Therapywasaaste
"When I look in the mirror, I throw up."
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I use my mother's laptop to do schoolwork from home (she has two my sister uses the other one). During zoom meetings I go on .co. I was coming back inside after a run today and my mom was on the computer I was using. I had a check in with my psychiatrist over zoom that was gonna start. I hadn't logged out or closed the tab it was on though. when I first walked in she didn't mention it she was just trying to get in to the zoom but couldn't. she ended up just using the other computer because the login information was saved on it (I don't know why she didn't just use that one in the first place).
While we were waiting for the meeting to start she asked my why I was on incel forums I just told her "I dunno" she asked me if I identified with incels I lied and said I didn't she basically talked about how we're a bad group and I shouldn't get involved with it. I tried to tell her incels aren't bad and she asked me what the name means (she knows what it means she was just acting like being incel is a bad thing). She asked me "and what's their philosophy?" which there is no "incel philosophy" we all have different thoughts on it. she didn't seem to agree with me on that but that's when we stopped talking about it and waited for the meeting.
She didn't mention anything about the incel community during the meeting or since then. I'm still not sure she believes I'm not identifying with the community (I say it like that because she wouldn't think that I'm an incel she doesn't think of it as being involuntarily celibate, literally what it memes, but she's one of those people who thinks that you can be involuntarily celibate without being incel, which doesn't make any sense).
I don't really know what to do about this.
While we were waiting for the meeting to start she asked my why I was on incel forums I just told her "I dunno" she asked me if I identified with incels I lied and said I didn't she basically talked about how we're a bad group and I shouldn't get involved with it. I tried to tell her incels aren't bad and she asked me what the name means (she knows what it means she was just acting like being incel is a bad thing). She asked me "and what's their philosophy?" which there is no "incel philosophy" we all have different thoughts on it. she didn't seem to agree with me on that but that's when we stopped talking about it and waited for the meeting.
She didn't mention anything about the incel community during the meeting or since then. I'm still not sure she believes I'm not identifying with the community (I say it like that because she wouldn't think that I'm an incel she doesn't think of it as being involuntarily celibate, literally what it memes, but she's one of those people who thinks that you can be involuntarily celibate without being incel, which doesn't make any sense).
I don't really know what to do about this.