@neurobased I understand you, I really like Evangelion and I'm planning to buy some action figures and products from it (soy I know, but Evangelion helped me overcome depression)
Regardless of whether the anime is about little girls, if it is something that inspires you or that you simply like, I see no harm in the having it, as long as you are not sexually attracted to the characters.
Good animes like azumanga daioh, nichijou They are centered on typical lolis but they are good animes because they are funny and creative (even though I haven't watched much of either)
Most anime with lolis are lame and sexualized but there are exceptions