rock of reality.


I've done this many times too brother, I think we are very similar. But since you blew the invitation, it's not a good look at all. I think that technically, if she invited you and you couldn't go, you were the one that was supposed to text her I think. That's how validation exchange goes afaik. I'm not very good at these things ever but that's one pattern I noticed and one I try to enforce to prevent myself from falling into that validation expectation position or from over-validating the other person.

@QuantumDummy @Kointo @modus_coperandi thank you, @nausea your wish = my command.

As someone with a social circle jfl @ thinking validation is exchanged. Validation isn’t exchanged. Validation is reserved for those at the top of society in disproportionate amounts and DENIED to those at the bottom.

 

[blickpall]

As someone with a social circle jfl @ thinking validation is exchanged. Validation isn’t exchanged. Validation is reserved for those at the top of society in disproportionate amounts and DENIED to those at the bottom.

Ok, maybe I didn't phrase myself clearly enough. Here's what I intended to encompass:

1. You give validation to them -> They don't give you validation back -> You stop giving them validation. Maybe a second chance if you're desperate/some extenuating circumstance but otherwise, fuck that ish.
2. They give you validation -> You give them validation back. She invited him, he rebuked the invitation, but he should have texted her. This is normal functioning.
3. They give you validation -> You don't give them validation back. You either think you are above them, don't want them in your life, or are socially inept.

 

[KV-]

Ok, maybe I didn't phrase myself clearly enough. Here's what I intended to encompass:

1. You give validation to them -> They don't give you validation back -> You stop giving them validation. Maybe a second chance if you're desperate/some extenuating circumstance but otherwise, fuck that ish.
2. They give you validation -> You give them validation back. She invited him, he rebuked the invitation, but he should have texted her. This is normal functioning.
3. They give you validation -> You don't give them validation back. You either think you are above them, don't want them in your life, or are socially inept.

If she is his oneitis he probs validated her without any in return plenty

 

[blickpall]

If she is his oneitis he probs validated her without any in return plenty

She invited him to her party, that seems like at least a somewhat healthy interrelationship.