I'ma share something with you. My real mom died, and rightfully so, the woman that would fail as terribly as she did was my step mom. She was middle class, had fridge full of food, got to go on trips, even ate with pharaoh (the rich people), her mother was from the Philippines and her dad was an American. To make a long story short, her mother traumatized her & she looked to her dad when she could, but his attitude was "just do what mom says", so as you can guess it was a nice place to live and grow up in, however there were issues never resolved.
This woman became a foreigner by one choice, it was during last Christmas and that decrepit dad kicked her, lets just say I did something I regret, because right after that asshole was gone for a few days, do you want to know what she chose to do? She chose to let the abuser back into the house hold not even two days later. It broke me, but not before she should suffer the same fate as I- look, just stop talking with your mom, she's never going to try to understand your plight or your misery- I tried talking to this step mom and she never bothered with me, she did as she wanted, went to school, had a social life, but as a kid- as I grew up I began to see the cracks.
She would allow that animal to verbally abuse me, when I told her he had physically abused me, she went on with life as if normal. There is a hole on my door and you know why? Because that idiot threatened me over an oil leak from my car, and what did she do? Nothing, let it happen- continued as if life was a normal day. Most relationships are the woman trying to circumvent the dad "go ahead and go to the party, just don't tell your dad", or trying to dampen the pain by soft words or lying.
I'm sorry mijo, but your mom's not gonna get, when they have and you have not, your experience is yours alone. I'm sorry mijo, you have only yourself and the people here that do care about you, but when you turn off that screen you have only yourself. I'm sorry mijo.
